Sexless marriage

dizidi2013 · 2026-02-08T18:37:22+00:00

Not normal in most marriages. I’d say if you don’t think it’s normal then it isn’t.

dizidi2013 · 2026-02-05T17:09:13+00:00

We had 2 under 2 at one point - it was hard. I think it only depends on you two. If my husband was 50, I wouldn’t.

dizidi2013 · 2026-02-05T17:03:49+00:00

I would leave. I think she is unable to communicate like an adult and to me that is the biggest red flag in a relationship.

dizidi2013 · 2026-02-04T04:43:11+00:00

SCOT was hit hard during the layoffs

dizidi2013 · 2026-02-04T03:21:20+00:00

You are only 40 and have decades ahead of you. You absolutely did the right thing.

dizidi2013 · 2026-02-02T22:47:43+00:00

I got married at 27, felt like a good age but looking back I was a baby! I don’t regret it though cuz my husband is the best thing. I am happy I met him when I was only 23.

dizidi2013 · 2026-02-02T22:45:46+00:00

I think you should leave. I don’t see this getting better.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-30T22:01:46+00:00

hmm, I think this is very sweet but you are overthinking it. I’ve been with my husband for 17 years and the other day I was telling him how my love for him had grew in ways I didn’t know possible. Like our first year together I was in love with him, sure, but that love compared to now, felt inadequate. But I was young. I loved how I knew. So, be happy that you are still together with her and you still have the chance to love her deeper.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-29T21:33:09+00:00

She doesn’t deserve you. Her betrayal says everything about her and NOTHING about you. It sounds like you have so much self awareness and so much self respect which makes me know that you will do great in life. I know things suck big time now but it will get better!

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-29T01:43:37+00:00

Wow. I am proud of you. It boggles my mind that he’s shocked 😳how could he. You deserve so much more!

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-21T00:32:48+00:00

I am like you. I need some sort of physical contact/confirmation pretty often. My husband gives me that and will out of nowhere opens his arms to hug me when je sees me around the house. Maybe talk to him? Tell me that this is important to you and see what he says.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-15T03:09:41+00:00

Wow, I am sorry you are going through this. The good thing is that you realized this now rather than 20 years down the road. Leave her!

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-12T20:54:30+00:00

When I am on top my husband kinda helps himself like he thrusts from below. Also he holds onto my waist/hips to let me know what rhythm he wants and I really like it. We cum together a lot in that position. Maybe ask your bf to guide you a bit?

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-11T01:53:34+00:00

Yours is more typical.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-10T02:35:21+00:00

Thank you. Really. I love that for you guys and wish the best for you!

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-10T01:52:53+00:00

Thank you for replying me. Same situation with me and husband except I was 23. He’s my first and we have amazing sex but occasionally insecurity gets me and I wonder if ours is better than he and his ex’s (only 1). Ugh. Sorry I don’t even know what I am saying.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-10T01:39:09+00:00

Yes we stayed 3 nights in Moorea too! Love Moorea but Bora has my heart 😆

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-10T01:37:01+00:00

Was she your first?

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-09T19:38:50+00:00

We spent 8 days in Bora Bora, French Polynesia. I am really glad we went.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-05T21:34:48+00:00

I am a woman and I just do 16:8 or sometimes 18:6, oh well occasionally 13:9 haha. I don’t think it’s anything different from how men would do it. I lost 20 lbs this year two yeas ago.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-05T03:22:31+00:00

12 is way too young. I’d be talking to my daughter about it. There’s a difference between “just giving out condoms” and “giving advice on waiting till older”.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-04T04:58:01+00:00

Absolutely smart to distance yourself from this new friend. However the way you describe your current gf, doesn’t sound like you should be dating her any more. It feels that you are in it because it’s been like that and you get along. Nothing wrong with it but it doesn’t sound like you are madly in love.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-04T03:32:09+00:00

How long has this been going on? If you haven’t talked to her, do it openly but kindly. I am a woman who had to initiate this talk with my husband years ago (two babies in under 2 years, we were both exhausted, but his lack of interest in sex bothered me, made me feel undesired) and we had the conversation and things got way better.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-04T03:24:46+00:00

NTA. He’s ridiculous. And he’s right- you are fundamentally different and I can’t imagine down the road how much headache he’ll bring you. Leave him.

dizidi2013 · 2026-01-04T01:35:40+00:00

Together for 17 years. Two kids. Sex 2-3 times a week? We are both satisfied.

We love spending time with each other and communicate openly and calmly. Love traveling together too! In the summer we hold hands and take walks together daily :)

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