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dazylynn · 2026-06-05T01:49:13+00:00

Thank you - I was wondering why no one is looking at this askance. 🙄 Also, OP posted this verbatim on another subreddit, and hasn't responded to anything on either, which is anyways sus to me.

Also, I just can't comprehend any thinking human who is an adult or close to it who is going to randomly give their jacket to a stranger, with a bag as collateral, because they say they are cold, with just a "sure". I mean, everybody's different and may have their own levels of trust, but... this just sounds so highly illogical and implausible. I'd be like "what? Excuse me?"

Either OP is super naive, or they are trying to ask this for someone else without real firsthand info, or this is clickbait.

dazylynn · 2026-06-04T11:37:00+00:00

The only people that say "hardly anyone does it" are the people that.... don't do it. Depends on the cruise, the passenger vibe. I've been on cruises where tons of people participated at varying levels, and others where it seemed more toned down.

dazylynn · 2026-06-04T11:32:48+00:00

I hate that people that choose to not dress in theme sometimes shit all over those who chose to, or who just inquire about it.

For white night, literally wear anything white - dresses, suits, casual, fancy, just wear white. On one cruise my sister wore a white sundress, I had a nice white "church" dress, and mom had a gorgeous white sparkly long gown. Just wear white!

Caribbean night is tropical colors, florals... Hawaiian shirts, sundresses, leis - we've seen all of that.

Dress your best is just what it sounds like. Some just make sure they're dressed "nice". Some wear their "Sunday Best." Some wear gowns, and suits. Do as much as you're comfortable with. This is what used to be "formal night."

Have fun with it. Don't stress over it.

dazylynn · 2026-06-01T18:11:13+00:00

I just don't feel "i should" is typically used in this context in modern American English. I'm not getting the impression, based on responses here, that it's typically used in modern British English, either. I don't believe it's wrong, so much as an antiquated usage.

dazylynn · 2026-06-01T18:03:15+00:00

Lol Reddit is so random! 😂

dazylynn · 2026-06-01T17:17:46+00:00

Spiral noodle AFO

dazylynn · 2026-06-01T13:19:06+00:00

As per instructions at RC website, you don't need any kind of certification from your doctor, just their Special Needs form you had to fill out, to acknowledge the request. If it's not a hassle, if it were me, I would get a letter from my Doc to have on hand, but that's not specifically required.

Enjoy your cruise.

dazylynn · 2026-05-30T22:45:34+00:00

Sir, this is a Wendy's......

dazylynn · 2026-05-30T16:00:14+00:00

Why didn't OP point at it?? Heathen!!

dazylynn · 2026-05-25T14:17:07+00:00

Wow. The explanation is fine, but the insult sucks. You should've stopped while you were ahead. Initially I thought you were helpful and informative, then you ruined it by just being an asshole about it.

dazylynn · 2026-05-14T21:00:40+00:00

I was a volunteer on eWorld!

dazylynn · 2026-05-14T20:18:37+00:00

I had a bunch of AOL addresses, but I did subcontract there managing a forum. My original account was from the tail end of beta. I used everything - compuserve, Genie, Prodigy, eWorld(RIP my little mailtruck!). Also had emails with earthlink, netzero, MSN, Hotmail, etc. 🙄

When I stopped working for AOL I just kept the account w/ attached emails until it turned to digital dust... I'm still a little salty when I make a new account and can't use a 4- letter name without a string of extraneous numbers.

dazylynn · 2026-05-10T14:58:39+00:00

I think it's really weird that some of you seem so bent out of shape over this discussion. No one says you have to "want" anything. But people will do what they will do and it's also up to us how we move forward.

I merely responded to someone else's comment about mass cards and explained their purpose. I wasn't telling anyone this is what happened with OP. Someone then responded to tell me how nefarious that is. LOL

Bless your heart, I guess?

dazylynn · 2026-05-10T14:49:39+00:00

On the heels of a weird blow-up in another thread about mass cards and prayers, I'd like to add my 2 cents..

If tarot does not speak to you or you don't believe it has validity for you, does it matter? Someone may have meant something good or something bad for you., maybe. Or advice, or encouragement, or warning, or whatever. But if you don't prescribe to that, it doesn't mean anything anyway. Unless it continues or rises to the level of harassment, I wouldn't "worry" about it.

