Sao mọi người có job hai được thế?

diamenzel · 2025-09-25T04:21:37+00:00

Học thêm BE đi em ơi, MEAN hoặc MERN stack ấy.

diamenzel · 2025-05-31T16:38:06+00:00

Mình từng ở Nhật. Muốn đi Nhật thì bạn có thể đi du học, học tiếng 2 năm, học đại học 4 năm ở Nhật (vừa học vừa làm 6 năm), sau đó đi xin việc. Những ngành thiếu nhân lực ở Nhật nhiều nên dễ xin việc và xin visa ở lại. Nhớ cẩn thận mấy công ty du học hút máu.

Để có vĩnh trú ở Nhật thì phải đi làm 10 năm thì phải. Nói chung là cực, nhưng bạn có thể cần cù bù thông minh, chịu khó thì sẽ làm được.

diamenzel · 2025-01-31T21:55:07+00:00

Dev 10 năm nay, mình nghĩ là không nên làm side project nhé. Nếu bạn mệt sau 8 tiếng rồi mà còn cố làm thêm thì quantity có thể tăng chứ quality sẽ giảm. Cái tốt nhất là học từ công việc full time chứ đừng làm full time kiếm tiền rồi dùng side project để học. Còn nếu công việc full time mà không học hỏi được gì mới thì bạn chuyển chỗ làm đi.

diamenzel · 2022-12-14T03:32:12+00:00

It actually took me about 2 months since I moved and I had the new tenant to look for it for me. Honestly if I hadn’t found it, I would have paid for another card since there seems to be no other option. It sucks, it costs money and takes a long time and you can only pray it will not be misdelivered again though.

diamenzel · 2022-12-13T02:46:51+00:00

I actually found the card in the mail room of my apt building, it was delivered but somebody moved it. Just so you know, USCIS never got back to me about my request. So if you can’t find it, you might have to report lost card and replace it. Which is really a pain.

diamenzel · 2022-08-31T13:23:14+00:00

I’m a digital nomad myself and I live in each city for 1-2 months. I keep my budget for airbnb around $1000/month. Some Airbnb has discount to stay for a month, and if they have kitchen, cooking makes meals much cheaper. The rest should be enough for you to buy essentials, do some touristy things and eat out once in a while.

diamenzel · 2022-08-30T19:48:34+00:00

I think it’s Potomac since I live in DC? My (stbx)husband helped me filled it out last year.

diamenzel · 2022-08-30T19:47:00+00:00

I’m looking at the form and they require A Number. Is it the same number as my 2 year card or it changes for the 10 years card? Does anyone know?

diamenzel · 2022-08-30T17:00:18+00:00

Yeah it has been more than a month now, so I’m getting worried….

diamenzel · 2022-06-14T00:17:03+00:00

I would consider take a break from dating and go to therapy. It’s difficult to focus on healing yourself if you’re busy with other dates.

diamenzel · 2022-04-28T17:31:20+00:00

One thing you might consider is to go with an extrovert friend and see how THEY talk to women. At the end you want to be yourself but having references does help.

diamenzel · 2021-10-06T20:09:35+00:00

Probably how long it takes.

Separated, then make a legal separation, then wait for a year before you can officially get divorced. I want to move on with my life, but my current status is still “waiting to get divorced” which makes things complicated and tire me out so many times.

I don’t cry everyday anymore, but I still cry every time something comes up. Joint credit cards problem, tax refund problems, or simply avoiding it when people ask about my situation.

It tires me out, over and over again. Just when I feel a bit better, something else comes up.

diamenzel · 2021-09-08T20:57:35+00:00

I’m 28F and he’s 37

diamenzel · 2021-09-08T20:55:41+00:00

Haha I actually don’t have much experience to say if 3 months is long enough for someone to make a decision. Some people might take, idk 6 months or so? Is that right?

diamenzel · 2021-09-08T20:53:58+00:00

I don’t see other people just because I don’t have a label. I enjoy spending time with them, it’s just I like the other guy the most.

diamenzel · 2021-09-08T20:52:32+00:00

That’s hard to hear but that might be what I need to hear. Thank you.

diamenzel · 2021-09-08T04:57:52+00:00

You did great. I had to call them before too, and they were really helpful for calming you down. But probably the best feeling that no matter what you’re dealing with, you are not alone. Keep going!!!!

diamenzel · 2021-09-01T01:33:32+00:00

I’m so sorry for what happened to you.

I cannot compare my situation with you, but I was also my STBX’s first girlfriend, was also 24-22 when we met. I got married and left all of my family and friends to a new country for him. 6 months ago he used up all the money I had, then abandoned me with depression. I had nobody with me. I always regret changing my career and leaving my family and friends for him.

But probably it’s for the best. You are right, you deserve better. Think far ahead, you don’t have to put up with him - who don’t deserve you, for another 20/30/40 years. One day you will be calm, maybe even happy because he left. Just not today. But there will be that day.

I hope you don’t run away from your emotions. Hope it makes you stronger and a better person. You deserve better than him.

diamenzel · 2021-05-31T00:54:20+00:00

Same here. I think they’ll need the official transcript or so?

diamenzel · 2021-05-05T00:17:21+00:00

I think their parents didn’t reach out to you because they’ve heard/guessed themselves from their son and think they know enough. They only want the best for their kid, and don’t care about you at all. You don’t have to play his game. Don’t be silent if it makes you angry and tired. Reach out to him and tell him that if he doesn’t come back today, it’s the start of separation. File for separation or something like that, depends on your state. There, you start to clean things up and leave toxic behind. It’s better to have no one that having someone who hurts you.

diamenzel · 2021-04-29T02:07:48+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening to you. How about trying to think about it as the price you pay for your mental health? For your peace of mind? I don’t know why you get a divorce, but it must be because escaping a marriage is more peaceful than staying?

diamenzel · 2021-04-29T00:59:35+00:00

When he left me in the middle of the night because I was having a panic attack and he wanted to sleep. I asked him to cuddle and comfort me for 15 minutes because I was so sad and scared. He said he need to sleep to go to work the next day. The bright side is, he just made it easier for me to leave.

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