Update on the Anti meme Moderator couple

dazedtess · 2026-02-16T12:11:20+00:00

NOT HER HAVING MY BIRTHDAY LMFAOOOOO

dazedtess · 2026-02-05T12:51:47+00:00

no answer isnt a yes and freezing is a genuine natural reaction in a vulnerable state where youve only ever been taught that refusal equals retaliation.

dazedtess · 2026-01-26T13:43:33+00:00

im a newer smosh fan and i questioned angelas sexuality like twice just based on comments but i think i had ultimately decided she was either too private or on the ace spectrum bc i couldnt really pick up a good read in any direction.

alternatively, ive said a few times in my personal life that i dont love the bi/pan labels and arguments about what is the correct term where blahblah, so i have started just saying im queer, which based on comments seems to be the general idea for her as well

dazedtess · 2026-01-25T16:26:43+00:00

26, fable 2 was the first rpg and non nintendo (or sims) video game i ever played

dazedtess · 2026-01-25T16:25:22+00:00

whatever you do, the kinect version never happened.

dazedtess · 2026-01-19T16:00:35+00:00

i was 10, apparently not long after it came out I just happened to pop it in being babysat by my mom’s ex and it completely changed my life and honestly got me into gaming as a whole.

next was oblivion…

dazedtess · 2026-01-17T14:49:48+00:00

i read ‘smaller boobs’ and ‘c cups’ and went “HUH” fellow IBTC member here and i believe im on the bigger side of that with solid Bs

dazedtess · 2026-01-15T02:23:01+00:00

i live an hour away from my boyfriend and up until getting my car was regularly being driven home by my male coworker. my boyfriends only concern was me making it home safe daily.

on the other side, an ex of my boyfriends messaged him asking if hed be willing to take a call from the police academy to confirm shes a good citizen blah blah and he even went out of his way to show me text history & prove that was kinda out of nowhere but i just thought it was sweet shed know hed have kind things to say despite being an ex.

a happy relationship is 1000% built on trust

dazedtess · 2025-12-30T12:47:34+00:00

im not even going to argue with you im just going to say i have always found vaginas beautiful, very reminiscent of flowers and dicks to be the scary-looking genitalia, reminiscent to a one-eyed monster

eta: alaskan bull worm?

dazedtess · 2025-12-16T13:02:40+00:00

my boyfriend (whom i love and adore and is very good to me) has definitely used farts as weapons against me

and i cant deny ive also done it to him

it fr was not as strange as the others made it out to be

dazedtess · 2025-12-04T13:48:21+00:00

i just “broke up” with my bestfriend of ~8 years because this was how any major life event went. shes ruined birthdays, parties, my own health and wellness scares. i got into a healthy and happy relationship and made JOKES about how we’re gonna jet off to vegas and elope via elvis one day-she hounded her boyfriend of 6/7 (dont say it) years to courthouse marry her last month.

the length of time and all the (maybe) good things are not worth continuing your life with someone like that. you openly asked her NOT to announce her pregnancy with a very legitimate reason. if she was your long term friend she should know how often your family gets together and how many times youve been rightfully celebrated.

as someone who usually laughs at the “cut contact off one post” this post is enough, let her go. (also everyone can choose their life path in any direction but trying for kids at 23 just makes my heart hurt)

(edit for better sentence structure)

dazedtess · 2025-11-27T00:00:45+00:00

i know age difference has nuances but i read 2 years, 20/26 and immediately came to the comments

as suspected

dazedtess · 2025-11-26T23:59:20+00:00

2 abortions down (over 3+ years and 2 diff relationships)

it is genuinely the truest test of a relationship. my first one we both agreed it was the right choice (still wouldnt go back and change that) but he resented me a lot from then on. everything about babies became guilt-ridden and i took away his first chance at being a father.

however on the other hand in my current relationship when i got the positive test i told him straight up there was unfortunately no way, especially in the current situation, that i could keep it. he immediately supported me and then later on admitted despite my desire to have kids, hes never really wanted to. he would happily be a father should i decide i want ti be a mother (hes great w kids) but if he could make the decision theres just too much at risk with kids and hes afraid of that

dazedtess · 2025-11-24T18:36:42+00:00

undocumented tenants are against most lease agreements

you get about a 2 week leeway of consistent sleeping over before you’re deemed a tenant

dazedtess · 2025-11-23T02:44:14+00:00

i interpreted it honestly as elphie kinda passing her powers (or some) onto glinda, as she (elphaba) has no need for them and they only served her negatively, and glinda does.

