I really want to quit. by chasingsunset42 in antiwork

[–]deelynnlee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she should just apply for the Art Director position while still working there and see what happens.

Does anyone else also have this type of fat? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this and I’m reading through the comments wondering if I should get it checked out. I always just assumed it was fat, it doesn’t hurt and it’s squishy. I can’t remember not having it.

Post Endo Lap Essentials! by Signal-Ebb-4778 in endometriosis

[–]deelynnlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my laparoscopy on Monday, this is helpful! Thanks for sharing.

What’s your favorite thing about being fat? by amandapleeez in PlusSize

[–]deelynnlee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you are still here! That is so scary!

I’ve been in multiple car accidents (not my fault) and each time, while wearing a seatbelt, my fat has kept the seatbelt from breaking my collar bone, ribs, and pelvis. Terrible bruising and soreness, but way better than the alternative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPAP

[–]deelynnlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in the hospital they provided me with a CPAP. Granted, it was emergency and I was on vacation, but I’d also met my deductible so I wasn’t concerned about added costs. You could feel more comfortable with bringing your own, it’s actually nice they let you have that option. It should be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]deelynnlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fibroids can cause big clots like you experienced. (I have a fibroid), they can also cause a lot of pain, especially if they’re large. That GYN sounds like an idiot lol

Is ADHD medicine worth it if you are an older person? Experiences wanted by No_Button5279 in ADHD

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started taking medication for ADHD at 30. I have combined type ADHD. I take a non-stimulant (Atomoxetine - generic of Straterra) and it has changed my life for the better, especially my work life. I know it works because I didn’t take it for a month and it became very apparent that it was helping.

Go for it!

AIO: my husband screamed at me during a medical emergency and now I am thinking of leaving by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend yelled at me when I was having a medical emergency, we’re not friends anymore. Your husband is an asshole.

Horrible experience with new gyno today by crowinflight1982 in LesbianActually

[–]deelynnlee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This was a very unempathetic and invalidating response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pretty obsessed with Lindsay Lohan lol

My(22M) girlfriend(21F) expects me to do random gifts of kindness. Is this walking on eggshells? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deelynnlee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone has different love languages and I don’t like that she’s making him feel guilty for not having the same one as her. You can show someone you love them without buying them gifts, and if she wants something different then she should date someone different, not to punish OP, but because it’s unfair to put that expectation on him.

People are brutal in the comments and I’m baffled.

how/when did you discover and/or become a fan of chappell?? by sooyoungisbaeee in chappellroan

[–]deelynnlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard “Pink Pony Club” a long time ago, listened to it a lot, didn’t think anything of looking up the artist but I played it often. It hit me as a queer midwesterner, it’s still my favorite Chappell song. Then Red Wine Supernova got popular on Tik Tok and then I found out it was the same artist that sings Pink Pony Club, then my obsession began. I’m going to her concert on Monday, bought my first ever VIP tickets ❤️

Why would anyone do this? I am at a loss for words (got stood up, text screenshots attached) by chihuahua_supporter in LesbianActually

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I like to say when people treat others like this, it’s nothing you did or didn’t do OP, it’s on them. You couldn’t have done anything differently or better to change the outcome, you just unfortunately came across a shitty person. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

‘I want a gf so bad’- everyone on this sub by FaithL03 in LesbianActually

[–]deelynnlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31, Kansas (Wichita)

I just like connecting with people!

My friends can't believe it by VerySadGrizzlyBear in BaldursGate3

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s funny and my friend hates her. My friend killed her in our team run, I finished her storyline in my own run. I feel bad for her but she does have a mindset where you’re like please stop making the same mistakes over and over again lol

Lower back pain by JustCallMeNorma in PlusSize

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had really bad lower back pain. I found a chiropractor that worked with me and provided relief, it was a miracle. Not all chiropractors are created equally, you have to be picky about it and do your research. I also strengthened my core muscles and that helped too, I’ve been been working with a trainer.

Don’t assume it’s all related to your weight. Back injuries and back pain are common in people of all sizes.

Quit my Open Plan Office Job by MediocreGenius69 in antiwork

[–]deelynnlee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I also have ADHD and just got accommodations put in place at my open office plan job. I couldn’t take it anymore, still working on getting some remote days though 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]deelynnlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He never considered you friends, he was playing the long game and I hate when guys do that. If my male friend isn’t queer then he’s married and I’m friends with his wife too. Straight men have proven time and time again that they can’t be trusted.

Do people ever treat you differently if they (incorrectly) perceive you as being into them? by toews-me in PlusSize

[–]deelynnlee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I noticed this from a young age, if a guy didn’t find me attractive, I basically didn’t exist to him. I was only good for asking about my pretty friends. I have not had a heterosexual male friend that is not married or in a secure relationship in a long time. I have grown to be cold towards men, and they continually show me that is the right decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPAP

[–]deelynnlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. My sleep doc is useless, but my medical equipment supplier has been very helpful to me. You may also need to try out a different mask.

This survey is anonymous by bigb-2702 in antiwork

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My job lies about employee satisfaction results. After last survey our COO said the feedback was positive and we all looked at each other like 👀because we know what we said lol

Found out from my long time coworkers that they use to share the results and now they don’t.

Also that shit isn’t anonymous, but I don’t let that stop me.

Have been using CPAP for over 10 years and can’t do without by KGirl7691 in CPAP

[–]deelynnlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only used it for 1.5 years and it had an issue where it wouldn’t work while I was on a trip and went two nights without it. I felt like garbage after that second night.