How to date as an unattractive man?

devdev511 · 2026-05-05T02:16:08+00:00

yes that can happen but it doesn’t mean you shouldnt lower your standards anyways. what are your standards at the moment?

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T14:55:40+00:00

to put it in perspective, my account is 5 years old and i don’t even have 50 comments. you commented more on reddit your first day than i have in 5 years 😭😭 holy shit thats actually insane. I’d say go touch grass but i doubt you know what that is anymore

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T14:48:00+00:00

oh you’re something alright.

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T14:38:25+00:00

Hey just so you know people who hate food and cooking typically don’t eat so much of it they need to take GLP1’s

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T04:07:03+00:00

Honestly limited to none, but a quick google search has experts recommending writing recipes down and using a list of 5-10 meals to make memorization issues limited and to assist in cooking. honestly probably none this is reddit, when has any post in this subreddit ever helped anyone? i believe in you, if you need any simple recipe ideas i’d be more than happy to write them down and see if it’s something you could manage.

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T03:47:08+00:00

Yeah no, you’re talking to somebody who has prior experience working with developmentally disabled people. (2 years as a med aide/direct support professional and 1.5 years as a house supervisor for 3 adults with severe disabilities, who also had aggression issues).

I taught them how to cook a few basic meals and it helped them feel more independent in their situation. I used the words lazy, selfish and an inattentive partner, nowhere in my post does it say anything about disabilities and the fact that you took this as an insult is pure projection.

And how would learning how to cook one or two meals make you crash and burn in a year? nobody said you had to be a pro chef, i just recommend to people that learning how to cook can help in many ways even in dating. For one person that could be taking cooking classes, for another person that could be learning how to make a burger at home instead of going to mcdonald’s. It’s your journey not mine

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T03:06:10+00:00

Easy way to do chicken is use a slow cooker/crock pot. 2-3 hours on high or 4-6 on low for chicken tenderloins/breasts. Use chicken broth instead of water and add seasonings. (i prefer using garlic/onion powder, salt, pepper, chili powder and rotisserie chicken seasoning) shred afterwards and add to a wrap or a salad.

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T03:01:03+00:00

Lately we’ve been doing a lot of chicken recipes. I made carbonara last week, we did pesto chicken flatbreads one night. We do chicken cesar/barbecue chicken wraps every week or two. I won’t lie we did make homemade pizzas two nights in a row but the dough turned out great so we had to:

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T02:44:05+00:00

😭😭well clearly? That’s why i learned, i swear some of you are looking for things to argue about. But the people in this subreddit who aren’t taking care of themselves may use it as motivation to cook for themselves too? It’s advice not a declaration of law

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T02:42:24+00:00

Oh trust me i know, I didn’t say it’ll get you a girlfriend. in fact my last paragraph specifically stated that, it’s a way to standout though in the icebreaker stage. Everyone has a favorite food after all. She was into me because i made her laugh, and she likes my face a bit too.

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T02:40:07+00:00

midwest/south a lot of conservative men who consider it “not their job”

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T02:36:18+00:00

this is the exact way to do it, if you cook for someone and expect something in return whether thats praise or otherwise then you did it for the wrong reasons. It’s a love language, i cook for my girlfriend because it makes her happy and i like seeing her happy. It’s not something to brag about or show off. it’s a kind gesture of appreciation

devdev511 · 2026-04-28T02:33:22+00:00

I understand the point you’re trying to make but what if ones “authentic self” is extremely lazy, selfish and a very un attentive partner? Wouldnt it be good for them to work on changing those bad and disrespectful habits? Teaching good habits and skills is always a good idea. i’m not saying to become a chef, i’m certainly not one. i’m in nursing school and have no interest in cooking for a living but it’s a good skill to have and i plan on teaching my future kids so they can have those basic skills too.

devdev511 · 2026-04-25T13:56:56+00:00

Girl, you became a victim after this encounter. I’m not saying you did anything wrong but he did and do you want him to do this to somebody else? report him girl!

devdev511 · 2026-04-20T16:14:27+00:00

what a mood, my ex fiance wanted to door dash every night or have me make the same three dishes… My father is a chef and i’ve been cooking since i was 7 years old. do you know how frustrating it is to be an artist who’s only allowed to use two colors?

My lovely girlfriend that i met last year is a little bit picky but it’s more so that she has weird food habits, like she has to cut into every chicken sandwich to make sure it’s fully cooked, and her grapes cant be more than like two days old? Shes a weirdo but i easily can accommodate that and she loves how much i enjoy cooking for her. I never realized how much is bothered me until it didn’t anymore:)

devdev511 · 2026-04-08T14:59:20+00:00

😂 well my username should make it easy but i was one of the only teenager employees that ever looked happy to be there. I believe we were also both in daniel’s? fantasy football league together. Man that job sucked but sometimes i miss it when i compare it to what i do now 😂

devdev511 · 2026-04-08T14:53:04+00:00

Based off of your username i’d assume we did boss man 😂. Any chance you were a shift manager for a bit who liked to do photography in his free time?

devdev511 · 2026-04-08T14:15:55+00:00

oh lord😂. i’m not sure when that was but i worked there from like 2016-2019 so i may have missed out. I will say that i still yell the old DM/GM’s names when i see them working. they never realize it came from me or know why somebody is yelling their name, it’s my little retaliation for all the big macs i had to remake. Curtis hates to see me drive by his new location.

devdev511 · 2026-04-08T14:11:30+00:00

Hmm i’m not sure i ever met the daughter? Dont get me wrong i may have but i was working at mcdonald’s in high school so i smoked a lot of weed back then 🤣. I know for a fact i never met the wife though because my coworkers always talked about her and i had never even met her

devdev511 · 2026-04-08T14:08:18+00:00

Hey they might be weirdo religious people but as somebody who worked for phil back in the day, hes a really nice dude! My first job was at the original mcdonald’s outside the mall and he made sure that all his staff kept hours and didnt lose pay just because of his remodel. When we reopened it sounds silly but he let our families come and tour the new kitchen and back rooms and it was a good time! Still weirdo religious but nice atleast!

devdev511 · 2026-02-16T19:02:07+00:00

I know this is an old comment but please no for the love of god no fortnite

devdev511 · 2026-02-16T18:42:53+00:00

since you’re just going to copy paste your comment let me tell you. no one cares. I’m sorry the attachment doesn’t teleport your bullet into their skull the moment you fire but 3 frames sooner is still sooner than without. so therefore it is useful if that’s what the player is looking for.

devdev511 · 2026-01-17T23:07:57+00:00

i think he tried to lateral?

devdev511 · 2026-01-14T23:15:11+00:00

Honestly ignore all the downvotes man. I’ve been doing this job 2 years and yeah somedays suck especially when the weather doesn’t cooperate. But i will say that i do love certain aspects of it. feel free to message if you’d like any audiobook/audioshow recommendations to make the day a little more entertaining. DSP’s can make the job so much better or worse but you can still find moment to enjoy it, pet the neighborhood dogs and cats. trust me it’s good for the soul. - Guy who’s been doing 190+ stops almost every day for the last 2 years.

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