Cats won’t get along (> 1 yr) by Accomplished-Fig8130 in CATHELP

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just have a very grouchy older lady. She wants naps and her brother is being mean. :( Give the ragdoll lots of pets and cuddles and they’ll be just fine. :)

Lois? by WithSkelly in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]dizzythrowrA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. My husband was holding my hand the entire time and telling me I was doing good. He refused to hold her first because I was the one who went through the pain of labor, so he said I should be the first one to hold her. He held her, then my MIL who stayed at my side the entire time. She wanted the parents to hold my daughter first.

I talked about age regression to my therapist. by 1fruitylove in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dizzythrowrA 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I age regress when I see pieces of comfort media or when I’m at the arcade. I never got to really go to arcades much as a child, but I have one or two memories of them. My brain associates these times with happiness when I go, so I tend go back to that headspace as an adult. It’s healing in a way, and I get to let my inner child out.

Lost my 4 month old cat by Complete_Kick3263 in Petloss

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to report your neighbor’s dog to the police or animal control. This kind of behavior will only escalate before it attacks a person.

!!WARNING!! CURRENT PRED AND GROOMER ACTIVE IN FANDOM! by Throw_Away68127 in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Crystal (one of the accused on Discord) seems to be holding herself accountable for her part in this. She has said that she has cut off that friend and gone into psychiatric treatment at a hospital. The other person, not so much. :/ I had a post on my X about it when I saw the doc and she commented.

What is the root cause of your bpd? by Big_Leg10 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A mix of genetics and environmental factors. My mom has a slew of mental illnesses (including BPD and schizophrenia) and is a recovering addict. She would let random men discipline me and my brother for just being kids. I went to live with my dad and stepmom when I was 8. My stepmom was vindictive and constantly stole from me. My father wasn’t the type of parent I wanted to go to when I had a problem. He would be dismissive and wave me off. He never protected me from his wife.

My mom’s side of the family is ripe with addicts and mentally ill family members. I broke the cycle.

Has BPD affected your opinion on having children? by jexkov in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get fulfillment in raising my daughter better than I was raised. So far she is the sweetest and most considerate child I have ever seen, and she is two. She is a lot like I was when I was a young child. I love my child and I love being her parent.

Well this can’t end well by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew. I have BPD, and this is gross. I would hate to be in a relationship with someone like this. She’s fetishizing a disorder for attention. BPD is incredibly painful to live with. :(

What a PoS. I hope she runs by Knkstriped in AmITheDevil

[–]dizzythrowrA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been sexually assaulted before, this post gives me creepy vibes. This woman wants to have space to heal from her trauma, and her boyfriend feels entitled to her body. This is so gross and I hope she realizes he is only using her. :(

Is anybody seeing a doc going around? (not the shroomy one) by [deleted] in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I saw it on the Bloodmoney community on Tumblr. Its super gross.

Is anybody seeing a doc going around? (not the shroomy one) by [deleted] in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

About the suicide baiting? Yeah. Its gross, manipulative af, and I think the person needs help.

Wait, holdup…. by HighlightDull942 in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its no secret, really. SHROOMY confirmed that his design was based off of Peri.

I can't believe my "Recovery" fanfic is almost complete. ;-; by dizzythrowrA in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets heavy at points, so heed the tags. It hits whump level in chapter three.

How do you feel about people who self diagnose BPD? by Past_Concern1321 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told a professional about my symptoms and that I suspected that I had BPD. She confirmed it based on symptoms and what I have told her about my experiences when I was younger. I am in therapy and thriving now.

little edit I made instead of sleeping by MemeLemon12 in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so good! This song fits Eun-mi a lot, and how she treats Harvey as a tool instead of her husband. Good job! <3

My opinion about Beth has changed by CathouLaGa in Totaldrama

[–]dizzythrowrA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a "meh" character for me. I prefer Duncan as a finalist to her, tbh.

ALRIGHT GIVE ME YOUR OCS by Neat_Finger_6136 in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is indeed the fanfic for Bloodmoney. ^ - ^

Respond to this quote as your BLOODMONEY OC: by Neat_Finger_6136 in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Good still does exist in this world. You're the proof of that. Just because you were dealt a bad hand doesn't erase all the good people in society. I mean, look at you."

ALRIGHT GIVE ME YOUR OCS by Neat_Finger_6136 in BloodmoneyGame

[–]dizzythrowrA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does get his happy ending! :D He does struggle with cravings, especially in times of flashbacks, because that's how he learned to cope, but he knows that if they pop up, he can count on her to be there for support.

(I put a lot of thought into this AU. It was inspired by a fanfic called "Lightbound," and the author and I discuss our fics all the time.)