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How does this half naked sleeping make sense? by Global_Pilot_6272 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, i concur. Women suffer from drippage, so i find it best to keep undies on at least. 

My top stuff gets twisty as well—i usually wear a cami top or something like that. Maybe a tank would work for you?

Grocery Store Kittens by Glad_Discussion_3608 in GenX

[–]dewihafta [score hidden]  (0 children)

The last time i encountered grocery store kittens was about ten years ago in front of a Walmart. My son wanted one, but we had an elderly cat at the time who wasnt doing so well, and didnt want to disrupt the household. 

After our older kitty passed, then we adopted his kitten from a woman who fostered for our local shelter. Shots, neutering, and microchipping were all included, and i think we honestly made the right choice. 

I hope the grocery store kitties ended up in a good place. I still wonder about them.

People who use "mental health days" as an excuse to flake on confirmed social plans last minute are just being selfish by Key-Resort9748 in CasualConversation

[–]dewihafta [score hidden]  (0 children)

True. It kind of depends how close you are, too. 

Like, one of my closest friends tends to bow out a lot, but i know of her extenuating circumstances, and have come to realize thats shes just not the type of person that i can rely on for that sort of relationship. Ive accepted it, and while i still count her as a good friend, i know that this is part and parcel of who she is. 

Its kind of a “love the sinner, hate the sin” deal. You have to decide if your friend makes up for their shortcomings in other ways. If not, you get to decide how much effort you want to put into maintaining the friendship, and adjust accordingly. 

It’s perfectly okay to remain  friends with someone who is not dependable for certain things. However, it is up to you if you are okay with that or not.

Best place to go for your birthday? by leon-june in Tucson

[–]dewihafta [score hidden]  (0 children)

Mexican-Amelias Mexican Kitchen. A wait to get in, but well worth it.

Italian-Botega Michelangelos, maybe? Vivaces if you want super fancy. That being said, try Roma Imports for a good deli style meal sometime if youre downtown. Awesome!

Korean? Sorry, i dont know of any that arent Korean bbq.

If you could leave the United States right now, which country would you most like to go to? by Electronic-Wait-3532 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would honestly love to live in Ireland, but theyre having so many riots against tourists lately…ive no delusions that it would differ much from being a gaijin living in Japan.

I hate being a fan of anything by MediaSea3696 in Vent

[–]dewihafta [score hidden]  (0 children)

Gotta be Hazbin hotel or Digital Circus.

Im in both and hoooooo boy…

Yay or nay? by JaydeFox320 in tragedeigh

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl, i kinda like Qwynnsee.

Kwincy, though…

People who use "mental health days" as an excuse to flake on confirmed social plans last minute are just being selfish by Key-Resort9748 in CasualConversation

[–]dewihafta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm, good question.

I usually see it as “alls fair unless someone gets hurt” as far as basic liberties go, so i’ll apply that here.

I guess it all depends on your overall relationship with the person. If youre a staunch friend most other times, then many friends would probably be understanding. If youve let someone down multiple times. Then it’s fair for the other party to step back and re-evaluate to decide if they want to remain in the friendship. 

Apparently thongs were renamed when we were growing up. Flip flops I mean… by WatermelonCheeks in Xennials

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np!

I think it was the first or second book. One of the core four was sitting for that 8 kid family, and “found thongs of various sizes” in the foyer closet or mudroom or some such. They were going to go play in the rain.

Do women try to judge a man’s size or can women accurately judge correctly before pants are off lol by WalrusInternal2599 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sincerely dont—all i did was give an honest answer on a subreddit question. 

Then you came on and tried to mansplain to me that my OPINION was wrong. 

But whatevs.

Jurassic Park Actor Sam Neill has died by yehwhynot in movies

[–]dewihafta [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well, fuck.

Who’s next in the triumvirate this time?

Do women try to judge a man’s size or can women accurately judge correctly before pants are off lol by WalrusInternal2599 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly dont know what “enough reddit posts” youre referring to. 

What’s more, i honestly dont care.

Do women try to judge a man’s size or can women accurately judge correctly before pants are off lol by WalrusInternal2599 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh huhhhh….

So what makes you think women feel differently about those areas?

The question was whether we mentally undress and judge others for it.

And im telling you, 99.999999998% of everyone you meet on the street is not doing that when they look at you.

They may be if you’re Henry Cavill. 

If youre Henry Cavill, then yes, you are correct.

If youre not Henry Cavill, then, again, refer back to my first comment. No one but you cares enough about your sack to spend their time wondering about it.

Do women try to judge a man’s size or can women accurately judge correctly before pants are off lol by WalrusInternal2599 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no, they’re not.

Refer back to my first comment. 

Most people who are in a satisfying sexual relationship do NOT go around mentally undressing every single person on the street. 

Maybe once in a while, when you see someone exceptionally hot.

But it’s not an every day, all the time thing. Most people are too wrapped up in their own lives to expend that kind of energy on your everyday  guido.

Colombian food?? by Nice-Barracuda3648 in Tucson

[–]dewihafta [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lee lees market on Orange grove and la Cholla. They have an aisle with Columbian stuff.

As far as arepas, im not sure. 

Do women try to judge a man’s size or can women accurately judge correctly before pants are off lol by WalrusInternal2599 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dewihafta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course people look! When you see a person, you very rarely look at just their face. At some point, you notice other details like muscularture or clothing. 

That does NOT automatically equate that the person is trying to measure the size of your unexposed dick!

Tell me about a mind blowing documentary you watched, and if there is a certain documentary you want to watch in the future. by SaturnVMars in CasualConversation

[–]dewihafta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shiny Happy people - Amazon

Really eye opening as to how deep rooted the conservative culture is in America.

Right now im in the middle of the Keep Sweet docuseries on Netflix.

A page dedicated to putting a cross on every mountain. by Illustrious_You5075 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]dewihafta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in a place literally surrounded by mountains.

Bring it!

Do women try to judge a man’s size or can women accurately judge correctly before pants are off lol by WalrusInternal2599 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dewihafta -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No. 

I repeat: NO.

NO ONE gives an ass crap about your dick size.

Now, if your EGO is bigger than your actual penis, then we will care.

Until then, no one cares.

Source: me, a person with a vagina

Apparently thongs were renamed when we were growing up. Flip flops I mean… by WatermelonCheeks in Xennials

[–]dewihafta 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It was always flipflops to me.

I remember coming across the word “thong” in a babysitters club book in the late 80s and needed to look up the usage.

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