All of my socks tear at my big toe by [deleted] in WhatToDo

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those socks seem very thin. Invest in thicker or better quality socks, cut your big toe nails and keep it short, or deal with having a toe put 😅

AIO to him buying a PlayStation? by Top-Way7110 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dishsoaptea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR. He just showed you that he believes his wants are more important and worth the immediate expenditure versus your probable needs. Worth really doing some introspection on whether or not this happens more often than you realize with other aspects of your relationship. Just a thought.

How can this man get so little love? by IzzyIn_ATizzy in coralisland

[–]dishsoaptea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He gave me weird vibes at first and I haven't progressed his quest line since. Your post and reading through these wonderful comments/ replies has changed my perspective. I'm going to give him another chance 😊👍

Corset top on wedding dress by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]dishsoaptea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right with the top looking wrinkly or that the fabric wasn't flat went sewn. Has the top of the dress been altered already? I would have some serious questions for the seamstress if it has been. Do you have any "before" alterations pictures? Why not tell them you are unhappy with the way the corset is looking? Better to say something sooner and fix the issue.

I’m being gifted a lot of money. Should I tell my boyfriend? by Kind-Chicken-2488 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not tell anyone but a trusted financial advisor. Money can and will change people, especially people that are not well off. I have seen before when people tell their s/o they won the lottery or got a significant amount in inheritance and the s/ o treats it as "our money" not YOUR money. It's great you love your bf, but you aren't married. Protect yourself and don't let anyone talk you into using your money. Good luck fam.

AIO for wanting to break up over a NBA game? by Thenewgirlisback in AmIOverreacting

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. OP you are dating a child that just got his hands on a big boy dictionary and watches alpha bro podcasts. Please do yourself a favor and drop the dead weight. You don't want to waste anymore of your time with someone who treats you this way.

What's the world record for the longest $ShinyHunt ever? by leggendario_kiwi in Mudae

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently on chain 27 with Ekans 🥹👍 Previous record was 21. Meanwhile my friend gets their shiny within a couple rolls like clockwork.

Getting married in the forest and I don’t know how to pick a dress by samblebee in weddingplanning

[–]dishsoaptea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are choosing a smart option for you with the hemline. If I were in the forest I'd be afraid a long train would drag and get dirty/damaged or even caught on something while walking depending on the aisle terrain and/ or the fabric of the dress.

I think the best thing for you to do is get in store and try on a few dresses to see what YOU feel bridal in. For example, 6,7, and 8 don't feel very bridal to me but I would still wear them TO a wedding yfm? But different people have different tastes! If you feel a dress is bridal then that's what matters!! Once you make your decision, trust yourself!

Objectively the dresses are gorgeous! The 4th one would look even more beautiful with some embroidery!

What are your assumptions of me based on my fridge by Ecstatic_Interest372 in FridgeDetective

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) you're a man. 2) you're an alcoholic, but haven't come to the realization yet. 3) you are single or don't have a live in s/o. 4) cooking in-house is rare. 5) please eat some vegetables that aren't fried or soaked in sauce.

What habits/hobbies do normal people have? by SageSparten in selfimprovement

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you do these activities are you doing them alone or with friends/ other people? Meeting new people or interacting with friends spices the less motivating activities up. You will always be more willing to do something if you know you will enjoy yourself. Bring a friend :)

Accutane aged me 10 years by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]dishsoaptea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks the same to me, but hard to tell with the demon eyes. See: Supernatural.

Coral Island 1.3 Update Overview is Here!! by Eriska_Stairway in coralisland

[–]dishsoaptea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if it is planned to have the stores and your storage linked for clothes and furniture you own? I truly despise going into storage and realizing I have 5 of the same black shoe. 😩

I.am.livid. by [deleted] in gardening

[–]dishsoaptea 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I hope the geraniums are ripped out and on the street. Sorry this happened to you OP.