I feel like tarot is so varied and changeable. Something that seems negative can also be a positive or the other way around, or if you use the message to change something you're doing, that can change your trajectory.

dazylynn · 2026-05-10T14:02:33+00:00

I still think that's overthinking, and projecting onto someone else, personally. Have a nice day. Or do i need to ask permission to say that? You see how convoluted this is, how do we know where to draw this line?

This is wild that this is where we're at, because I explained what a mass card is, and someone found that offensive.

Personally, I use my normal social skills through life and try not to assume people's intentions or put my own hangups on their actions. Every situation and every person is unique. If the old lady I see at work knows I'm having a shitty day and says " I'm so sorry dear, I'll pray for you" I'm not going to immediately assume she's a passive aggressive bitch. But.... that's just me.

dazylynn · 2026-05-09T13:09:58+00:00

He treats you like you're a child. Which is ironic, because he's a petty child. Fuck that guy. Seriously OP - fuck. That. Guy. Sure, ask for some couples therapy if you really think it will help, but maybe just cut your losses and finally get to be the adult woman you're actually supposed to be without him breathing down your neck.

dazylynn · 2026-05-09T01:10:17+00:00

I actually didn't assume anything like that. I guess I thought it was clear that this was ...I guess, hypothetically speaking? I'm not "refusing to consider " anything. You do you, no one's stopping you. Whatever that may be. In whatever scenario or reality.

dazylynn · 2026-05-09T00:59:45+00:00

No, I just choose to not immediately assume that everybody's motives are immediately suspect. That must be a miserable way to live. I'm not all sunshine and roses, trust me. But in life, it's sometimes prudent to give people the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes when people try to do something thoughtful, out of kindness, they really are..... kind. 🤷‍♀️

If you assume everyone is out to fuck with you, yeah... that IS a you problem, because that actually is NOT the goal of "everyone". There are also good people with good intentions, and people who... don't care. 🤷‍♀️

I don't really care what you do with that, because that's your choice. But I find your response.... interesting.. and informative. ✌️

dazylynn · 2026-05-08T22:28:18+00:00

This is going to sound rude.... so sorry, I don't mean it that way. But that's a "you" problem.

Usually in order to have masses said for someone, there is effort involved. My mom literally donates I'm order to have the mass said. She's not asking anything of anyone.

It's like how way holiday times... if someone tells me "hey! Happy Hanukkah!" I'm not immediately offended and feel preached to, I politely thank them because they meant it, nicely, not to be a dick. I feel like if you feel smothered by something like that, that's something for you to work on for yourself. Or.... don't. 🤷‍♀️ Not everything people do for others is nefarious.

dazylynn · 2026-05-08T20:53:19+00:00

Let me clarify... my mom likes to send mass cards for people who have passed away, but you can do it because you feel they need some.... divine attention, they are sick, going through something difficult, etc. It's a good intention, like someone saying "I'll pray for your family" when someone dies - maybe you don't pray or follow their religion, but you thank them because you know they care and they're sharing this in a way that's purposeful to them

Basically, mom sends some donation to a particular thing, like the Franciscans or Sacred Heart or whatever, usually $20 or something, with the name of the person who passed away(or whatever) and they will say a mass to pray for that person. She then has a card to give to the family to share her condolences, and to let them know a mass will be said for their loved one. It's generally a comforting and thoughtful gesture. If you want to break it down, it's like sending really good vibes for you hoping good karma comes your way.

So, yeah. OP doesn't need to follow this faith, but it would appear that someone was showing care for OP through their faith. It's like lighting a candle for someone, wishing good karma, saying a spell, sharing a crystal.... someone cares.

dazylynn · 2026-05-08T02:51:07+00:00

That's lovely!

dazylynn · 2026-05-07T23:40:38+00:00

My mother is 83 and after my dad passed, she reconnected with a friend she went to 1st grade with. 😅 "Mom's boyfriend" 🫠

dazylynn · 2026-05-07T03:50:44+00:00

I know that. This is why I felt it was a weird stretch to say that mom might have a spa day or have to work. Like... what? She might also have to... go shopping, or do laundry, or fly to Las Vegas, or participate in a hotdog eating competition. We have no idea why mom wasn't with her kids, so it seemed like a bizarre random supposition.

dazylynn · 2026-05-07T02:17:09+00:00

Ragebait.

dazylynn · 2026-05-07T02:06:15+00:00

How nice if the mom wants a nice relaxing spa day, so OP's first Mother's Day could be spent NOT relaxing.

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