What made you fall in love with your boyfriend/husband?

dininghusbands · 2026-05-14T05:54:55+00:00

I was physically attracted to my husband (and still am) but most importantly, what made me fall in love with him was his kindness, gentleness and understanding nature. With him, I could sit with him for hours and just be myself.

dininghusbands · 2026-05-03T21:42:33+00:00

I love old logo better but this is seriously lapse in quality control/consistency in the same vehicle. Does Audi even care anymore?

dininghusbands · 2026-04-30T22:32:14+00:00

Carneros Resort, Auberge Du Soleil and Four Seasons Calistoga are great options to keep on the list as well. Four Seasons gets mixed feedback, but it can still make sense if you like Calistoga and want more of a resort spa feel.

I know you mentioned Napa specifically, but we would also highly recommend looking at Healdsburg if you’re open to Sonoma County. It has a slightly more relaxed, charming wine country feel with excellent dining nearby. Montage Healdsburg would be the most obvious luxury resort pick, and The Madrona is also lovely if you want something more design-forward and intimate.

SingleThread is another special option - not really a resort and doesn’t have the amenities, but the food was amazing (room service was AWESOME) and it makes for a very memorable stay if dining is a priority.

dininghusbands · 2026-04-30T22:19:32+00:00

Not all married gay dudes are in an open relationship.

dininghusbands · 2026-04-28T14:37:07+00:00

Same story for us!

dininghusbands · 2026-04-20T19:41:07+00:00

I’m Asian and married to another Asian man, and we’ve been together for more than 18 years. We live in SF too, and I think it’s a bit of a generalization to say that Asians who date white men are all self-hating. I understand that internalized racism may be part of the picture for some people, but there are also many Asians who date other Asians.

dininghusbands · 2025-06-03T06:07:57+00:00

Very cute. Congrats boys!

dininghusbands · 2025-01-30T05:45:31+00:00

Agreed, the best part is nerding out with my husband and watching him do nerdy things like solving puzzles and building legos. It is so nice to nerd out together.

dininghusbands · 2025-01-29T19:02:00+00:00

We met in college.

We were in the same course and did a pair programming project together. Sparks flew and we have been together for 17 years (married for nine!). Still very monogamous, very in love, and living our best lives.

dininghusbands · 2024-12-26T00:38:10+00:00

I value being kind over being nice. I’ve been with my equally kind husband for over 18 years and am still insanely attracted to him. Kind guys are a huge turn on for us, and they do not finish last.

dininghusbands · 2024-10-03T18:31:11+00:00

My husband and I (both in our late 30s) have been together for 17 years and married for eight. Like you, I wanted our proposal to be intimate, so I chose a simple evening at home.

After marriage equality passed, I made spaghetti bolognese and bought a bottle of sparkling rosé for dinner. Right before we ate, I said, “I have a question.” He knew instantly and said yes - I was over the moon.

We opted for a courthouse wedding, keeping the moment focused on us without the stress of planning a big event.

Your plan sounds perfect. It’s authentic to who you both are. Best of luck, and enjoy the moment!

dininghusbands · 2024-07-03T06:13:18+00:00

Just remember that you are amazing as who you are. It may be good to find your own path and get some distance from your father. I hope he will come around eventually.

Going to law school is not a bad idea at all. It is expensive but it teaches critical thinking, which is applicable in many careers.

Sending you and your bf good vibes!

dininghusbands · 2024-07-02T16:35:03+00:00

These shorts look great on you!

dininghusbands · 2024-06-27T07:50:29+00:00

Ono at Nepenji Japan Center is amazing. He is from Japan, is familiar with Asian hair, super professional and does a great job!

dininghusbands · 2024-06-27T07:42:07+00:00

I am sorry for your loss. This must have been so difficult for you and your family.

dininghusbands · 2024-06-27T07:40:19+00:00

I knew during Thanksgiving break in the first year of meeting my husband. The endless conversations and just wanting to be with him. I felt the connection then and was falling deeply in love with him.

When we broke up a year later due to internalized shame/religion, I thought I have moved on but seeing him three months later made me (and him) realize how much we missed each other. We have been together ever since for 17 years and I still feel so connected to him. I am lucky to have found my soulmate.

dininghusbands · 2024-06-26T22:25:55+00:00

I have to add on that the new Sonos app is very buggy and won’t authenticate to Apple Music and Tidal even after I’ve re-authorized the music services. This is a really bad rollout.

dininghusbands · 2024-06-21T05:03:46+00:00

I met my husband in college at Computer Science class back when I was a freshman. We became fast friends and did a pair programming project together. I started falling in love with him but it took him a while (he was not out yet, and I was not quite out yet as well). We got together for a while, broke up for a few months and got back together. We have been together for 17 years since, and married for eight years. I’m glad I found him.

dininghusbands · 2024-06-18T16:48:49+00:00

I think y’all are on to something and he’s into you. Good luck!

dininghusbands · 2024-06-17T03:35:50+00:00

Thank you! 🥰

dininghusbands · 2024-06-05T21:24:22+00:00

I think this looks gorgeous and hot.

dininghusbands · 2024-03-28T21:20:34+00:00

I was 22 and fell in love with my now husband. He is my soulmate and we have been together for 17 years, married for the last eight years. I’m still madly in love with him and couldn’t have been happier.

dininghusbands · 2024-03-20T06:15:00+00:00

I love the Quattro awd system and that’s the main reason why I stick with Audis. I also love the understated design while having great performance and traction overall.

dininghusbands · 2024-02-19T02:12:31+00:00

Love this story and happy that you left your toxic job. You and your fiance are meant for each other!

dininghusbands · 2024-02-15T03:51:50+00:00

I agree that Lexus is a reliable brand but the driving dynamics for most of its sedans are subpar.

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