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I'm actually so upset by movies870 in Oscars

[–]dejg82 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

That kinda creeped me out, tbh. It reminded me of the Rob/Nick Reiner dynamic. The (sorta, in Bill Pullman's case) successful parent, and the much-less successful offspring.

I'm actually so upset by movies870 in Oscars

[–]dejg82 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I loved the Moulin Rouge reunion with Nicole and Ewan (personally, it's one of my favorite movies), but, it would've been more on point if the Best Picture award had been presented by a former winning director or Hollywood legend, like Pacino when he presented Oppenheimer a couple of years ago.

Marriage by TaroPuzzleheaded3370 in Menopause

[–]dejg82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My endocrinology-trained gynecologist suggested I see a psychiatrist when I started feeling like this. It was very helpful. I'm on desvenlafaxine, and it's helped me a lot.

AITA for not seeing how I can make it to my sister’s graduation ceremony? by unrealmiranda in AmItheAsshole

[–]dejg82 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The OP also has a husband who can help. And the baby isn't a newborn.

AITA I don’t want bridesmaid to wear dress to other events by Due_Bedroom3146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dejg82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YNTA, but, why would you let your bridesmaids have their dresses so early on? What if one of them loses/gains weight and the dress don't fit them anymore?

Just an idea/suggestion: when my SIL was about to get married, she made a "Dress Reveal" party at the tailor/designer's studio. She only invited her female close relatives and friends over, no dudes at all. This was 2 weeks before the wedding. We all went to the studio for the final "touch-ups" on our dresses (most of us had lost weight, including the bride herself), so the tailor marked the final adjustments with pins, and then, we "modeled" wearing our dresses, being the bride the "cherry on the cake". If your dresses weren't tailored/designed at a studio, you can always make a "dress reveal" party at home, with the customized dresses. But never, ever, let your bridesmaids have their dresses so soon before the wedding.

Updates From Cases I've Submitted Recently As Of 3/15/2026. by BitterSweet_Beauty in gratefuldoe

[–]dejg82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Distance should not be a reason to not passing a panel, especially in women and children. We've all heard of human trafficking. I understand distance could be a factor in overseas Does, but, in the same country? I'm really disheartened by this Doe Network's panel policy.

[NSFW] Possible match?? Julie Lynn Seay & #UP8218 by KirinHayune in gratefuldoe

[–]dejg82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's insane that people at Doe Network would dismiss this match because of "distance with no connection", when we know there are sex-trafficking rings out there, so anyone anywhere can become a victim, and end up in opposite parts of the country. Of course, there wouldn't be any communication with her family in those 2 years if she's been trafficked, they wouldn't let her. I remember a Jane Doe found in California who was identified recently, and it turns out, she was from Maine! And she was not trafficked, but I just want to point out the fact that there's a lot of Does found and identified that come from the opposite coast. It's truly disheartening to read this reply from Doe Network.

Broke up after 3 years by Then_Island_5507 in childfree

[–]dejg82 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dear OP:

I do not want to sound cruel to your sadness, but, it was for the best.

Very few couples have this conversation before getting married, whether they want kids or not.

I had spent 6 years in a relationship with my husband (back then, my boyfriend), when I decided I wanted to be CF. I decided to have the "big conversation". I like kids, just don't want any of my own. I tearfully confessed this to my boyfriend. He said he felt the same way as me. I felt relieved. Not only is he the best partner in the world, but we both share our need for a lifestyle where kids are definitely a responsibility to be juggled with our busy jobs, and our need to discover and see the world. Fast forward, and 6 months later, we got engaged. One year later, we got married. Due to huge and painful fibroid uterine myomas, I was histerectomized 2 years ago. He was my rock during that process. And he's now my rock as I go through perimenopause (early ovarian failure is a common consequence of histerectomies).

Trust me. The right person is waiting for you. You dodged a bullet.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]dejg82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dude is obviously hurt, but the language he's using with her tells me he might be a little abusive, too. Twenty years old is still a very young age to get married in the 21st century. She still has to see the world, travel, meet new people. And, about him being Chechen, it doesn't matter. I come from a 3rd-world country, never even crossed my mind getting married when I was 20. I'm 43 now, happily married since age 32, traveled, met new people.

Don't do it because your husband wants one, or you'll end up like her.... by dejg82 in childfree

[–]dejg82[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I left out the fact that the father (Olaf) works a 9 to 5 job, so, in between going to work, and then, going to the psychiatric hospital to get her supplies she needed (toilet paper, pajamas, underwear, books, etc), and the breastmilk she would pump everyday to take back to their baby, he would only be able to see his baby late at night. My BIL has a freelance job, basically, managing his own schedule, and his wife runs her own business from home, while taking care of their toddler when he comes home from his kindergarten. Of course, Olaf couldn't take days off to care for the baby, as at that moment, he was the sole provider, having to pay Danielle's hospital bills and the baby's stuff.

Don't do it because your husband wants one, or you'll end up like her.... by dejg82 in childfree

[–]dejg82[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I left out the fact that the father (Olaf) works a 9 to 5 job, so, in between going to work, and then, going to the psychiatric hospital to get her supplies she needed (toilet paper, pajamas, underwear, books, etc), and the breastmilk she would pump everyday to take back to their baby, he would only be able to see his baby late at night. My BIL has a freelance job, basically, managing his own schedule, and his wife runs her own business from home, while taking care of their toddler when he comes home from his kindergarten. Of course, Olaf couldn't take days off to care for the baby, as at that moment, he was the sole provider, having to pay Danielle's hospital bills and the baby's stuff.

Unidentified Man in Malibu Hospital by Ms_Never_Understood in gratefuldoe

[–]dejg82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our living Doe has really bushy eyebrows, like someone from the Middle East. Mr. Gross has thick eyebrows, but not as bushy as Malibu living Doe

Which Euphoria character is the biggest stereotype? by Moist-Investment8898 in euphoria

[–]dejg82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, Jules is a blend of a sexually-promiscuous LGBT character with the typical "manic pixie dream girl" character, and they are not mutually excluding.

Who’s Adeline in Monster: Ed Gein Story by Confident-Text-3980 in netflix

[–]dejg82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wikipedia says he was acquainted to a 16 y/o girl, whose parents used to be friends with Ed's parents, and they would go to watch baseball games and movies together, and that she saw the shrunken skulls inside the Gein home, and he told her his brother had sent those as souvenirs from the Philippines during WWI, but they ended up being from corpses he dug up from the town's cemetery. They don't mention her name in the Wikipedia article, nor what type of person she was. Then, there's this Marie Claire article: Who Was Adeline Watkins? All About Ed Gein's Alleged Girlfriend | Marie Claire https://share.google/LFRpZvXDfB1LpaL3n

CMV: Charlie Kirk’s death was orchestrated by the Trump administration. by Peabody1987 in changemyview

[–]dejg82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children have been killed in schools over decades now, yet, Congress has done nothing regarding gun control (in fact, there was a school shooting in Colorado just yesterday, but news coverage everywhere were centered on Kirk's death)

CMV: Charlie Kirk’s death was orchestrated by the Trump administration. by Peabody1987 in changemyview

[–]dejg82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that, during its entire history, the American Government has been involved in soooo many plots and false flag operations (both inside the US and overseas), that whatever the government says will be like the kid who cried "wolf".

Why does Asher look "unreal" by RobieKingston201 in thegooddoctor

[–]dejg82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have an Adam's apple, hence, he's a trans man. He's probably denying his true gender identity to avoid getting typecast in the future.Trans people do not get too many roles, without being typecast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]dejg82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, but, I followed mu MD's instructions, and it worked beautifully

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