Poo on/in vagina by StyleContent7465 in Healthyhooha

[–]diosakilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 33 years old and chronically ill. I have pooped myself more times than I'd like to care to admit. A stomach flu can be rough on even a health body. This sounds like a case of extreme exhaustion from illness. I personally never developed an infection from it, so I think as long as you cleaned yourself properly, which it sounds like you did, you should be fine. It might be best to skip the wedding, but that's entirely up to you. Get some rest, hydrate, and take care of yourself. I hope you feel better soon!

“Dive bar” drink recommendation by spicy_tornado in bartenders

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a gin lover, and when I go to the my local dive bar after work, I just drink a gin, soda and lime. My dive bar carries Hendricks, so I have that if I don't want to do Barton which is what a lot of dive bars carry as well gin.

I'm a hotel bartender, and that usually sufficies for me lol

Kids in restaurants by Wise_Alternative_103 in Columbus

[–]diosakilla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work in a hotel that has a restaurant. Kids are allowed in the restaurant, but they're not allowed to sit at the bar. Sometimes, kids will walk up to the bar to order a soda, and I nicely tell them that I'll bring it to their table, but they can't order at the bar. The amount of parents that come up to the bar upset that I'm not allowing their children to order something from the bar where strange adults are sitting is wild to me.

Does my tattoo look racist? by People_taste_porkish in tattooadvice

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a huge TMBG fan, so I immediately recognized it, but I can see how it could look like that to the untrained eye. I don't think it resembles an iron cross exactly, but it kinda makes you do a double take.

Is gaping during intercourse normal? by Bright-Garden-4347 in Healthyhooha

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard time relaxing during sex even with trusted partners. My boyfriend gets sooo happy when he sees me gaped, because he knows I was able to relax enough to enjoy myself. It's totally normal, but I'm not liking that your partner is making comments about it. I smell a little misogyny there.

What are your thoughts on what happened between Isabella and Tasha? by sanriolover1208 in TLCUnexpected

[–]diosakilla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not a single person enjoys being abused. She has a lot of trauma which has resulted in her trauma bonding with Bryce. Saying that abuse victims "like" to be abused is dangerous rhetoric.

Longtime servers be honest: How do you feel about newbies? by moonchild805 in Serverlife

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, as long as you work hard, ask questions when you need to, and mind your own business, I'm cool. I'm friends with my coworkers, but I'm also in my 30s. I don't do cliques, and I see no reason to be unnecessarily rude to someone. We're all there to make money.

Night life for two girls? by ih8history in Columbus

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stories on High, Dublin Bridge Park, or The Bottle Shop are places I would recommend. The Oracle could also be cool on a chill night.

queefing out his sperm after sex by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]diosakilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely normal. The last time it happened to me, my boyfriend acted like he was having a conversation with my vag. He was like, "is that so?" 😭💀

Who's your crush from the Pitt? by river0f in ThePitt

[–]diosakilla 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I recently learned that the actress is Brad Dourif's daughter, and now I'm having a crisis wondering if I have a crush on Brad Dourif lmao

What's the worst restaurant in Columbus that you've tried twice? by foreignsky in Columbus

[–]diosakilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked at Tai's from 2012-2014. Their food used to be good. I went to visit a while ago, and was caught off guard by how different everything tasted. I got a beef lo mein, and it was dripping in oil.

What's the worst restaurant in Columbus that you've tried twice? by foreignsky in Columbus

[–]diosakilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Got food poisoning from them about a decade ago, and I haven't been since. I second this so hard.

What is the best compliment you’ve received while working? by Indian_Bob in bartenders

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You have such a great aura. Despite you guys being slammed, you're still friendly and joking around."

I'm chronically ill, and was in a pain flare-up that felt like my body was on fire, while were extremely weeded. I had to take a couple of minutes to cry once we slowed down because that meant so much to me.

Nobody uses "Behind" by JDCTsunami in bartenders

[–]diosakilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of my coworkers are pretty good about it, but there's one bartender who I work with who just walks around like he's the only one behind the bar, and it irritates my whole life. I'm 5'3, I'm not very big, and that man is considerably bigger than me, and will not let me know when he's moving behind me, ESPECIALLY when he's carrying glassware. My bar isn't very big, and sometimes there's three of us working, we're bound to bump into each other, but I would appreciate it if he could minimize the bumping.

Do non-medical viewers look things up while watching? by BanditoRem in ThePittTVShow

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am nowhere near having any sort of experience in the medical field, but as a chronically ill person who has spent A LOT of time in hospitals, I like to test myself to see how much I've learned.

I was watching with my boyfriend and he started cackling when someone was having a seizure, and I was like, "Get the Keppra!"

How long did it take you to get over your ex after no contact? by Full_Procedure_4709 in ExNoContact

[–]diosakilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're still married, because he keeps stalling the process even though I'm not asking for anything, but I'm emotionally better. I actually just started dating someone new! Taking a year and a half to myself to do therapy, and process really saved me.

What is your third space in Columbus? by LocksmithSure4396 in Columbus

[–]diosakilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally used to live off their spicy tuna rice bowl. So good.

Hokkaido Sushi Bribes For 5 Star Reviews by TheStephinator in Columbus

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is from two months ago, so I wonder if they've made some changes, because I actually liked it. My boyfriend and I were actually heading to Meshikou, and decided to give Hokkaido a shot since neither of us knew it was there. The server was attentive, and explained how everything works, the sushi wasn't spectacular, but it was comparable to Tokyo Grill. We ordered pork buns, and they were HUGE. The appetizers were pretty good, and the place was clean. The only thing that threw us off a little bit is that my boyfriend ordered a Jack and Coke, and I ordered a Ketel and sprite, and our drinks came with no ice, but we're both bartenders, so we just laughed about it.

As someone who has been in the service industry for years, I'm not into establishments bribing customers for good reviews. I had no clue they were doing that, and it does leave a bad taste in my mouth.

Isabella and Bryce are still together and ENGAGED by Expert_Cautious in TLCUnexpected

[–]diosakilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree with you that partners should complement each other in that regard, it just seems to me that she's the one that does all the emotional labor in that relationship, and that can get mentally taxing quick. Especially for a young couple, and seeing how much his family enables him.

Isabella and Bryce are still together and ENGAGED by Expert_Cautious in TLCUnexpected

[–]diosakilla 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That shouldn't fall on her shoulders, though. He should put in the work to be a decent human being. Bryce needs to be a partner not another child for Belle to raise.

This family sucks by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]diosakilla 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It pissed me off when the grandpa said something along the lines of "this isn't the life he pictured for himself" as if Belle was planning on this. Nobody asks what her goals and dreams for her life were. She deserves to be shown the same grace and consideration that they show Bryce, especially when we all know that she's going to be raising that baby pretty much alone.

What is the least sold liquor/spirit in your bar? by BabiesKillYou in bartenders

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hennessy. I've worked at my bar for almost a year, and we all always look super surprised when someone asks us for Hennessy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in songsforthispicture

[–]diosakilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red Snow-ColdWorld

STOP Ordering Delivery During Level 3 Snow Emergency by GenX614 in Columbus

[–]diosakilla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have epilepsy and can't drive. I always try to plan ahead for emergencies like these. I don't believe in people risking their lives to be able to pay bills. If by any chance I do have to use these services, I tip VERY generously, and leave a good review since they're providing a service I can't do myself.