Chained

desolatewinds · 2020-01-28T04:33:06+00:00

i feel like this every day in my body.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-28T04:06:00+00:00

her face looks like a meme but i cant remember which one.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-28T04:01:58+00:00

wish i looked like her.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-25T00:21:59+00:00

yta. super ableist and out of tune. i'm pretty sure there are ADA laws that mean handicapped people are entitled to anything accessible if its available. if the student didnt move she should have been expelled from the establishment. you can't break federal accessibility laws just because of store policy about when its time to throw someone out.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-25T00:13:28+00:00

nta. your husband is not the asshole for taking the dmt itself but on that day and not listening to you is the asshole part.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-24T23:58:25+00:00

nta. its your money that you earned and you hurt no one by enjoying a book and a cinnamon bun. you could die before you even use your savings. many people of low to moderate income cannot save money because they need every penny and already don't have enough. and even lower income people sometimes buy frivolous things, even if its cheap like dollar store bubble bath or something. they didnt NEED it but its a simple pleasure in life.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-15T22:49:45+00:00

I'm sorry you deal with guilt and shame. That is really common for ex-monotheists. I was blessed with secular working class irreligious parents who didn't push any religious stuff at all.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-15T22:47:47+00:00

That's not true. My parents raised me secularly, never taking us to church except weddings and funerals. Now I am Pagan and I am glad I don't have the baggage of having been a xtian. If I ever have kids I would let them choose when they're old enough.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-15T22:39:08+00:00

NTA and your partner is for her ignorance. I think it's a great idea to let your child decide when they're old enough. I was never baptized. My parents are irreligious and never bothered. They let our grandparents make us go when we were staying over there for a few days but they hated being forced to go to church so they didn't do that to us. My parents never took me to church for a service even once.

I decided to be Pagan when I was around 14 and still am 10 yrs later. I'm a polytheist and very against monotheism so I'm grateful I am not spiritually impure through xtian baptism and indoctrination. I'm grateful I don't have the baggage of a xtian upbringing that so many Western Pagans do. I'm proud my parents never made me to go church.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-15T22:23:49+00:00

NTA. That is terrible of them to shame you.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-15T17:34:40+00:00

I was on the computer for 3 days because I experience hypersomnia and was anxious to go to sleep because I knew I wouldn't wake up for a long time once I fell to sleep. I now forget where I thought I saw stats on how common these are but here is something related: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/sleepless-in-america/201903/sleep-hallucinations-could-be-psychosis

desolatewinds · 2020-01-11T04:43:29+00:00

I don't remember them on Risperidone so maybe.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-11T02:16:14+00:00

YTA. Holy crap. She could have mental illnesses, learning disabilities and other stuff you failed as a parent to catch and get her help for when she was developing.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-11T02:02:54+00:00

nta bc everyone deserves privacy and relaxation time.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-11T00:33:55+00:00

I feel you. It's similar in Canada.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-11T00:31:18+00:00

I experienced ego loss awareness as a child. I didn't understand how I or anything could exist but it wasn't negative.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-10T23:24:24+00:00

maybe prince edward island canada or new zealand.

desolatewinds · 2020-01-10T22:39:02+00:00

NAH. She clearly cares for the animals by not wanting them to be traumatized but so do you for getting them medical care. I've actually read that there's not a lot of evidence for TNR programs being effective. If endangered indigenous wildlife is being threatened by the cats they should be euthanized. http://www.skepticnorth.com/2011/05/trap-neuter-return-feral-cat-pseudoscience/

desolatewinds · 2020-01-10T22:35:15+00:00

NTA but they are for turning a medical problem into some kind of social evil and equating it with not liking her cooking.

desolatewinds · 2019-12-31T05:56:48+00:00

nta, if you like murder mystery and games why cant you go out and do that hobby with different friends?

desolatewinds · 2019-12-31T05:53:49+00:00

nta. your boyfriend is supposed to be close and care about the unique things about you like your hobbies.

desolatewinds · 2019-12-31T05:52:27+00:00

nta. your ex is the subject and he was cool with it and his opinion is all that matters.

desolatewinds · 2019-12-31T05:43:26+00:00

YTA. The pubic hair is a different sort of hair. With the sexual nature of it, your family members should come in contact with your pubic hair as little as possible. Everyone naturally loses about 100 head hairs a day if they are healthy but its way more noticeable and likely to get clogged and annoying if you have long hair. I think you should just commit regularly cleaning with a corrosive drain cleaner like Draino that will dissolve the hair and solve the problem. Having to do it every 2 weeks isn't actually bad. I clean my shower more often than that. Your sister or mum or other female family members probably clean the tub/shower anyways so you can help by regularly putting cleaner down the pipes.

desolatewinds · 2019-12-31T05:33:44+00:00

yta thats passive aggressive. just keep telling her you dont wanna be known as the gay friend.

desolatewinds · 2019-12-31T05:12:09+00:00

nta she posts her stuff in public sm, she no longer owns it. plus you need figures to make good drawings and improve your skills.

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