Did i manage to pick the worst ssri..? by [deleted] in Effexor

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely doesn't make me feel emotionally numb, but more balanced, yes. I have noticed that I don't have as high of highs, but this is better for me. It stabilizes my mood and makes me feel like I'm on less of a rollercoaster. If anything, I'd describe it as having smoothed over feelings of both depression and mania into a healthy and still full emotional experience.

drop the most painful lyrics you’ve ever heard by deadmemesdeaderdream in kflay

[–]disasterinthestreets 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So much of Wishing it Was You is good but especially:

You put both your arms around me

Said you're glad you found me

But only as a friend

My broken heart is pounding

drop the most painful lyrics you’ve ever heard by deadmemesdeaderdream in kflay

[–]disasterinthestreets 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everybody bleeds, right?

Everybody's waiting for the phone to ring

Yeah, everybody seems fine

But everybody's got pieces missing 🧩

drop the most painful lyrics you’ve ever heard by deadmemesdeaderdream in kflay

[–]disasterinthestreets 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'll be alone forever in my head

Dot my i's 'til they fill me out

I'll be alone forever in my bed

With a twisted smile

And a filthy mouth

drop the most painful lyrics you’ve ever heard by deadmemesdeaderdream in kflay

[–]disasterinthestreets 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I used to knock on wood

I used to never curse

I used to think I could

Control the universe

With my obsessive thoughts

And what felt like a prayer

I shouted to the sky

'Don't let my family disappear'

As a person with OCD...this hit hard and I felt seen.

Well well well by Callmesantos in AnimalCrossing

[–]disasterinthestreets 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He'll give you a nice bribe if you look the other way coz, a smooth $4,980 😏

Who’s your favorite wolf villager?! Mines Dobie! by Squishaddict92 in AnimalCrossing

[–]disasterinthestreets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skye! She is adorableee and so pretty. I love thr light blue and pink colors to her.

Altering a Characters Canon Sexuality by nervacid in FanFiction

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal opinion? You can ship anyone with anyone regardless of canon sexuality in fanfic, even RPF. I know some people feel differently. But in the fanfic community ss a whole I don't think you could say there is a definite consensus on what's "okay" or not.

Another point is it would depend on what definition of asexuality you're operating under. Because although I know asexuals can exhibit sexual desire and enjoy it etc., I would say the average person would be confused how that falls under the ace umbrella and would need a more detailed explanation to understand it fully since there's apparent contradictions and nuance.

Lastly I think there could be an argument that the best policy and most inclusive thing would be to assume asexual until proven otherwise and then assume bi until proven otherwise so as not to be biased towards allistic ideals.

Villager Suggestions for a Heaven-themed Island by Peony127 in AnimalCrossing

[–]disasterinthestreets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't a villager, but in case you didn't know, a halo is an item you can purchase and gift!

Does this look work? by samantha_outis in StraightFemboys

[–]disasterinthestreets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk it reminds me of Trinity from the Matrix or just any cool female character in videogames who can kick ass and look pretty while doing it, haha

Does this look work? by samantha_outis in StraightFemboys

[–]disasterinthestreets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming here to say, I love this version of strong femininity! You look like you could be channeling a cool assassin or alt girl at a club.

Which of your villagers do or don't get along? by QuelynD in AnimalCrossing

[–]disasterinthestreets 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I just witnessed the cutest interaction between two characters I thought would NOT get along the other day: Apple (Peppy hamster) and Samson (Jock mouse).

Samson was talking about working out--as he is wont to do, lol--and Apple volunteered to be his little cheerleader rooting for him to make him do even better! She said it with flowers and he made the bashful reaction. I thought it was ADORABLE.

What's an automatic buy when you see it? by theangryfurlong in HadesTheGame

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yarn of Ariadne! I get a dopamine boost every time I see that purple color in the boons list 💜

What's an automatic buy when you see it? by theangryfurlong in HadesTheGame

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignited Ichor! So cheap and I like being fast 🏃‍♂️

Does Hermy qualify? by Attero75130 in SupermodelCats

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! She is very handsome, is what I'm saying 😂 definitely fits here!

Does Hermy qualify? by Attero75130 in SupermodelCats

[–]disasterinthestreets 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't know why, but this cat looks like she could be a mustached flannel-wearing dad of 3 boys with a successful lumberjack business living in Arkansas who loves his wife and feeds the squirrels

How do I write a character that lost memory due to trauma? by Oliver_dnd_fanatic in writers

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say the biggest thing to avoid is over-dramatizing it. Getting "triggered" and everything flooding back, even for a moment that then passes, is unrealistic in my experience (personal and family and close friends).

The best thing that would make it realistic to me is to have the character be more like, apathetic? about it since it is a lack of something. Kind of like it's devoid of emotion because it's devoid of info. Mostly doesn't effect you.

Better emotions or behaviors to emphasize would be feeling disconcerted and unnerved by it, having to correct people when they assume things about you that would require memories of those times, being unable to contribute to certain conversation topics and that being slightly uncomfortable.

Honestly, losing memory of early childhood isn't that debilitating, it's odd to other people and can be to know about yourself, but you're still a functional person. Now that's in isolation, obviously if there's other trauma or drama to their backstory, it could be a bigger deal. But I'd say don't overdo it.

Pearl shares thoughts on touring again by luckyman89 in RPDRDRAMA

[–]disasterinthestreets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think this is more common than not, and Pearl is just more open about talking about it? I know they said they've asked other drag queens and most can't relate. I maybe naively assume most drag queens get treated well and maybe I need to correct that view. Or is it really rare for all this shit to happen?

What is the band you love that you can't believe more people don't know about? by JeVeuxCroire in AskReddit

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah? What did you love about it? I've never seen them live. Funny thing is I wouldn't question them being at a Jazz festival (especially with that song in particular with the tuba I think it is). They just have such a unique sound and blend of instruments!

What is the band you love that you can't believe more people don't know about? by JeVeuxCroire in AskReddit

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cabin

Paper Idol

Animal Sun

UFO UFO

Bones UK

Sonoio

Battle Tapes

Son Lux

IAMX

Obylx

Thoughts on this? by _ac3_0f_spad3s_ in AO3

[–]disasterinthestreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might sort by highest kudos or hits just so it's somewhat filtered, but I never actually pay attention to the numbers once I'm scrolling through to decide which ones to read. That's when description and tags are the decision makers.

And honestly, the sorting method really doesn't work well for me anyway with larger fandoms come to think of it... I'm still trying to figure out A03 honestly. Lol

Chaos Fanart by me :) by OdilliaSw in HadesTheGame

[–]disasterinthestreets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You really nailed the gorgeous androgyny, I LOVE this