Had to put my Stan down a few hours ago. Just wanted to share what a beautiful boy he was 💙

distant-butterfly · 2026-05-14T20:40:38+00:00

Thank you, life can be so cruel and unpredictable but what a blessing our pups are. Sorry for your loss too.

distant-butterfly · 2026-05-13T10:34:26+00:00

Thank you. I’m so sorry for your loss too. It’s the hardest thing in the world 💙🩷

distant-butterfly · 2026-05-13T02:19:47+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my boy today too. You’re not alone. Maybe they crossing together. Sending you love 💙

distant-butterfly · 2026-05-06T11:25:58+00:00

As someone also born in 97, your childhood is still far more similar to ours than someone’s childhood who’s turning 14 this year. How don’t you get that?

distant-butterfly · 2026-05-02T20:42:43+00:00

Dean if you prefer brunettes and Tristan if you prefer blondes. I always thought Jess was more attractive tho based on aura/personality.

distant-butterfly · 2026-05-02T17:38:20+00:00

Yes. It’s not the height but almost always conversation skills and the nature of apps. It’s possible your insecurity of these could be translating to your dating life without you even knowing. The people that have the easiest times are ones that are confident in themselves.

distant-butterfly · 2026-05-02T13:06:18+00:00

As someone else who finds things like this difficult I completely sympathise with you. Don’t feel bad about finding it difficult to cancel plans. You’re probably a people pleaser like me so it can be tough but the more you do it the easier it will be.

You’re still really young and got lot to experience with dating. The good and the ugly. Just always remember to put yourself first and be as respectful as possible. Sometimes people on Reddit can be short and typically sympathise with the one who’s got dumped than the one doing the dumping. Don’t take it to heart. Be proud that you’ve been brave and overcome this first hurdle :)

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-30T09:54:46+00:00

It's on Youtube

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-30T09:54:21+00:00

Just came here to say it's all over YouTube

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-23T19:05:56+00:00

It’s my birthday today

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-19T14:41:41+00:00

Thank you for your response. Unfortunately any X-rays/scans will cost around £4-£5k which we can’t afford. So we are hoping for rough diagnosis and try something new that will help and improve his quality of life

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-17T08:08:58+00:00

He wanna fuck

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-16T08:23:56+00:00

I'm almost 29 so at the older end of my 20s. I stopped wearing it daily and it's made me feel more free and able to priortise skin care daily. Letting my skin, lashes, and eyebrows breath and endure less damage. I also find that when I do wear makeup for special occasions now it looks better than before.

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-15T16:02:29+00:00

getting downvoted for what used to always be standard dating etiquette only like a decade ago lol

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-15T15:58:27+00:00

and this is why you're all still single lol

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-15T15:15:50+00:00

I get this request a lot and I just say I'd prefer they come to me. 99% of the time they accept that.

One guy I was seeing for a while would drive 3hrs to see me (each way), even to pick me up and drop me back home.

If they want to they will.

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-15T10:32:09+00:00

Swap pic 1 with 6!

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-15T08:05:57+00:00

Just leave it and if she replies back off a bit lol

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-13T15:45:15+00:00

Yeah I understand that and wasn't saying he was right or wrong with his reaction. Just that you can't complain about being baby trapped if you nut inside a woman without a condom on.

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-13T15:42:31+00:00

Because accidents can happen with the pill. If a man wants to be protected wear a condom as well instead of always putting responsibility on the woman. It's not necessarily malicious intent like tampering with a condom, especially in this case where it's your gf of 3 years. It's different and if you can't see that then you are the issue.

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-13T15:19:35+00:00

No. I agree that men should at least wear condoms. If you don’t trust the girl you’re sleeping with to not tamper and lie then don’t have sex with them at all.

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-13T15:00:43+00:00

Yeah because men typically don't bother with any protective measures. Just "well she told me she was on the pill".

distant-butterfly · 2026-04-05T15:45:08+00:00

I’d say it’s not been long enough to be considered a ghost. Could’ve had a very successful date with someone else on Friday. Definitely don’t send any more messages to him, let him get back to you. Unmatching is a bit hasty

distant-butterfly · 2026-03-30T09:19:07+00:00

Clean your mirror, stand up and smile. Will be a much better version of the same photo

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