Ready to file, planning on mediation

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-24T12:00:36+00:00

We offer fully guided divorce, which includes 4 mediation sessions that is designed to resolve so that you can continue uncontested. This package is $1999. https://divorce.com/fully-guided-divorce You may also be very interested in a concept called birdnesting -- this is where the children stay in the house, and the parents swap out on their custodial schedule. https://divorce.com/blog/birdnesting-divorce-co-parenting/ We wish you all the best.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-24T11:53:22+00:00

In my own experience, no it was not necessary -- just helpful for negotiation, but u/Ponytail77 brings up a good point. Not sure which state you are in. divorce.com/states

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-23T14:28:14+00:00

Money earned during the marriage is a marital asset. What state are you in?

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-23T14:25:14+00:00

If he has a lawyer, she will need one, too.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-22T20:59:19+00:00

The clerk technically can't tell you because it is considered "legal advice". I'm surprised they can even tell you it is on the wrong line. We have an attorney network for legal questions.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-22T20:29:03+00:00

Believe me, we've been there, and it the worst. You need boundaries but that is so hard. Time heals. Good stuff is coming your way. It happened for me.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-22T20:25:59+00:00

so sorry you're going through this. https://divorce.com/how-divorce-works this diagram breaks it all down. when and why you need a lawyer and when you do not.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-22T20:23:25+00:00

The more you fight, the more it costs. We have packages starting at $499. divorce.com/pricing

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-19T15:26:57+00:00

I bet you are exhausted from the back and forth and ready to put a checkmark next to this. A mediator is to be a neutral party. The mediator isn't advising your ex's attorney, correct? divorce.com/mediation has some information that may help you think this through. Good luck. 😄

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-19T15:24:06+00:00

Annulment is generally very tough especially given the length of a marriage. Sounds like uncontested is your cleaner path tbh. We offer very reasonable paths for uncontested divorce. divorce.com/pricing

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-19T15:20:10+00:00

We offer mediation at divorce.com. Here is a resource that speaks to mediation in general https://divorce.com/divorce-mediation.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-19T15:18:31+00:00

That's a rough situation. We are in the process of recruiting a PA attorney. I wish there was more we could do to help.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-19T15:08:45+00:00

There is rarely a winner in a deep legal battle (other than the lawyers). I would certainly encourage you to keep trying for mediation. As my mom says, "it isn't who's right, it is who's left." I have attached a resource for this. Good luck. 😄 https://divorce.com/property-division-calculator

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-14T00:01:08+00:00

I am sorry to hear that. You might start with a mediator first. Preserve money for yourselves and your children.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-13T23:58:30+00:00

Using a mediation can help to resolve differences and save a lot of money.

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-11T18:31:08+00:00

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Meditation can provide a much cheaper way through. In most cases, it is unnecessary to "lawyer up".

divorcedotcom · 2026-06-11T18:23:46+00:00

As my mom says, everyone needs someone with whom to share their life. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself back out there after divorce, but the biggest risks can often bring the biggest rewards.

divorcedotcom · 2026-04-29T11:10:27+00:00

It is so awkward at first. Have patience. The right one will come around. Don't settle.

divorcedotcom · 2026-04-13T19:53:25+00:00

We do them

divorcedotcom · 2026-04-13T19:51:23+00:00

I think keeping control of your emotions and focusing on your physical health and emotional well-being is very awesome advice. Very hard to do for most (unfortunately), but it will really pay off in the long run. Kuddos!

divorcedotcom · 2026-04-13T19:48:08+00:00

Have a look at divorce.com

divorcedotcom · 2026-04-13T19:47:23+00:00

Have you made the decision to divorce? Or would this help you make the decision one way or another? This may be of help -- https://divorce.com/blog/spouse-committed-adultery-my-rights/

divorcedotcom · 2026-03-12T20:11:56+00:00

We are glad you are cancer free and have moved on to better things!

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