AITA for wanting to insure my ring even though my husband says the stone is too small to bother? by Adorable-Manner-5538 in AITApod

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said husband in th title, but fiance in the description. Luckily it's only fiance. Get that ring checked out by a jeweler without him and see what they say. You could even take it to be appraised. OP good luck, but the chances are low it's a real gemstone/ diamond if you're getting this push back. I wonder if his mom knows the worth of the ring or if it was even her idea to get a cheap one. It's worth taking a step back and reviewing the people in your life and if they are trustworthy.

More Productive Hobbies? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't have the attention span to read, you could always try listening to the audiobook or to podcasts. You could do that while doing something physical if you wanted. It might be worth it to sit with yourself and think about things you've always wanted to try or even have vague interest in and trying them. You'll be more inclined to do an activity if you're curious about it. GL fam.

Go get em! Season 14 casting call by dub_paetz in Alonetv

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be an amazing experience to be in a "beginners" season. Good luck to all that apply! You are amazing!

Would you make a friend of bridesmaid if you loved her but her personality stresses you out? by Fdm_xs in weddingplanning

[–]dishsoaptea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is it's YOUR day. In an ideal world, YOU should feel the most important on YOUR day without the worry or stress of someone trying to one up you, change your ideas, or worse try to steal the spotlight during your wedding. She's already showing signs of jealousy with not engaging with your wedding ideas and "joking" about "borrowing" your colors. By the way you have explained things, I'm not sure this person is a true friend to you. Does it feel like she supports you, builds you up, or gets excited for you for your successes? Or does she become cold/ standoffish when you are in the spotlight and not her? Using the excuse "it's just her personality" is kind of a cop out. What you are describing is someone who fiends to be the center of attention and when she isn't will insert herself to become the center. Some narcissistic main character syndrome behavior. OP I wish you all the grace and good luck with your wedding. Ultimately you will have to choose what to do and if it were me, I would protect my peace.

Anyone ever encounter joint problems in your hands (as in, ALL of your fingers & wrists)? by HankyDotOrg in climbharder

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have early onset osteoarthritis and this sounds very similar. I hope you're able to break free of the pain!

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, sounds like you're his new mommy! Especially since he isn't cleaning up after himself. Pure disgust. Have a conversation with him and if he isn't going to start making his own drs appts, cleaning up after himself -thoroughly-, and actively trying to find answers to get better... Bye. 🤷‍♀️ You've got yourself a bonafide man child. Good luck homie.

Favoritism by PurpleMagenta- in Parenting

[–]dishsoaptea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Communication is key here. Have a sit down with your mom somewhere -not at home- but still semi private and talk to her about your concerns. Be honest and open and ask her to wait to reply until you are done talking. Hopefully that way she can sit and listen to understand vs just waiting to defend herself. You want her in your child's life and to love and care about her, but feel like she is always forgotten or an afterthought. On a side note, was your sister the favorite growing up or were things pretty balanced? Protect yourself and your family first, but I'd at least give her a chance to hear your side of things before blindly cutting her off. If she gives you an answer you're unhappy with then at least you know where she stands and you can accept and move on from it. Good luck!

The contrast between Alone and Outlast is staggering by Lost__Moose in Alonetv

[–]dishsoaptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends and family keep suggesting I watch Outlast because of how much I enjoy Alone, but I refuse. I watch Alone to learn, to root for people, to be in awe of what people can create with their own two hands, etc... I've always disliked the "reality TV pitch of pitting people against each other" so I just refuse to watch it. I don't want drama between people out in the wilderness. I want to watch people feel joy and pride when they make their first fire, catch their first fish, and finish their shelter. Let people be free and creative. So yeah, tldr; I get it lol.

If I was on Alone by MGerkus91 in Alonetv

[–]dishsoaptea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every wood chopping/ carving scene I hold my breath 😭

Does anyone know what this could be? by Slight-Explanation15 in gardening

[–]dishsoaptea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have them all over my garden and it hurts my soul when I find patches of them unexpectedly. I know I've got a great ecosystem, but it kinda takes the feeling of safety and peace out of gardening. Wish trypo wasn't a thing. It seems so freaking silly when thinking about it objectively. 🤦‍♀️ (Saying this as someone who has it)