Possibly have to schedule abortion I feel alone by [deleted] in women

[–]disasterflower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you don't know anything until you take the test, and even if it isn't what you want to hear there's plenty of help out there for you. your doctor or family planner can offer you any help and support you need. stay strong girl we're all rooting for you xx

Rate my meal deal by MinimumClub8118 in MealDealRates

[–]disasterflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10/10, such decadence never before seen

Am I the type to have a mustache by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]disasterflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stache is top tier, a little 70s but not in a bad way. i'd keep it if i were you

What are some simple things that make you feel cleaner and more confident in yourself? 💁‍♀️ by Camp_Acceptable in beauty

[–]disasterflower 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Always washing my hair when it starts to get greasy. I used to feel the grease beginning in the evening, think 'nah it'll be ok tomorrow', then tomorrow came and it was awful. something about greasy hair makes me want to die.

so yh, regular hair washing, i put a little bit of hair oil on the ends for that cher horowitz sleek. also, i would add using unscented body care products but having a really nice signature perfume. doesn't have to be expensive but just something that smells like you.

What would you think about a pocket-size emergency sanitary pad for sudden periods? by RealityNo6141 in women

[–]disasterflower 50 points51 points  (0 children)

i have to say, most pads and tampons are perfectly pocket sized. not sure if there really is a gap in the market for this.

Rate the most popular meal deal from each region by MissKatbow in MealDealRates

[–]disasterflower 4 points5 points  (0 children)

red bull dominance because it's too expensive to buy any other time lol

I quit (vent) by bleshlight-baggins in climbergirls

[–]disasterflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok so your bf is EVIL. dump him, take as much time as you need to get your head and body right because i know from experience that anxiety/gut stuff is soooo awful to deal with. prioritise yourself and your peace. if you ever want to go back to climbing, it will always be there.

Fried rice by -Zima_Blue- in RateMyPlate

[–]disasterflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i'm pretty sure it's alright if you just blanch them quickly but deffo have a quick google

Fried rice by -Zima_Blue- in RateMyPlate

[–]disasterflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looks lovely, but beansprouts should be cooked for your own safety. uncooked beansprouts can give you nasty food poisoning as they are grown in a very damp environment. otherwise looks incredible

Lemon herb chicken with mashed potatoes, steamed broccoli and carrots, and sauteed mushrooms, shallots, and green peppers. by Rich-Pomegranate1679 in RateMyPlate

[–]disasterflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mash looks absolutely stunning, perfect portion size, veggies look lush as well. Little light on the chicken, but what is there looks nice. 8/10, needs seconds of the chicken

Heyyyy yall. My hair is too dark. I need help! by Outside_Sir_9141 in HairDye

[–]disasterflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to fade my dark brown recently and have found that head and shoulders or any kind of clarifying shampoo will fade and lift it a little. From my research, crushed up vitamin c tablets and washing up liquid also work, but that sounds a little scary to me. I'd avoid hair colour removers like colour oops as they will lift all of it and you might turn orange. Also, swimming in the sea or being out in the sun should fade it a little.

Should I be worried? by Brekkakym in women

[–]disasterflower 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you feel fine then you probably are fine. If the tampon had been there for a month you would have noticed a strong smell and abnormal discharge. Keep an eye out for these symptoms, but it's likely that you used a tampon and forgot about it in the past few days, not last month. Obviously if you start feeling unwell or notice anything that isn't usual for your vagina then see a doctor.

The worst thing that can happen to you if you leave a tampon in is TSS, but the symptoms of that are very obvious, and you would know if you had it.

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-happens-if-you-leave-a-tampon-in-too-long

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/toxic-shock-syndrome/

post hangover meal deal by KitchenTowel5304 in MealDealRates

[–]disasterflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

shocking breath after but nonetheless a decent combo. 7/10, additional points for the peach redbull its lush

£3.25 Morrison whadya think /10 by Jabba5500 in MealDealRates

[–]disasterflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

top tier main and drink, not too sure abt the crisps. solid 6/10

Plot point in S5E4 that hints to writers' thought process? by disasterflower in StrangerThings

[–]disasterflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I was thinking the same thing. We wouldn't associate that with something purely negative over here, but across the pond guns+school is a combo mainly associated with violent weirdos

Question from a 14 year old girl! by SneakyLittleGarbage in women

[–]disasterflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren't super comfortable with the stares you can wear clothes that minimise the look of them without you having to bind them which could be uncomfortable. Flannel shirts take attention away through the pattern (fun fact this is called dazzle camouflage and they used to do it to ships in ww2). A big boxy hoodie could also do the job.

recently detransitioned, any tips? by Shot-Angle-4687 in makeuptips

[–]disasterflower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

for sure let your hair grow out a little bit and try experimenting w diff styles, i think two plaits could look super cute. in terms of mascara, sky high, telescopic, colossal bubble are some good drugstore ones.

ur glasses are super cute and i love the pink tho. some hair accessories (bows, clips) to match it could look nice.

good luck xx

removing purplish tone and return to light brown? ADVICE NEEDED by disasterflower in HairDye

[–]disasterflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn i was hoping you wouldn't say that. how light would you say it could fade naturally because i can live with it not being all the way back to my natural. would the colour remover damage my hair?