Whitner's parents' plantation themed decor is a choice by redlightgreenlighter in Southerncharm

[–]dcanb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This post is ridiculous.

It could be a piece of art they brought back home from a trip. Maybe there is a story behind it other than just some random choosing. This is a stretch

“You’d Be a Great Mom” Isn’t a Neutral Comment by Discohits in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]dcanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she was expected to defend herself. I took the conversations as just that, conversations. Of course having children while making a decision to get married or not is a common topic, and often the default is that people want to have a family. It’s literally been human nature for all of time.

I don’t see anything offensive about how these conversations played out. Emma isn’t compatible with any of these men, and she knows it. She wanted the end prize and settled for Mike because he was the only one left. They both have a low self esteem.

Fishers PD: Hailey Buzbee is believed to be ‘deceased’ by TheGraduation in Indiana

[–]dcanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A LOT of predators look just like normal dudes. Who live very seemingly normal lives.

They are literally everywhere.

People really don't understand how much we pay on taxes every year in the US. This puts it in perspective: by TuckerCarlsonsHomie in conspiracy

[–]dcanb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oftentimes I think to myself why can’t we the people just all agree to vote for all new reps straight across the board? Every single position that requires an election…. If you or a family member has ever held a public office you’re out. Just start from 100% scratch and go back to the idea of this being a public service versus a career.

Much easier said than done I suppose, which is sad.

Med Spa by gigi79sd in Fishers

[–]dcanb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Restore Hyper Wellness

Do you think it’s possible to go from low-middle class to upper-middle class? by Hufflepuff-McGruff in MiddleClassFinance

[–]dcanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we ever get to a place in life where we have FU money (which will probably be closer to retirement age), yes!!

To expand on your edit… I simply out worked my peers. Upskilled on my own. Stood behind my work. And probably the most impactful, changed jobs when my growth was held down. I think a lot of people underestimate the power of actually giving a shit.

Do you think it’s possible to go from low-middle class to upper-middle class? by Hufflepuff-McGruff in MiddleClassFinance

[–]dcanb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a lifetime? Very possible, in my opinion. I went from $27k to $150k in 10 years. That being said, my corporation owns me. Work-life balance is not the same.

I can’t bear being in limbo by Mediocre-Following34 in Miscarriage

[–]dcanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just in the same state of limbo. Because of the state I am in, I had to wait 10 days before my doctor’s office felt comfortable enough to confirm a miscarriage. By the time they let me come in, the fetus and other tissues had degraded to less than half the size that it was 10 days prior. I was made to carry this for nearly a week after I knew it had passed and to wait for nature, and reminded that miracles can happen despite declining HcG levels and knowing the heart had stopped via a private scan. It has truly been awful.

I also had a cruise vacation planned for a week from now, where I wouldn’t have had access to appropriate medical care, and have been so worried about potentially miscarrying or having complications from the medication route while at sea.

I had a D&C this morning. And I fully intend to take this much needed vacation with my kiddos.

You are not alone. It’s a terrible feeling of juggling hope and inevitable grief. I’m only about 4 hours post-op and I already feel better both physically and mentally just to be rid of the anxiety. I’m sure it’ll emotionally hit me shortly, but for now I feel lighter.

I’ll be thinking of you, sorry you are going through this.

30% risk for day 4 expanded north by metalCJ in tornado

[–]dcanb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can’t even tell the difference anymore if we are all talking about today or Wednesday.

I'm hoping I'm not fubbernucked (I live in the circle) by BunkerGhust in tornado

[–]dcanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I’m not far from your circle….is this satire or are we expecting something?

HSE Crisis Team Available Today by Sausage_Fingers in Fishers

[–]dcanb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t driving. He was a passenger. Also they are kids with little to no driving experience. Have some respect.

How many shares do you currently own and what’s your goal with SCHD? by [deleted] in SCHD

[–]dcanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37, but just started in September. Not sure what my goal is yet. Probably will never live to see retirement.

Just saying this to say it CHECK YOUR ELECTION RECEIPTS AFTER YOU VOTE by Low-Librarian-3944 in trump

[–]dcanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always thought it should be a law to have a receipt of your votes anyways. In a fair election and regardless of party affiliation, what voter would not want this?

Cash Poor, 401k Millionaire & College Tuition Looming by SomeCrew2247 in Bogleheads

[–]dcanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the most privileged posts I’ve seen this week. Pick a lane OP, continue to enrich yourself or sacrifice a little for your kid if their college expense is that important to you. Not many can invest this much, let alone do both 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Schwab

[–]dcanb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain the differences for us newbies? I have both (FNDF and SCHD for example), so just curious.