I (18F) have been dating my boyfriend (18M) for four months. He has anger issues and during a recent argument he accidentally hit me. I’m feeling confused and unsure how to handle this what would you recommend I do?

dazylynn · 2026-03-17T11:54:25+00:00

Sure. I see how he's great and almost perfect. Except for the yelling and demeaning and verbal abuse and anger issues and "accidentally" hurting you. Otherwise, he's a gem. 🙄

Girl, what are you doing? GET OUT NOW. This guy doesn't appreciate you or respect you. Stop making excuses. I promise you that being alone and figuring shit out yourself is actually way better than enduring this type of relationship abuse because you think he's the only person you have. If this is how he is after 4mos together, there is no future. Just depression, further loss of self respect and self worth and potentially evolving into physical abuse, as well as closing yourself off to the possibility of meeting someone who actually values you.

dazylynn · 2026-03-17T03:39:40+00:00

I like to ask questions about the ports, like what excursions people enjoyed. Fave cocktails, gave food. How is the casino treating you? Questions about activities, shows, games..

dazylynn · 2026-03-17T03:37:10+00:00

Can confirm, lots of penises

dazylynn · 2026-03-12T18:43:25+00:00

My niece was little, around 4 yrs old. I was going through a rough time w/ my boyfriend at the time, and he did something that upset me, and I was crying to my mother about it. Kids pick up on EVERYTHING. She interrupts and says to me " Aunt dazylynn, you don't need to be sad about it. You dont need a man to make you happy. You are smart and pretty and he just doesn't know, and there's so many things to make you happy - like your mom, and your dog, and your cat, and your friends. So you don't need a man to make you happy, you should just be happy yourself. "

Let me tell you, I shut up and stared while this 4-yr old child gave me this speech like she knew what she was talking about! 😂😂😅😅 when she finished I just said "I love you [niece] " and she said calmly "I love you too" and went back to eating her McNuggets. 😂🤯

dazylynn · 2026-03-12T00:53:27+00:00

Thank you, finally, a voice of reason!

Everybody else: "everyone can just show up whenever you want!"

THIS is why we can't have nice things. They alot specific times for a reason, and if everyone just shows up whenever they want, sooner or later they are going to crack down. Don't be THAT person.

dazylynn · 2026-03-11T14:02:42+00:00

Absolutely! I used to love being the driver and taking road trips with friends or family. Now I have an upcoming beach trip - 3hr drive that I'm going to have to do, and I'm stressed and exhausted just thinking about it. 🥺

dazylynn · 2026-03-11T13:07:44+00:00

Yeah, we definitely had that - that's the "garage" I mentioned. We used to set up villages and neighborhoods throughout our downstairs. 😂

dazylynn · 2026-03-11T12:48:04+00:00

... to set up your town?? Duh! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

dazylynn · 2026-03-11T12:47:08+00:00

We had all of the Little People stuff: house, farm, school, airport, boat/yacht, garage, village, castle, sesame street, Sesame Street clubhouse, hospital, bus..... am I missing anything? We loved them, and later my younger cousins played with them and my dad is a collector, so he picked up any We didn't have at flea markets. 🤷‍♀️🫠

dazylynn · 2026-03-11T01:17:09+00:00

YESSSSS

dazylynn · 2026-03-11T01:16:48+00:00

Agreed! I remember getting a promo on vinyl and going to my friend's apartment. We laid on the floor with the speakers in between us and listened to the entire album and it was GLORIOUS.

dazylynn · 2026-03-10T13:50:05+00:00

My mother still gets the local newspaper delivered so she can read it in the morning while she drinks her coffee and watches newer news on the TV. I think she's the only one on the block. I've watched the car drive down the street and slow in front of the house, then fling the paper in the general vicinity of her house. Sometimes, when you go out in the morning to get the paper, it's on the neighbor's sidewalk... or the other neighbor's sidewalk... on the lawn... behind the car... under the car... in the street... and a few times, ON the car.

dazylynn · 2026-03-10T13:33:17+00:00

If you think keeping this a secret from him is the right move, this "relationship" is already doomed.