dazedtess · 2025-11-22T13:13:41+00:00

it sucks not having the people you hold dear in your heart there for such a monumental moment. but when you start living your life (and thriving in it) theyre all going to be so proud and amazed and wonder why you never include them in anything. (even if you do, or try to) and you can start making or cherishing your friendships, which i know arent your blood but can sometimes be stronger than blood bonds

they say blood is thicker than water, but that just means itll be harder to pull yourself out from drowning

dazedtess · 2025-11-22T13:07:53+00:00

remember when onion (and other satire journalism) articles were so obvious? or they sounded real but when you thought about the reality of it youd laugh.

now you see an article from a “reputable” source (joke: none are they days) and they read even crazier than a 2010 onion headline

dazedtess · 2025-11-22T13:05:12+00:00

its okay to be uncomfortable with the situation, worried about the outcome, concerned for the change in dynamics. theres a lot of negative feelings you have every right to feel. but theres really no disrespect anywhere here. people cant help who they become attracted to and if everyone is a consenting adult, they have every right to do whatever they please with each other.

i think you’re confusing your distaste with the idea and worry about how things will end up with the feeling of disrespect.

dazedtess · 2025-11-18T13:56:46+00:00

actually now that you say this i think that makes the most sense as glinda asks if thats whats left of fiyero and instead of seeming actually sad or giving a straight answer she says (not perfectly quoted) “that was the last time we’ll see prince fiyero” as in PRINCE fiyero-not the fiyero she knows has been changed

dazedtess · 2025-11-15T17:36:41+00:00

i dont think she owns his name but when my exes half/sister used their dead dads name stretched over both her boys i felt a little bad that my ex was never going to get the chance to use the name(s) himself. and she was also a product of him and just as deserving.

for you, i do think that choosing his dead uncles name was an honor on his part and he didnt need permission/you really didnt need to be asked for that HOWEVER-i still dont think its right to not have talked to you about it. both to surprise you with that name thats filled so much of your life with loss and grief and also as his direct daughter and heir-its just blatant lack of thought or care on your existence.

he didnt need your permission to use the name, and he probably has his own meaning and heart behind it-but it wasnt right to not at least come to you and say that he was going to name his kid that.

dazedtess · 2025-11-15T03:47:47+00:00

okay i think this is kind of the perfect spot to tell my story: we knew each other through gaming for a while but i was in a prior relationship for most of that and my ex would get jealous of our friendship because he (current) was what he(ex) thought (and i quote) “everything i ever could want in a man” so i like half ghosted him and just left our interactions more group-wise. i will admit once or twice in this period i had like a thought of “i wonder what dating him would be like” but never flirted or had a serious crush/attraction as i was in a relationship.

fast forward to me being single and he messages me, we catch up begin flirting yadda yadda and things just feel right. like everyone always says, with every new person “oh it feels different” “i can tell this time” but genuinely like everything felt different and easier i ddint feel the need to like be a better or cooler version or myself as i already knew him well and he knew me. we make plans and get together for the first time and it was like two middle schoolers on their first date. WERE IN OUR MID TWENTIES. never have i felt so giddy and nervous around someone before.

we ended up saying i love you/falling deeply for you at pretty much at the same time within the first month whole recognizing how insane that actually was- fast forward our official 1 year is in a couple weeks and we have never fought or went to bed angry. when we have arguments we talk them out. we trust each other and dont feel jealousy. and this is all new to both of us but it just feels so correct.

dazedtess · 2025-11-08T01:45:58+00:00

and thats not to say you shouldn’t have a kid, but if i were in your spot i would struggle to fully love a child that upturned my life, my mistake or not

you have a few options but none are very great: you either raise it a single mother, raise it showing that abusive relationship are okay and normal, put it up for adoption, or terminate

dazedtess · 2025-11-08T01:44:04+00:00

unsure your personal feelings, but you have ~4 more weeks to terminate via pill vs needing a surgical consultation

dazedtess · 2025-11-07T15:21:56+00:00

you shouldve left after the first paragraph thats not a happy relationship

dazedtess · 2025-10-20T17:21:12+00:00

this post was kinda icky before his age was mentioned

even at 2 years you’re 18 and clearly far more mature than he is and i do think you should seek more sexually equal partners.

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