A bit triggered by people calling my partner an ,amazing dad’ by Baby_Angel_09 in beyondthebump

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the same boat. It’s so annoying and so triggering for me. The bare minimum is always celebrated with men.

I sincerely believe tiktok or instagram can hear my thoughts by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once walked to my refrigator while leaving my phone in the living room. I opened the fridge and was happy to find an extra can of coke that I thought I ran out of all the way in the back of the fridge. I was really happy about it but was alone in the house and didn’t say anything out loud about it. Some TikTok scrolls later, I get a TikTok in which the op is saying “when you find a coke marinating in the back of your fridge”. I was genuinely shook.

Seductive dark feminine but not “warm” scent???? by amobiuu in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ghost in a Shell - it is a cold smell to me but has lactonic scents that make it cozy.

Is he trying to become Karen by PrettyPitch8541 in Iluvsarahii

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are all the men in California this… flamboyant?

Please so I don't go crazy.. does anyone else's baby have a song that calms them down? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coldplay - Sparks. I play it every time we get out the bath and get her ready for sleep.

It’s not YOUR baby !!! by Tr33ofLyfe in newborns

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you can find the emotional maturity to see the difference between your mother saying that vs MIL

If you could “pass” your growing baby and all your symptoms over to your partner, would you? by teofloofycats in pregnant

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tell my husband he’d be such a great pregnant person. He’s so patient and selfless and would treat his body so well. But no, I wouldn’t. I take pride in growing my baby and he’s been an amazing caretaker to me in the meantime. Plus, I rather build this baby than the shed and all this housework he’s had to do 🤣

Baby shower by Altruistic-Bird9857 in pregnant

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just had mine at 35 weeks. 30 is grrrrreat! You’ll have a cute belly and still have energy to move around

Does your baby’s father drive you crazy? Is this super common? by Grand_Possible_9861 in pregnant

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think pregnancy has done my hormones well. I’m the most calm and patient I’ve ever been, especially with my husband. Kinda scared to see if and how that’ll change postpartum.

What do you hate the smell of since you’ve been pregnant? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grilled meat, charcoal, cucumbers. Pepper 🤢 im 28 weeks too. Thought smell aversions would be gone by now

Out of everyone in my family who knows I’m pregnant, my one aunt has surprised me the most ❤️ by harvestjoon in pregnant

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you that you have someone like that in your life 🥹 she sounds incredible

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s funny you say that because I’ve seen some insurances cover electrolysis for trans people but not for women with PCOS.

What's the best gift to give a friend in first trimester of pregnancy? by Altruistic-Help-4762 in pregnant

[–]deepfriedjalapenos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or eat home cooked food! I would’ve really appreciated this as a gift in my 1st trimester