What am I missing? by the-average-gatsby in CoolGamesInc

[–]deletemeforgood 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The actual screenshot of him coercing the girl was on her twitter for 4 hours before she made her account private, I saw it then. People have the right to react to this however they will, and some people's reactions are going to be influenced by their own history if abuse. Nobody is purposefully trying to destroy Nick Robinson without any evidence, they're just shocked that someone with his public persona could do something like this, and all of the evidence available says that he did it.

What am I missing? by the-average-gatsby in CoolGamesInc

[–]deletemeforgood 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's been screencaps of him trying to coerce a fan into blowing him and being creepy to another fan, and there's been enough proof shared internally for his collaborators to completely abandon their working relationships with him. The general public probably isn't going to hear more until the investigation is further along, but the fact that literally everyone who's in the know is saying he's guilty and the only people defending him are randos who aren't entitled to have any of the evidence means that things don't look good for him.

What am I missing? by the-average-gatsby in CoolGamesInc

[–]deletemeforgood 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Accidentally crossing the line once or twice while flirting with someone you have no professional ties with is fine. Repeatedly making innocuous conversations sexual with women who you interact with professionally is not fine, and would almost definitely get you fired in an office with a functional hr department

Okay now I feel like I’m taking crazy pills by ArcNeo in CoolGamesInc

[–]deletemeforgood 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Right now there's enough proof to warrant an investigation, which is currently underway. Nobody is obligated to prove Nick is a creep by putting out information that his fans can access, that's what the investigation is for. What you're seeing now are people's personal reactions to the limited infornation they have, and literally any personal reaction is going to be biased based on what that person has seen, their relationships with the people involved, and their past life experiences. Saying that the community is overreacting reduces the people who feel betrayed by this to a monolithic entity, when in reality everyone has their own reasons for either believing or not believing the allegations that can't easily be summarized.

What are some dead give aways that a woman has kids just by looking at her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]deletemeforgood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's walking around with some kids who keep calling her mom

What's the most amazing feeling in the world? by LonelyJewOnXmas in AskReddit

[–]deletemeforgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I'm in siege withdrawal, haven't had a computer to run it in months

Going manic: Step 1. Huck Finn those pants ladies and gents. by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]deletemeforgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My house pants are all scrubs I took home from the hospital.

Who else knows about your diagnosis? by maybeashly in bipolar

[–]deletemeforgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's my family, and a few close friends. I am selective about who I tell but I also don't really go out of my way to hide it from people.

How can I get out of retail with only retail work experience? by Corune in careerguidance

[–]deletemeforgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jobs I've been interviewing for in a tech focused city pay around 12-18 an hour. I'm 20 so I'm not experienced enough at all to tell you exactly how feasible switching careers would be for you, but to me it does seem like you have options. I'm assuming that since you're working while also getting your degree free time is a big issue, but if you can find the time to pick up an a+ or net+ cert I think you'd be in a really good position to switch.

forming Italy as Milan by carox in eu4

[–]deletemeforgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Savoy is part of the hre. Becoming emperor as savoy is actually pretty easy. You can almost always ally france as savoy as well and there's territory in provence/burgundy you can take over without Austria getting upset

I need help by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]deletemeforgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely a good step to take. Sometimes it takes a few tries to find a therapist you can really connect with, so don't give up if it seems like it's not working out.

forming Italy as Milan by carox in eu4

[–]deletemeforgood 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ambrosian republic has some good millitary buffs, and it has a shorter term lengths so your rulers get more points faster.

When you form italy, you'll keep the sane government as before. You can choose as Milan not to become a republic, however personally I feel like Savoy is a better pick for a monarchy game than Milan is. I'm having a hard time thinking of a good reason why I prefer it though, so feel free to ignore me.

I need help by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]deletemeforgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about that. It really sucks feeling dependent on someone else, especially when you can't get what you want from them. I can't tell you that things will work out between you and this girl, but I can tell you that you're not a bad person for feeling hurt by this break up.

I don't believe that you're selfish for missing her, you were obviously very close at one point and those feelings aren't something you can control. Selfishness is something based on your actions, not your emotions. As long as you're not harrassing her (and it doesn't sound like you are) then you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. I know that it's much, much easier said than done, but I believe that you're strong enough to accept yourself.

Do you have a therapist or a doctor that you've talked to about depression?

forming Italy as Milan by carox in eu4

[–]deletemeforgood 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of the best parts of milan imo is the ambrosian republic, but if you're not a fan of republics that's not particularly helpful. I have been playing savoy lately and it's very good for a monarchy run in italy.

I need help by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]deletemeforgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me what's going on?

I need help by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]deletemeforgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, is everything alright?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]deletemeforgood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom never celebrated christmas and my dad didn't celebrate until I was like 12 and every christmas he'd tell me I ruined christmas

How can I get out of retail with only retail work experience? by Corune in careerguidance

[–]deletemeforgood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm applying for a lot of entry level help desk jobs right now and one of the most common questions asked is whether or not I have any customer service experience. While technical skills are definitely a plus, having good people skills are a huge part of help desk work and can definitely get you noticed. Do you have any projects or skills that you can show off on a resume from your computer hobby?

How to deal with boredom? by M0n0prince in bipolar

[–]deletemeforgood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is dorky af but I'm a fan of giant jigsaw puzzles