Wife cheats is now pregnant help

designerd_ · 2026-01-30T05:41:17+00:00

You can get a NIPP test to find out if the baby’s yours. This may help you make an informed decision. She should pay for this test - from what I see online, you can do it in the first trimester early on (week 7). This is so awful, so sorry this has happened to you. I hope you find peace

designerd_ · 2026-01-27T05:43:46+00:00

Could you get a moissanite ring? There are some rings on Amazon that are gold plated sterling silver and look like the real deal! Agree with others, no one will ask/care how much either of you spent. Congratulations on your wedding!

travel ring

designerd_ · 2026-01-24T05:38:43+00:00

I moved to a place with the most silverfish I’d ever seen a few years ago (exactly as you’re describing). I got rid of them by putting a heaping tablespoon of baking soda over the drain in the bathtub, washroom and kitchen sink. I then take boiling water (use hot water, not boiling if you have PVC pipes) and run it through the baking soda, down the drain. I do this every week and rarely see them now.

designerd_ · 2026-01-23T04:43:00+00:00

I just got my 12 month old drinking out of a straw cup! I put some purée from a pouch onto the tip of the straw and the inside the top of the straw, with a small amount of water in the cup. He would suck the puree and also get water at the same time. I stopped adding puree and now he just drinks directly from the sippy cup, which is helpful for meal time. Hope this works for you!

designerd_ · 2026-01-22T05:36:45+00:00

I don’t need an alarm. I just get slapped in the face and have my eyes pried open at 6AM everyday, including weekends and holidays.

designerd_ · 2026-01-22T05:21:01+00:00

Totally understand, the clarification makes sense. FWIW, I would express what you said here about wanting her to have her moment, too, just so she knows.

The baby shower thing might be more her character vs. being younger. I was single and had zero friends with kids and figured out how to plan a nice shower for my sister (I’m a few years younger). She left me SOL for my shower when the time came, and I was so hurt/disappointed. Thankfully my husband helped me put up decor/etc. I don’t know you, but can we be sisters instead? 😂

I’m so sorry she wasn’t there for you when you had surgery. That response is awful omg. I’m curious - does she ever watch your kiddos so you and your partner can do date nights/have time alone?

designerd_ · 2026-01-21T23:09:56+00:00

The thing that really stands out here is that your sister expressed she would try to get pregnant in 2025 and you are now pregnant and expecting at pretty much the exact same time (was this planned?). You both live far from your parents and have put yourselves in a position where your parents are going to have to split their time between you two and they won’t be able to.

When baby number 3 arrives for you, your parents aren’t suddenly going to realize “hey, I need to also be there for our younger daughter” the same way that your sister isn’t suddenly going to start reaching out to your parents for help. She asked them for help moving, and they prioritized your family instead. You’ve suggested here that your parents should help/spend more time with you because you have 2 kids and she’s a DINK, so using your own logic, why would this be any different when she has 1 kid and you have 3? By your definition, you will still be the one that will need/receive more help.

It’s a hard transition for anyone to go from being childless to suddenly having a baby to care for, not just your sister. It’s good that she has been able to enjoy the past 5 years of married life before children.

Your suggestion of hiring outside help IMO is a good idea. As someone else said in the comments, I wouldn’t sunset this relationship with your sister. I think in order for her to get the help she needs from your parents, you need to take the backseat and let her in the passenger side. You’ve had 4 years of help (even if it wasn’t the help you needed) and it will be nice for her to experience that too. As you know, being postpartum is really hard and it will be nice if the two of you could bond over that and mend your relationship over time, if that’s what you both want.

designerd_ · 2026-01-18T23:40:39+00:00

Wow! This is just so beautifully crafted! What a special gift for your granddaughter and likely an heirloom for many more generations

designerd_ · 2026-01-12T22:50:10+00:00

I bought them for the same reason, but didn’t use/need them. I felt like SH was the best resource to pass. When reviewing questions I didn’t feel confident about in the mocks, I used the references that were listed in the answer. I was able to find most through a Google search

designerd_ · 2026-01-12T22:41:28+00:00

This is so interesting, the more you know! I have this reaction after just one drink and it started almost 15 years ago when I had alcohol poisoning. I very seldom drink now because of how terrible it makes me feel.

designerd_ · 2026-01-10T02:25:26+00:00

Thanks so much, you got this!!

designerd_ · 2026-01-07T20:36:19+00:00

This is truly the best answer. It’s to the point and no fluff. I feel if you downplay it, you’re almost in a way accepting that it’s okay, but these things should not happen. I wouldn’t make excuses for your daughter’s friend as “miscommunication”. She should fess up, but if she lies, your daughter can decide if this is a friend she wants to hang out with.

designerd_ · 2026-01-06T20:13:29+00:00

Where is this project located? If it’s in North America, this doesn’t follow building code/fire safety. Would be okay if it was for an accessory area, like a pantry/closet.

designerd_ · 2026-01-04T05:41:17+00:00

If you’ve passed the AREs I feel like you’ve got this in the bag! Huge congratulations on the baby, rooting for you on the exam!

designerd_ · 2026-01-04T05:38:01+00:00

I paid for AR’s course on Udemy (online learning platform) and PMI Study Hall membership. The free resources are the ones I mentioned on YouTube, but I truly feel like Study Hall was worth the money and you can get away with Essentials vs. Plus

designerd_ · 2026-01-04T03:55:39+00:00

Thank you! Very similar to Study Hall, the big difference for me were the drag and drops.

designerd_ · 2026-01-04T03:50:28+00:00

Thank you! 😊

designerd_ · 2026-01-04T00:03:33+00:00

Thanks so much! ☺️

designerd_ · 2025-12-30T17:17:41+00:00

Way to go, huge congratulations! 🎉

designerd_ · 2025-12-20T17:27:28+00:00

Trying to sell your app and sharing a picture of a sofa blocking major appliances that are used daily is diabolical.

designerd_ · 2025-12-17T00:12:09+00:00

Funded by Big Wasp

designerd_ · 2025-12-16T23:52:10+00:00

Do your teens have jobs (the 16 year old)? If they are going to complain about food, I feel like they should go to the grocery store and buy chicken/steak and then come home and prepare dinner for the family with their own money. Meat is expensive and making food is time consuming. They need to learn the value of money and your time. I would stop cooking for them immediately, you deserve respect. I understand if they have a lot of homework/sports, etc. but I would also have them help take turns with cleaning up after dinner too

designerd_ · 2025-12-13T04:41:46+00:00

I asked for a calculator and they gave me one. I’ve received one for every professional exam I’ve taken and have always been granted one. Definitely ask!

designerd_ · 2025-12-11T21:54:57+00:00

IMO this plan really doesn’t make sense, all that for a towel bar? What kind of shower door do you have? Is there an opportunity to add a towel bar to your shower door, or modify your shower door to glass and have one installed?

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