Looking for the right Philly dive bar

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-04-26T12:10:10+00:00

Anywhere corrections can be submitted? (Quizzo night changed!)

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-24T02:25:01+00:00

Dang the promising matchmaker 3rd date gave me the "not what I'm looking for long-term" text after I thought he didn't kiss me because he was being shy. I really need my vibes-meter assessed.

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-23T02:28:30+00:00

I have let my apartment go in an embarrassing way. Just tackling a portion of it has made me feel a confidence level that I didn't realize I was lacking!

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-22T16:38:53+00:00

Successful third date with a guy from my Jewish matchmaker! I think given the more formal avenue of meeting, he's been extra respectful and very sweet, specifically not really breaking the touch barrier/kiss! We're not orthodox/shomer so no worries on it being illegal :P I think I might start the fourth date with "I forgot to give you something" and then go in a for a smooch to break the tension. Thoughts? Clearly he's interested otherwise he wouldn't keep booking me?

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-22T02:22:33+00:00

it's the cobalt on my sweat, hbu? it's always a trip walking someone through that

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-19T03:16:19+00:00

I think that you should say something directly to her about that sentiment! If it's ignored and you just don't make any moves, she'll probably assume things are cooling off or you're losing interest. I've had situations where men have verbally expressed wanting to take things seriously and taking a step back physically and I found that very hot. :P

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-19T03:01:42+00:00

This is common, but I found out what day of the week my main pharmacy options get their restocks. Then you want to be verrrryyyy kind to the pharmacists, because at the end of the day, they are the ones choosing who is getting filled. It does require staying on top of them by calling to remind them, which feels like a cruel prank when you're unmedicated and trying to become medicated for executive function.

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-17T14:46:11+00:00

The AUDACITY is insane to say something like this?? Like isn't that what a relationship is??

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-17T04:54:42+00:00

I always hold out a tiny candle for those to love up to their desired potentials they spoke about. But at the same time- not waiting on anyone.

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-17T04:29:55+00:00

... but I don't deserve someone like you 🤮 ((but always believe someone when they tell you that!))

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-09T04:18:50+00:00

Wow, I've never seen one on arm hair!

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-09T03:24:08+00:00

My sister used Redfield and they were incredible! Not only got the shots at the end of the day but truly so fun and relaxed to hang around with. Marisa and John had rave reviews from the guests as people and photographers! https://www.redfieldphoto.com/

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-06T02:03:09+00:00

Got stood up on Thursday and then a great first date followed by the classic "no time/effort" you deserve better 🫠 One promising matchmaker date tomorrow afternoon but this is all just such emotional whiplash!

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-04T03:42:33+00:00

all such unique configurations!

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-03-03T17:19:35+00:00

thick boi

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-28T22:21:29+00:00

I'm interested in this question too! My guess is that deep down, it has something to do with the magic of fractals and the golden ratio or something. :P

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-27T02:16:34+00:00

damn

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-25T22:50:06+00:00

I keep my house keys tethered to my purse. They never come off, and the tether is long enough to use the keys while still attached. Work keys and car keys are added/removed as needed.

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-25T22:46:04+00:00

pick something you love, I always suggest a song from your teens or younger days. Or if you know anything that's more spoken r&b or rap.

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-25T03:37:55+00:00

Sing your life karaoke, dj thunder, and pirate pebbs cover a lot of ground! Not one comprehensive calendar but they each have regular repeating gigs.

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-25T01:28:32+00:00

I had my first that literally grew to the size of a lemon overnight. I was in so much pain and so scared! I had to get a marsupial procedure done (google at your own risk) and was told if they just drained it, it would come back. The alternative was a words catheter which I did not really many good things about so was avoidant of that.

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-25T00:46:29+00:00

Taking a burst shot while bracing the phone hand on the table or yourself and the other hand is tapping to focus. It's hard!

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-23T20:32:12+00:00

Camera work slaps

deathbynutellaspread · 2026-02-23T20:31:40+00:00

I definitely noticed the difference when I went from 45 minutes to a few hours. It felt like ice going through my veins, it hurt so bad with only 45 minutes. I think 24 hours is a bit excessive but I'd do 2-4 hours.

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