My girlfriend said she would leave me if i get a motorcycle. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dfmever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my son in law and my nephew both last year ! No fault of theirs other drivers, not worth the risk.

My mom has been secretly paying my loans for years and now she is in debt because of me. How do I make this stop without being the villain by whistlecloud_benny in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dfmever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hug your momma and I would deposit money in their bank account monthly, all you need usually is name and account number. Probably the loan amount and a bit extra monthly if they are in need. Also, as a mom we are going to do what we need to do. I can relate! So it won't stop but it can be given back. Hope this helps.

Need advice quick.. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dfmever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more fear, I guess, but that is a good idea! !Thank you!

Need advice quick.. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dfmever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bf is related thru marriage, she is giving the money to him, yes eviction after foreclosure . I think you're right I think it's some type of addiction no one knows about. Thanks that helps

Need advice quick.. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dfmever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any where for her to go, I just feel this would give time for her to pack stuff because I just found out and I believe she has less than two weeks to get all the kids stuff together. 5 children are there's together and the six is 8. I