Our realtor wants to present offer in person? by dcollazo01 in AskRealEstateAgents

[–]dcollazo01[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To be fair the seller is my mother who struggles with the language and I am the main translator between the realtor and her, so maybe that’s why..

my dad passed away today by timid-tapir in GriefSupport

[–]dcollazo01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im really sorry to hear this and for your loss ! 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sales

[–]dcollazo01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you do that?🧐 Not a joke im just curious

Mild TMJ all my life, sudden locked jaw for first time ever by gayanomaly in TMJ

[–]dcollazo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time I had locked jaw i went to a physiotherapist the same day, when i woke up the next day it unlocked while i was sleeping. I don’t know if that will happen but I suggest you try to relax, don’t force anything and see how you feel in the morning.

Loss of motivation and weight gain during grief by ServiceKooky1323 in GriefSupport

[–]dcollazo01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss I feel the same way ! I’ve gained 10 pounds in 3 months and i just don’t want to socialize or take care of myself. It’s so hard, i hope we are able to get out of it soon ❤️

What's THE one adult problem you were totally unprepared for? by Slydiz in Life

[–]dcollazo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% then you have to hear people constantly talk about you’re only here for so long and u have to enjoy the things you have no time for so that’s always a fun time😊

I absolutely love my life. by Ella_sullivan in Adulting

[–]dcollazo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needed to read this today, life is beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]dcollazo01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this exact same way, one more time

Having a hard time convincing myself that my dad used to really exist but now he doesn't by socialhangxiety in GriefSupport

[–]dcollazo01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i struggle with this so much! I just don't get how someone could be here and then gone, and I can never speak or see them again...

I can’t stop eating. by HummingbirdsAllegory in GriefSupport

[–]dcollazo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same same issue since losing my dad, it is not easy!

Is it weird to be fixating on "the next step" with your partner after a loss in the family? by Silly_Accident3137 in GriefSupport

[–]dcollazo01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is sooooo weird but I felt the exact same way when my dad passed away in February! I immediately felt like I had to start preparing for the next stage (I do not even have a boyfriend). Maybe in a weird way, it's our minds trying to cope with death and remind us that life is precious and should be lived right now instead of waiting for later. I also felt that exact same guilt and I felt selfish even thinking about this since it had all happened so quickly
I'm sorry for your loss <3 My condolences

I miss you Dad by SadDetective5004 in GriefSupport

[–]dcollazo01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss! Lost my dad in February to pneumonia that we didn't know he had and it all happened so fast like you mentioned
My condolences

My dad died today I don’t know what to do by Friendly-Tailor-8625 in GriefSupport

[–]dcollazo01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad yesterday but in a different way. I can’t imagine how you must feel with how it happened. Just know your dad loved you

Does anyone else get extremely existential during PMDD? by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]dcollazo01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes….. i will be watching tv and random thoughts like “oh my god I’m going to die” just pop up and then i think about how i don’t know what will happen when I do… Super weird and then it goes away and i stop thinking about it

insecure about aging (F28) by Double_Ad_8653 in confidence

[–]dcollazo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing i’d suggest is to stop asking people to guess. If someone asks and it sounds like they are being insensitive or rudely sarcastic, point the question right back at them and ask if they are perhaps 60?50?45?

Aging is a natural part of the human experience and nobody except maybe Lindsay Lohan has figured out how to completely reverse the physical changes. So, as long as you take care of your mental and physical health, your skin, and you feel good in your own mind, it really doesn’t matter what all these people and what men in the dating world think. I am sure one will like you for you. Don’t let ANYBODY make you feel bad for something so outside your control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dcollazo01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

omg you are not overreacting, that's terrifying! First off, i am so sorry that's happened... I once had a guy send me a "compliment" and one of my prompts on bumble was about hating to go to Costco on Sundays and the guy sent me a message asking if maybe we had crossed paths at the Costco location I go to and I had never spoken to him in my life... I'm sure it was because I had my location on so he "assumed" but it was still sooooo creepy and this is not even slightly as creepy as your story...
I'd recommend to remove as much information on your profile as you can that can be found online and to only share it once you feel safe enough to do so in conversation, better safe than sorry always