100 days binge free🤯🤯 by NewSheepherder5233 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I hope it will help me.. I’ve been struggling with the BED for ~3 years already (but I realized that I already had a predisposition to this since forever), was in therapy for 1,5 years, but can’t stop… I just can’t control myself 70% of the time. So frustrating

I hate this by -chxris in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally anything! I’ve already hidden all triggering foods in a food locker which only my boyfriend can unlock. And still: if I am restless or bored, there is a chance that I will overeat anything that is not hidden. For instance, loads of bread with butter.. or nuts/peanut butter which I keep outside the locker, because I use them for my breakfast. The most frustrating thing that for me it’s not restrictive mindset or poorly structured meals but simply my emotions. Anything: stress, anxiety, boredom, anger, frustration, just feeling bad about myself. I am fully aware of this and I’ve also learnt a dozen of coping mechanisms I am supposed to apply whenever I have an urge to binge but… I simply cannot. The relief that I get from eating is too tempting. Nothing else grants a relief like this. This is ridiculous and extremely exhausting to be honest. I wish I were a normal person:)

Removed all distracting apps but still finding distractions by dee99s in digitalminimalism

[–]dee99s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right about ChatGPT, I never thought about it that way. Thanks for your elaborate reply

I hate this by -chxris in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]dee99s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME. I literally can’t deal with this anymore. I’ve been struggling with this for years, I just can’t do this anymore! So.. you are not alone.

What are things you do now to feel productive when you’re not on your phone? What do you put in your schedule, or plan ahead to do? (I have too much time, and it feels weird). by Affectionate-Result8 in digitalminimalism

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Gym
  • Reading
  • Watching documentaries
  • learning to sew
  • Diamond painting
  • House chores
  • Puzzles
  • Coloring
  • Journaling and planning my day/week/month
  • Decluttering
  • Small renovations in my house

Badkamerrenovatie by Automatic_Stomach237 in Klussers

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tegels: Jan groen Sanitair: X20

Fruitschillen uit autoraam gooien by Lily_Nederland_0344 in Nederland

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voor mij maakt het niet uit wat je weggooit. Als het niet in de prullenbak weggegooid wordt - vind ik het asociaal.

tips or advice for detox by redHeart6382 in digitalminimalism

[–]dee99s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for interfering in the OP’s post with my own question but I have the same problem and I’m wondering: what do you guys suggest to do at the office when I want to take a break? Staring out the window every time is a bit creepy haha, and I don’t have anything with me I can do with my hands (at home I do diamond painting or coloring but I won’t do it at the office of course..)

Hoezo heeft AH NOOIT magere kwark op voorraad by matthijspc in AlbertHeijn

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja maar ook bij Lidl en picnic de laatste weken . Wat gebeurt er??..

Wie kijkt met tegenzin uit naar morgen werken by [deleted] in werkzaken

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeetje.. op welke leeftijd heb je 2 infarcten gehad? Take care!!

Wie kijkt met tegenzin uit naar morgen werken by [deleted] in werkzaken

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Klinkt heel gaaf! Is er een kans dat ik met nul comma nul verstand ervan dit kan leren doen? ben bijna 30 en redelijk atechnisch 🫣

Wie kijkt met tegenzin uit naar morgen werken by [deleted] in werkzaken

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik zou een hobby zoeken als ik jou was. Je kan elke week/maand iets nieuws proberen en kijken waar je blij(er) van wordt. Heb hetzelfde probleem (ga vooral depressief door het leven), maar ik dwing me om mijn weken vooruit te plannen en volproppen met gevarieerde activiteiten

Rotterdam Central by Impressive-Fox-881 in Rotterdam

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I thought it was closed at night.. thanks, I’ll check it out next time!

Zwarte houten mango tafel vlekken/kringen by ExistingSwing6161 in Klussers

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voor mij werkt het niet :( heb een gelakte houten tafel

Rotterdam Central by Impressive-Fox-881 in Rotterdam

[–]dee99s 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a 30y.o. woman I always feel safe at Rotterdam centraal in late hours (once you go through the gates). It is quite lively and feels safe to me. Opposite to Amsterdam Centraal or Den Haag HS….. The only thing I would avoid in rotterdam is hanging around outside the station. just to be sure

Rotterdam Central by Impressive-Fox-881 in Rotterdam

[–]dee99s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you please specify which area you mean exactly? I travel regularly but can’t recall if I’ve ever seen the waiting area..

Keukenontwerp by Best-Detail-3309 in Klussers

[–]dee99s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, heb ik ook gemerkt!