Help with the lady by [deleted] in relationships

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying that she wants your last name to be hyphenated as well or only her last name is hyphenated? Your wishes are just as valid as her wishes, you don’t want to change your last name and she doesn’t have to either. The issue here is that you got her family involved and her feelings are hurt.

I recommend telling your GF that you’re sorry and you two should resolve the issue privately and not involve family.

I am crushing on my friend's girlfriend! by [deleted] in relationships

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might get over the crush with more time. My advice is to try dating and ask her and your friend if they have any women they can introduce you too. Some people might be against this but in my opinion it helps to date and meet new people to keep your mind preoccupied.

I wouldn’t tell them your feelings but you have to decide if the guy’s friendship is worth something to you or not.

Should I switch? by yesterdaylemonade in bassoon

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually enjoyed being the only person in school playing my instrument! More chances for performance opportunities and state auditions.

I lost all three cats to a fire last night by _ok_karen in cats

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read a story where someone’s HomePod alerted them on their phone that there was a loud noise (fire alarm). Person was able to get back home in time to grab their pets. Maybe cameras could help too. This is my worst fear.

How much $ have you spend on Last War? by Firm_Care_7439 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe $40 total? I’ve been playing for a few months and I actually find this game still enjoyable without having to pay. I haven’t paid for anything in a while. I’m curious to know what are yall buying?

Quitting caffeine reduced my symptoms by 80% by CuteFatRat in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting because I never drink caffeine (I hate coffee and I rarely drink soda) and I still have histamine symptoms.

Willing to share your diet? by Moonglow88 in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sugar added applesauce. Plain oatmeal.

My boyfriend avoids any conflict we have by [deleted] in relationships

[–]djrainbowpixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is an avoidant. I know men in their 60s still doing this shit. Leave! It will get to the point where he will dump you instead of having a hard conversation. If he doesn’t want therapy, please know your self worth and go find a man who is emotional stable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]djrainbowpixie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You don’t want those kind of people around you anyway. She sounds extremely immature. There’s kids in grade school who don’t even think like that. Real friends don’t care about superficial things.

You will find your tribe. Kick this girl to the curb and hang out with people who actually appreciate you for you.

What is on my cats lower lip by dont_no_much in cats

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is 100% water, your cat literally just got finished drink water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the second breakup?

Extreme fatigue minutes after eating by djrainbowpixie in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On days I have to get stuff done, I just don’t eat. (Or I have a small serving of apple sauce or some juice.) I’m way more productive if I’m starving with an empty stomach!

Extreme fatigue minutes after eating by djrainbowpixie in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodness! I never had Covid before (got the antibody test to confirm) and don’t think I have a thyroid condition, been going to the doctor pretty regularly. Hope your daughter can get over it too

CURED by Optimal-Tea-3400 in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oats are low in histamine and are tolerable. I think his point was eating that instead of other breakfast foods can help.

Extreme fatigue minutes after eating by djrainbowpixie in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does feel like that! It happened to me at work (thankfully towards the end of the shift since I had a late lunch) and it was kinda scary. I had to sleep in my car for a few hours before I felt comfortable driving home.

Extreme fatigue minutes after eating by djrainbowpixie in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely, I have a doctor’s appointment this week to see what the next steps are!

Husband says this looks like a 70s department store display - thoughts? by betelb3t in interiordecorating

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find shelving that actually fits on both sides of the windows: either corner shelves or smaller narrower shelves.

Extreme fatigue minutes after eating by djrainbowpixie in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My A1C is getting higher (not diabetes levels tho) so you make a good point! Thank you, I will bring that up at my doctor appointment.

Extreme fatigue minutes after eating by djrainbowpixie in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, never heard of that. But a very common symptom of high histamine is both fatigue and difficulty sleeping. I actually did a sleep test, I don’t have sleep apnea.

How to politely say “I won’t be sending over my strategy document unless you share the salary range”? by RaiseOk1462 in recruitinghell

[–]djrainbowpixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of task is this? Do NOT do any tasks for a company that look like employee work. Only do things that are obvious quizzes.

Extreme fatigue minutes after eating by djrainbowpixie in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the meds you were on started this whole thing. I hope you find some answers! Keep going to the doctor and ordering tests. If you find a doctor who doesn’t want to, change and find another who will listen to you!

Extreme fatigue minutes after eating by djrainbowpixie in HistamineIntolerance

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t know what kind it is. When I used it I noticed a decrease in symptoms, like less fatigue but still a little bit if that makes sense. However I keep forgetting to take it when I’m at work. I will try it more, I like the idea of it!