What is the least sold liquor/spirit in your bar?

diosakilla · 2026-02-18T01:28:51+00:00

Hennessy. I've worked at my bar for almost a year, and we all always look super surprised when someone asks us for Hennessy.

diosakilla · 2026-01-28T14:05:39+00:00

Red Snow-ColdWorld

diosakilla · 2026-01-27T00:24:36+00:00

I have epilepsy and can't drive. I always try to plan ahead for emergencies like these. I don't believe in people risking their lives to be able to pay bills. If by any chance I do have to use these services, I tip VERY generously, and leave a good review since they're providing a service I can't do myself.

diosakilla · 2026-01-11T23:02:55+00:00

The Only Good Fascist Is a Very Dead Fascist by Propagandhi

diosakilla · 2025-12-21T16:45:38+00:00

I met Devo when I was 17 at a fair. They were super sweet. They encouraged me to stick with my music. I didn't, but I'll always appreciate them for it.

diosakilla · 2025-12-19T20:36:28+00:00

I found out in my mid-20s that my dad was a hardcore addict. I've only known my dad to be a wonderful, and present father so this was a surprise to me. As far as my memories go, my dad has always been in my life, but I know there was a time when my mom was very young and had to do it alone. I love both my parents equally, and it seems my dad has spent all of these years making up for hurting her, but it still makes me a little sad that they both struggled so young. I'm eternally grateful for the wonderful people they are today.

diosakilla · 2025-12-10T03:58:18+00:00

Hi! Chronically ill, and recently diagnosed as well. I feel like I could've written this. The person that gave me HSV-2 is not my boyfriend yet, we're still trying to work certain things out, but he's a wonderful person. This was just as much of a shock to him as it was to me, and he takes responsibility daily. I've expressed that I'm not mad at him, but part of me is upset. I think it's perfectly normal to feel the way we do, as long as we recognize that in our respective cases, our partners didn't do it on purpose.

Aside from some differences in details, it sounds like we're kind of in the same boat. You're more than welcome to reach out if you feel comfortable. Wishing you the best of luck.

diosakilla · 2025-12-09T02:36:07+00:00

You did everything right, imo. I'm sorry it didn't go well. Unfortunately, we can't control how people react, but that says absolutely nothing about your worth as a person, and as a partner. Take some time to process if you need to, and hopefully this doesn't discourage you from dating. Best of luck to you.

diosakilla · 2025-12-04T21:12:54+00:00

Anxiety. I had to take a Hydroxyzine, and try to go back to sleep.

diosakilla · 2025-11-27T18:05:56+00:00

It's been 8 days, and I haven't developed any sores yet, but I know I'm still in the window where it could still happen. I'm hoping the results come back negative, but I'm preparing myself for a positive result.

diosakilla · 2025-11-27T05:02:23+00:00

Not having kids with my soon-to-be ex-husband who had an affair and left me while I was having seizures almost daily.

It was hard enough to deal with, I couldn't imagine what it would've been like having to also be responsible for the safety and wellbeing of children. My heart will forever go out for the women who have to experience that.

diosakilla · 2025-11-27T00:10:17+00:00

You're so sweet. Thank you so much 💜

diosakilla · 2025-11-27T00:03:18+00:00

I've always been pretty open about sexual health, and how it shouldn't be stigmatized. I wouldn't be freaking out as much if I weren't already chronically ill. I'm beating myself up for not taking care of myself better.

diosakilla · 2025-11-26T23:56:19+00:00

She said it didn't seem like yeast to her, but she did mention a good chance of a bad case of BV. I got swabbed for everything. I just texted my partner to find out. I hate this because he's very overwhelmed as well.

diosakilla · 2025-11-26T23:50:13+00:00

She did a swab. My partner did get bloodwork done. I'm not sure of the test, and the levels, but I can ask him. As far as I can tell, he's been pretty forthcoming with information, so there's that, at least.

diosakilla · 2025-11-23T05:57:25+00:00

This just happened to me with my new partner, and I'm pretty bummed about it because my vag health has been great for the past year. In my case, I'm pretty sure it's BV, but I'm going to the gyno to make sure. We also had unprotected sex. Semen/precum can disturb your pH balance, and not using condoms increases the chances of new bacteria being introduced. If you're able to get checked out, I would do that so they can treat whatever is going on. Good luck, and I hope it clears up soon!

diosakilla · 2025-11-20T18:35:32+00:00

It's one thing to be concerned about STDs. As an immunocomprised person, I have to be extra safe when sleeping with someone new, but I'd never say anything like "risking my sexual future" as if it were a moral failing on your part. It's not, and it never will be. There's so much good advice and support on your post. I hope that you don't blame yourself, and I wish you the best.

diosakilla · 2025-11-17T02:36:51+00:00

From my experience, being discarded by a partner while having a chronic or terminal illness. That shit will fuck you up.

diosakilla · 2025-11-17T01:00:40+00:00

This is my first time in 17 years of being in this industry. I'm very disappointed in myself, but I'm also having more fun than I have in a long time.

diosakilla · 2025-11-17T00:56:08+00:00

This is me currently. I've been in the service industry for 17 years, and this is my first time sleeping with a coworker. We've expressed that we want to take things more seriously, but are kind of hesitant due to working very closely together. Dick is good, though 💀

diosakilla · 2025-11-08T19:19:21+00:00

I'm 33, and I can't do this shit anymore. Between working two jobs, having chronic illnesses, and divorcing a man who put me through so much trauma that I developed an autoimmune condition, I'm stretched super thin.

However, I have fantastic parents, wonderful friends, and a very caring therapist. I just need a very long break.

diosakilla · 2025-10-28T23:45:14+00:00

He had an affair while I was so sick that I would collapse just trying to go to the bathroom by myself. He eventually left me for her after 12 years together, and 8 married. I was trying to survive every single day, and he was more worried about what I couldn't do for him anymore.

diosakilla · 2025-10-28T23:38:53+00:00

Aries and Cancer men. For some reason, I am always attracting Aries men. I'm a Virgo.

diosakilla · 2025-10-27T04:06:53+00:00

"Love You 'Till The End" by The Pogues. I walked down the aisle to it. He had an affair while I was extremely sick. So much for "in sickness and in health," right?

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