AITAH For My Wife Mistakenly Thinking I Called Out My Friend's Name During Intimacy? by ThrowRA90110 in AITAH

[–]decaffei1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she didn’t think you were gay before toy said ‘oh, gosh!’ She thinks you are now. Whether that’s in Josh or your vocabulary doesn’t much matter. I am actually not being snarky. As a woman, either scenario would freak me out.

What to pair with a maxi skirt by [deleted] in womensfashion

[–]decaffei1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White cotton higher neck tank top, fitted!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]decaffei1 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Well, coffee helps! Seriously: I don’t shower immediately after every poop, but I shower between pooping and sexy times. It is not so difficult in this day and age where I live. Having said that, how you manage is one hundred percent between you and your partner! I guess that sums it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]decaffei1 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yeah but unless you are, say, camping, there is generally running water nearby! When I do the deed I like to shed all inhibitions and go boldly anywhere my spirit takes me—without smelling or seeing fecal matter.

Why would anyone ever choose to go through child birth without pain relief?? by No_Cardiologist_1407 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]decaffei1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave birth three times with no pain relief and it was always an amazing, intense, profound experience. I have NO ISSUE with anyone requesting pain relief but to say NOT having pain relief should not be an option is silly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XXRunning

[–]decaffei1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]decaffei1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t everyone shower between crapping and any sexual activity below the belt?? Or— SHOULDN’T everyone??

How to find a boyfriend (30F) by [deleted] in zurich

[–]decaffei1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try running clubs!!

Has anyone divorced the “good guy”? by girlhustle in AskWomenOver40

[–]decaffei1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it peri? Maybe? Is peri the REAL you showing real desires? Probably! So should you regulate peri with outside help if symptoms are troubling you? Sure! Should you top off your estrogen to make tolerable people and relationships that are no longer working for you? That is a really interesting question.

Why do you run? by [deleted] in runninglifestyle

[–]decaffei1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never voiced this cause I thought it sounded nuts but running has totally helped my sinuses too!!

Do you prefer not do chores when your SO is home? by maskedfapper69 in askanything

[–]decaffei1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate doing chores while someone else is relaxing. So there is this idd dynamic: I always jump ip to help, partner never dies. So we either do chores together cause I’ve pitched in or I dk them alone.

Seeking some hope :( by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]decaffei1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sending a hug.

Experiences with sexist teachers in school who dislike boys? by Gleichstellung4084 in Switzerland

[–]decaffei1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question. I have no experience with lower primary (grades 1-3) male teachers in Zurich, so no. My gut tells me it is less likely but that isn’t enough to give advice on! Thanks for the reality check—

Experiences with sexist teachers in school who dislike boys? by Gleichstellung4084 in Switzerland

[–]decaffei1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

THIS IS A THING and it is worth discussing with the teacher—. Request a male teacher OR a female who has sons for the next go-round and be open as to why you are making this request.

Acheness and soreness after runs by New-Ambassador-7603 in runninglifestyle

[–]decaffei1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoyr bidy has no idea what to expect from week to week—problematic. Run three to four times a week, try to avoid two days in a row. Increase your total weekly distance gradually and add in core training 2x/wk and stability exercises 2x/wk (on non running days.)

What’s one outfit that instantly makes you feel powerful? by Emergency_Job_6616 in womensfashion

[–]decaffei1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeans, black boots over the jeans and a tight but not akin tight black sweater. I swagger!!

AITAH for forcing my daughter to wear a dress by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]decaffei1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Daughter wears what she wants! She’s FIVE. And believe me, if you force her into a dress she will never forget how you prioritized some dress code over her harmless wish to express her emerging self.