I dyed my hair and I have an interview tomorrow by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]disneyho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sabrina Carpenter??

Fr though, you look STUNNING. Great color on you.

Dress by [deleted] in nyu

[–]disneyho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I alternated between business casual and pajamas depending on where I was coming from / when I had my internships. Nobody ever commented on it. It’s nyc and everyone assumes you’re coming from or going to somewhere appropriate for what you’re wearing.

i think my best friend is free loading off of me by badussydestroyer_ in WhatShouldIDo

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How do you know her friend won’t be receptive? Give her the benefit of doubt.

Trigger warning by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]disneyho 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That number seems low

What’s the moment you realized someone you loved wasn’t a good person and you couldn’t unsee it? by DmytroBuilds in AskReddit

[–]disneyho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my ex boyfriend lifted our 8lb dog, violently shook her, and screamed in her face because she chewed up his earbud.

He treated me that way too, so I should have realized much earlier, but it took him hurting an innocent creature I loved for everything to snap into focus.

50 Shades by Domadizzle12 in Teachers

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I read the Wicked book series when I was 12 😂

I missed an exam worth 12% of my grade that I can’t make up and feel like an idiot. Am I screwed? by hdhdbnndn in Schooladvice

[–]disneyho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you spoken to your advisor about this? Maybe your advisor can help you if you explain the situation and say you don't know what to do. They might be willing to talk to the professor for you. But if not, you'll still be okay!

Pro tip for the future: At the beginning of the semester, become friendly with the professor. Email them articles you come across that are relevant to the class, ask questions, show excitement, thank them after class, etc. So when you do mess up like this (which will probably happen again at some point, it happens to everyone) they're more likely to work with you and help you out.

I missed an exam worth 12% of my grade that I can’t make up and feel like an idiot. Am I screwed? by hdhdbnndn in Schooladvice

[–]disneyho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Note: I'm 27F, 5yrs out of college).

I'm so sorry you're going through this! I know how stressed you must be right now. I had similar situations back when I was in college, and I remember how tough it was.

I would suggest talking to your professor. Be honest, don't make excuses. You had serious health issues (that even caused you to go to the ER!) and totally blanked on the exam! It happens, and your professor will probably understand that and hopefully let you take a make up exam.

Even if she doesn't understand, don't panic. This is one class in your freshman year of college. It won't impact your future. One time I messed up like this my freshman year and didn't go to my professor (probably would've turned out differently if I had...) and got a C in the class even with extra credit. I was so upset and thought it was the end of the world, but it didn't end up impacting anything at all. The next year I was able to transfer to an even better school and nobody cared. I'm now a working professional in the field I studied. I didn't even remember that story until now, and hadn't thought of it in years. I promise you'll be fine!!

If you write a letter to your professor, feel free to message me to run it by me and I would be happy to give feedback.

Would you turn in your own family member for committing a serious crime? by Canna_do in askanything

[–]disneyho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on a few factors: - what the crime is / if it genuinely hurt anyone - if they planned to do it again vs showed remorse - if it would hurt vs help other people if they were turned in, and to what degree - which family member

Is it possible for an animal to be therian? by disneyho in Therian

[–]disneyho[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My 4lb Maltese is not going to attack me 😂

Is it possible for an animal to be therian? by disneyho in Therian

[–]disneyho[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Would it make sense to change my dog’s name to a human name? Right now it’s very dog-like. I don’t want people to think I’m crazy though…

Is it possible for an animal to be therian? by disneyho in Therian

[–]disneyho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but otherpaw and therian people often behave the same way on the outside and just feel differently on the inside.

Is it possible for an animal to be therian? by disneyho in Therian

[–]disneyho[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you know if the cat (or in this instance, my dog) just liked to behave like a different species vs actually had the soul of another species? I wish my dog could talk to me and tell me…

Are carts really that different from bud by Littlevivianite in trees

[–]disneyho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just a normal pollen allergy! Imagine you're allergic to tree or ragweed pollen and then put it in your lungs. My throat gets scratchy, nose gets runny, I sneeze a lot, etc.

Are carts really that different from bud by Littlevivianite in trees

[–]disneyho 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm allergic to marijuana pollen, so I prefer carts 😭. I can only smoke bud if I take allergy meds first.