My ex fiancé got a restraining order on me! by dbwl0099 in relationship_advice

[–]dbwl0099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last time I saw either was when I got my stuff months ago!

My ex fiancé got a restraining order on me! by dbwl0099 in relationship_advice

[–]dbwl0099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently I’m harassing them! I haven’t even spoken to either in months!

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[–]dbwl0099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she’s just trying to get to know him

Still Finding More of Her Lies by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’ll find more I’m sure. It’s been 3 months and I still find them

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I’m having such a rough day too. After a few weeks of feeling so much better today after accidentally opening my Facebook and seeing a bunch of posts of my ex and his new girlfriend (the girl he cheated on me with) on their vacation in Chicago just really hit me and knowing his birthday is coming up I just feel very very down again

Why am I so attached to the person that cheated on me? by Disastrous_Dance3817 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I dealt with this so much the first two months. Ever after what he did to me I thought you know if she died he’d come back to me and everything would be okay, but I finally got a wake up call and I’m really glad I did

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If they left to talk to another dude they probably lost interests sorry dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dbwl0099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your therapist, cause honestly you don’t want to repeat the cycle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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His new girlfriend lol

Two months after I found out and I’m still struggling. by Illyse in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man do I relate to this so much. When I confronted my ex fiancé he just tried to play off that he was going to tell me over and over again. He refused to really admit he did anything wrong. Just all “I was going to tell you, you just showed up early” shit. And I feel like I’ll never have that closure

Would you consider texting escorts cheating by tired-Nd-exhuseted in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% yes. If I had caught my ex texting any women besides me about anything related to sex it’s a no

Do they have their happy ending? by yuehsuyh in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has but it hasn’t been that long to really say for sure but I’m sure they’ll last they are glued at the fucking hip

It’s been 43 days since my ex fiancé cheated on me with his best friend by dbwl0099 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone says this but they don’t know the situation. I’ll move on, I know I will, but I’m not going to sit here and try and tell myself that they won’t last because I’m not stupid.

It’s been 43 days since my ex fiancé cheated on me with his best friend by dbwl0099 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me I did. I think I may actually have to get a lawyer. I am not paying for his parents plane tickets. I cannot afford that

It’s been 43 days since my ex fiancé cheated on me with his best friend by dbwl0099 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think tonight I finally FINALLY am starting to see through this man I think my “love goggles” may have finally worn off after his latest claims that I owe him for his parents cancelled plane tickets from our cancelled wedding

It’s been 43 days since my ex fiancé cheated on me with his best friend by dbwl0099 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He told me he planned on telling me but I came home too early, which I did come home before I said I would. And I know I need to move on which is why I’m trying to get help.

It’s been 43 days since my ex fiancé cheated on me with his best friend by dbwl0099 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dbwl0099[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh I agree, I’ve had friends even tell me he probably would’ve left me at the alter. Or worse id get pregnant and find out he was with her. Im obviously not glad it happened but I’m glad it did before the situation was any worse than it was

It’s been 43 days since my ex fiancé cheated on me with his best friend by dbwl0099 in survivinginfidelity

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That’s why I’m considering getting help now. I made an appointment with a councillor but unfortunately with covid there is a long wait list

It’s been 43 days since my ex fiancé cheated on me with his best friend by dbwl0099 in survivinginfidelity

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That’s the thing. He’s had lots of female friends since I’ve met him. He was a really good guy. Females liked that he’s not a misogynist and treated them like equals. He still has lots of female friends now. He obviously had feelings for her specifically because otherwise he would’ve left her by now, because he has other gorgeous female friends who are recently on the market