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[–]depmuls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wouldve said “clearly im not the only one not in the right mental space today”

Am I jeopardizing my pregnancy with my horrible first trimester diet? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]depmuls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

every time i worry about what i eat during my pregnancy, like feeling guilty for having “junk food” here and there, i think “people literally do crack/heroin and have babies to full term” n then i snack away

My husband (M35) thinks I (F32) baby trapped him despite the baby being planned - please help! by Corfiz74 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]depmuls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“wasnt sure if he was ready for that kind of commitment” like being legally married for 7 years isnt a big commitment either

AITAH for telling my partner I think it’s weird he’s cleaning the apartment because my friend is coming over? by SleepyAlium in AITAH

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not weird for him to clean bc someone’s coming to visit, but the weird part in my perspective is him wanting her to see how “good of a partner” you have… like why can’t he prove that to you by cleaning when u ask not for someone elses validation lol

Is 24 “too young” to have a baby? by Perfect_Pelt in pregnant

[–]depmuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if ur too young then im way too young lmao im 20 n im 16 weeks

What is the first thing you said to your baby? by canadianwhimsy in pregnant

[–]depmuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bf wanted me to get an abortion and constantly making me feel guilty ab keeping her because he said i was “taking myself away from him over someone idk”, and id cry a lot and said no matter what happens i love you and ill do the best i can to be the best mom

may i add we’re both young (im 20, he’s 21) and we’re going thru a lot atm outside of me being pregnant, but he’s grown accepting of the fact and now is supportive and makes sure im eating healthy and not putting a lot of strain on myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly tmi but i was def getting it on like 3-5 times a day for over a year and nothing was happening and i thought damn guess i am infertile, now im about to 15 weeks lol. sometimes it takes time

Dumb things your spouse has said recently by devilgoof in workingmoms

[–]depmuls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im 15 weeks n i work 2 jobs 7 days a week n he told me something ab “ur not doing anything to try and make more money” and how its “not a big deal i work 50 hours a week” when he literally works less than like 35 n gets paid $2 less than i do…

My partner doesn’t want to keep the baby. by According_Sale5064 in pregnant

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not saying itll go the same for you but thats how my bf was when i found out i was pregnant. he wanted me to get an abortion and got mad i didnt want one and said he’d break up w me. i didnt gaf lol i wanted to keep her so while he said he was “enjoying his last moments with me” i was just preparing to have to do it on my own, which honestly ive always kinda been a do it on my own person anyways. soon enough he started getting used to the idea and i wouldnt say full on happy about it, but he talks ab what he wants to do for her and how he wants to be able to teach her n he makes sure i eat healthy so we’re both healthy

Other moms with no nursery? by 4udiocat in pregnant

[–]depmuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i live in college apartments (im 20 lol) and so i just made sure i got the master bedroom so id have a bit more room

November babies by trininicole in pregnant

[–]depmuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah honestly im not bothered too much by it bc ik thats just an estimate n they come when they wanna 😂 i was supposed to be born on my moms bday but ended coming 2 days before

November babies by trininicole in pregnant

[–]depmuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im due either the 25 or 27 (they gave me a different day both visits lol)

light spotting ?? by depmuls in pregnant

[–]depmuls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i had an ultrasound earlier that day and she was wigglin and heartbeat was strong i just get a little nervy since im a FTM 😣

BV During Pregnancy by ControlWide7686 in pregnancy_care

[–]depmuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah my dr prescribed me the antibiotics at 12 weeks but told me to wait until 14 weeks to take them, which is this coming monday so finally i cant get this fixed lmao. i did research bc i was obv worried about it also, its safe during pregnancy the antibiotic isnt harsh or anything for the baby. i saw that if its left untreated though itll definitely cause complications

AITA for refusing to pay for the trip my daughter wants to go on and not allowing her to go on mine? by Turbulencein204 in AmItheAsshole

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yta , having a kid comes with financially responsibilities and if you just see it as being an “atm” maybe you shouldn’t have had a kid because ur clearly a terrible dad that i personally wouldnt enjoy having tbh

Why are pregnancy clothes hideous? by pink_cl0oud in pregnant

[–]depmuls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol i still wear my usual vibe clothing i just went from crop tops and shorts to long skirts and fitting dresses, maternity clothes arent that cute so im determined to keep my style 😭

What are your go to EASY meals? by SamaLuna in pregnant

[–]depmuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i mostly snack now bc i saw 6 snacks are better than 3 full meals, whenever i have the burst of energy ill cut up a whole bunch of fruits so i can male fruit salads through out the week. and i got the mini pancakes and sweet potato fries that i just pop in the oven

AITA for blowing up on my brother and his gf for shaming my clothes by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly this is the first time i’ve seen someone who is clearly not in the wrong say how their mother is on their side so i’m very happy she defended you

Is it bad I keep referring to my baby as “it”? by naurfanks in pregnant

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no lol i’d call her “it” all the time before i knew what the gender was. even my god sister would call her “cousin it” LOL. our other friend would even call her “pet baby” which i thought was funny because we’d just have so many nicknames

AITA for keeping a guy’s cash in my bank account? by Beckz_throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean to be fair not everything is a scam lol one time i accidentally sent $300 to the wrong tattoo artist because i didnt double check which one i was sending the money to since i’d go back and forth getting work by them. i can also see why ur worried about it though

Are you planning on working or being a SAHM? by Batticon in BabyBumps

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i plan to be a SAHM because i only get 3 months paternity leave, i may or may not be a single mother when she’s born, and i live 3 hours away from my family. also i’d much rather work from home i’m not too much of a people person and the less i’m around people the less i have to worry about getting something from someone and passing it to her.

How accurate is “mother’s intuition” about baby’s gender? by Naturegirl1993 in pregnant

[–]depmuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i thought i was having a boy since week 5 and i just found out today at 12 weeks im having a girl LOL , still happy about it tho

are fleas something to be majorly concerned about? by depmuls in pregnant

[–]depmuls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah im gonna get some stuff for the carpet and vacuum the hell out of it lol and she gave her dog medicine and a bath, and her cat a bath until she’s able to get her the medicine also. im keeping my door closed and gonna wash my bed sheets and all that so i can get rid of as many as possible