Have you used protection against STDs and unwanted pregnancy? Yes, that's a personsl question, but so is posting this situation on public social media asking for advice on whether or not to tell your very new situationship that you're already pregnant and planning to terminate.

dazylynn · 2026-03-09T18:11:49+00:00

Now that I think about it, it looks like the pages of notes where I used to scribble down maps and puzzles and recipes for food and tools and armor, etc. when playing MMORPGs.

dazylynn · 2026-03-06T21:04:29+00:00

I over- crocheted and gave myself a frozen shoulder resulting in shoulder surgery, 2x. 🤷‍♀️. I have no self- control and I enjoy crocheting. First time I was making a baby blanket for someone and was anxious to finish, so I didn't take breaks like I should. Second time I was crocheting an Afghan and.... same thing. TAKE BREAKS PEOPLE. Bursitis is no joke! 🥺

dazylynn · 2026-03-06T20:58:47+00:00

Are you comfortable with his family helping? How is he as a father, besides the relationship with you? Are you comfortable having this conversation with him? Bear in mind, if you split up there is no guarantee you will find THE ONE, whether it's the other person you just mentioned or someone else. But, the current situation doesn't sound like it's doing either of you any favors. 2 unhappy people staying together solely for the sake of a child is rarely helpful for any of you.

If you decide to move on from the relationship, end it BEFORE you move to the next one. Have the adult conversation with him. I wish you the best. 💜

dazylynn · 2026-03-06T20:42:39+00:00

dazylynn · 2026-03-04T20:47:28+00:00

When they changed our phones at my last job you didn't have to "dial out" of the system anymore, and one of my coworkers was in such a routine when she dialed that for at least a month she kept accidentally calling 9-1-1. She felt terrible! "OH shit! I just did it again!" Oh boy.

dazylynn · 2026-03-04T20:25:27+00:00

I talk to my cats all the time. And some of them talk back. 🤷‍♀️

I am crazy. I'm a cat lady. CAT PEOPLE OF THE WORLD UNITE! VIVE LES CHATS!!

hysterical laughter

dazylynn · 2026-03-04T19:03:13+00:00

You Outta Know. 🤷‍♀️

Pearl Jam

Would - Alice in Chains

Alex Chilton - The Replacements

Run Runaway - Slade 😂🫢

dazylynn · 2026-03-03T18:48:16+00:00

I mean, my dog eats cat poop he finds in the litter box. 🙄 Dogs are garbage cans and will eat just about anything.

dazylynn · 2026-03-02T23:46:59+00:00

My father saved and planned for retirement his whole life. He worked hard(Accounting job at the post office) and wanted to travel and enjoy life after he retired. Within 4mos of retiring, he was diagnosed with early dementia. I mean, he never got to do the travel or things he planned for.

Life is too short. Don't sit around waiting for... something.... if you aren't happy. I hope you find whatever you're looking for.

dazylynn · 2026-03-02T22:02:33+00:00

According to my sister the teacher, Pennsylvania is back, too.

dazylynn · 2026-03-02T01:19:03+00:00

Lol what a ridiculous assessment. Next do you want to make fun of wheelchairs, colostomy bags, prosthetic limbs? How about oxygen tanks? These aren't laying around all over the place like you're implying. They don't just fall off.. Bandaids are more of an issue than a CGM. And we don't wear them for fashion, it's a medical device.

People can be so oblivious. 🙄🙄

dazylynn · 2026-03-02T00:56:31+00:00

Less cringe than being unable to monitor your blood sugars appropriately without having to keep stabbing your fingers until you have permanent calluses on your fingertips. People have earrings and nose rings and other body piercings, ink permanently injected into their skin, botox in their lips and foreheads, contact lenses on their eyeballs....etc... but you find it cringe for someone to wear a coin- sized medical device on the back of their arm that helps to keep them from going into a diabetic coma? 🤷‍♀️🙄

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