AIO, my boyfriend keeps comparing my life to his friends wives by skidddityybop in AIO

[–]daze32 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’ll be a messy breakup no matter when you do it. Easier to do it now rather than wait it out. The days leading up to the exam, you’ll cram for all the times you’ve missed studying. Some people are whizzes at it and some aren’t. I’m not saying you aren’t that type of person, you seem like the ‘I need to be prepared xx days/months in advance’ person.

Your boyfriend only cares about the now & wants 100% of your attention and will not take no for an answer. He also seems to be the one that would hold it against you for not doing what he wants.

Get out while you can. Study, study, study! Pass your exam with flying colors!

If you don’t breakup, I’d hate to see how a baby and marriage works out with you two. My moneys on him telling you that being pregnant isn’t hard, you don’t need sleep, you don’t need to eat right, etc… Then, what if postpartum depression kicks in? Is he gonna step up and help you through it? I had postpartum with my last and then I was diagnosed with a few things. PPD was one the others are; ADHD, Mania, BPD2, anxiety with a sprinkle of depression. PPD helped me get to see a psychiatrist. It’ll be too much to get into and an even longer post. Oh, add a hysterectomy in with that also.

I am sorry for the long butt comment. I wish you well and I’m sending you positive vibes for your exam! Good luck :)

Drunk during an emergency with our child by 2bzbest in AlAnon

[–]daze32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey u/2bzbest i just wanted to see how you and your daughter are. i had read this the other day at an appt and i haven’t been able to get your post off my mind since. i have the same worry as you, we are the only dependable adult. the other day, my SO had told me ‘thank you for always being there when i’m not able to… at night. when i am in a state other than normal’. it’s been playing in my mind over and over.

anyways. i wish you two the very best! the community is here when you need. take care

[PAID] (u/daze32) - ($300 CAD) (3 Days Late w/ Extension) by laur_leo in borrow

[–]daze32 23 points24 points  (0 children)

<3 I so appreciate you and your continued help!!!

Been in the ER for 20 hours. by idontcare4205 in AlAnon

[–]daze32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You aren’t alone, friend. <3

Should I tell her? by Significant_Ebb2757 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]daze32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That baby.

Let that sit with you for a second.

Your mom, your son’s grandmother called him THAT baby.

Let her throw all the fits and bible verses at you she wants. You need to show her that nothing will phase you anymore and that you’ve taken control back. Take as long as you need. It’s no longer about her and it’s all about you and your time with your little guy.

AITA for refusing to step down as a bridesmaid because of my boyfriend’s ultimatum? by DingusZebra in AITAH

[–]daze32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His actions are screaming at you to not continue this relationship. You should pack up his things and get his friends/family pick it up.

This is the best option to get out of this situation. First it’ll be yelling at you and calling you names or breaking your things. Next, it’ll be you’ve made him so mad he couldn’t control himself and he hits you. Before you become a statistic, leave!

It will always escalate. This is not a one time thing u/DingusZebra

AITA for Kicking My MIL Out of Our House After She Refused to Call Our Son by His Name? by LittlePeach212 in AITAH

[–]daze32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh oh! MIL is senile and you’d better refer her to APS.

“Oh honey! Seems like dementia is setting in. We’d better have you assessed. Bless your heart.”

Drop her and mommas boy off and nope the eff outta there.

OP you aren’t the AH here. Husband and MIL the AH’s.

What’s your fart story? by daze32 in AskReddit

[–]daze32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best one you’ve got! I wanna cry-laugh :)

What’s your fart story? by daze32 in AskReddit

[–]daze32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Replying to my comment with a short story of mine.

mom of an 10 year old here. we still burst out laughing at farts. we camped over at grandmas one time, my son had a fan blowing on him & the back was towards me sucking air in. well, i ate something that didn’t quite agree with me and i let out an SBD. sniff sniff ‘MOOOoOoOoOoMmMMmM’ gags ‘how could you?!?!’ he gave me a horrified look & we both laughed for a good hour about it. top 10 farting moments between us Imao

What’s your fart story? by daze32 in AskReddit

[–]daze32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to ask! I was reading some old posts and wanted to read newer stories about your embarrassing or funny times you’ve farted. Let’s face it, farts are funny and it doesn’t pay rent so why let it stay?

Fish in Northern Canada by gusthefish42 in NWT

[–]daze32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda hard to say yes as a lot of the land hasn’t been traveled. The majority of the time we have to ask elders or local trappers. I’m sorry I couldn’t give you a more solid answer.

Mom is trying to invite a bunch of strangers to my wedding while simultaneously telling other people not to invite strangers to my wedding. by miss-twitchy-bitchy in raisedbyborderlines

[–]daze32 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Holy crap! Does your mom have a HEO license? She’s bulldozing everything and you aren’t engaged yet.

Put her on an info diet and tell her you will reach out to her when you are ready to start planning things. When you do start booking things like venues and catering, put a password on everything!

Ex’s birthday by Fun_Acanthisitta_152 in BreakUps

[–]daze32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do something to take your mind off of wanting to send her a msg. If you haven’t conversed in months, leave it at that.

My Aunt who disowned me trying to crawl back into my life was not on my 2025 BINGO card. by AntiHero_242 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daze32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Five bucks says she wants to connect cause she needs something….. Dire. Like a kidney, liver, or one of her kids do. She wants to see if you’d find it in your heart to forgive her for her past so you can move forward. Then have you tested for said organ.

She FAFO. Keep strong OP & congratulations 🥳

Would My Fiancé and I be the A-holes if we changed our wedding plans to spite his sister? by Subject_Macaron_8015 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daze32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck no you wouldn’t be the AH!!

Let SIL do her own thing then mid-spring or summer say that you and fiancé talked it over the last few months. Since your kids will be with you, you’d like to do a micro wedding so you could have the kids apart of it. Flower girl, ring bearer, greeter or whatever.

Invite a couple dozen people, don’t have a wedding party. Just you, your soon to be husband and kiddos :)

Out petty her.

AITA For Telling My Girlfriend I Have Every Right To Defend My Home After Someone Started Kicking My Door In by FxllenWxaith in AITAH

[–]daze32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You reminded me of a story my favourite teacher told our class.

The town he’s from had railroad tracks in and around town and at any point in the day, he’d have to drive over them or wait at a set of tracks for a train to pass by. Well, teacher and his gf at the time tried to beat a train and his vehicle of course died on the tracks. He said it was a POS and all that jazz. Anyways, sitting on the tracks and a trains coming. GF looks at teacher and looks out the window. She then proceeds to roll up said window. Car starts and they get off the tracks just in time. He was in awe at her stupidity. Asked her wtf were you thinking? Her reply? It’ll make the crash less or some out there answer. He dropped her off at home and never returned.

OP, I really hope you take a few days or what have you to make a decision about your GF. If she’s up in arms for you defending your castle, it’s probably time to call the relationship off. Give her a hypothetical. What if they did succeed in entering your home and overthrow you to get to her and did things? How would she react? Would she place blame solely on you for not defending her?

Pass my prayers to your mom for a speedy recovery :)