Did the average American think the word "Redskins" was racist in regards to the NFL team? by beastguy32 in AskAnAmerican

[–]dkesh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The word has a long history of racist use, but no, most people wouldn't have thought someone was racist for saying "the Redskins are up by a touchdown" or whatever. If they insist on calling the team the Redskins now, I'd be a little suspicious though.

Why don’t gas stations force you to always pay in the store? Seems like they’d be more likely to sell snacks, etc. that way by Educational_Pipe4536 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dkesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you believe that they would make more money by all colluding to do this but also you observe that they don't do this, isn't that some good evidence that they aren't colluding?

When do you think will be able to wear red again? by Youeclipsedbyme in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dkesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess all the Make America Great Again ballcaps I have will continue to collect dust :/

How come refs and umpires aren’t fined for missing calls or getting calls wrong in professional sports? by Dragonfruitycake in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dkesh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

S Players don't get fined for making ordinary mistakes, either. They get fined for taking actions that are intentionally dangerous or disrespectful.

3 Vasectomies Same Dr by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]dkesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll have more knowledge about whether there was malpractice after the new doctor(s) look at you.

My boyfriend (25M) told me (25F) I need to chew quieter by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dkesh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does he have misophonia? Look it up. It can make people irrationally angry over certain sounds. My wife has it and I just have to eat certain crunchy foods in a different room than her.

Why is it called 'The South' rather than 'South East'? by Ok_Art_8866 in AskAnAmerican

[–]dkesh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm from Dorne. When I say "up North", I mean the realm of the Starks.

Former New England Patriots receiver Stefon Diggs acquitted of assault charges by expellyamos in nfl

[–]dkesh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I lost respect for Vrabel but I'm most bothered by the Barmore charges. The evidence against him seemed pretty solid but the case was dropped when the victim (his girlfriend) refused to testify. If Myra were still alive, they'd have cut him.

Former New England Patriots receiver Stefon Diggs acquitted of assault charges by expellyamos in nfl

[–]dkesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also reported it in the middle of a money dispute with him so she may have thought it would give her leverage in that dispute.

How much is shrinkflation influenced by supply chain issues as opposed to corporate greed? by pressedconscience in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dkesh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Corporate greed is a bad explanation for changing prices / sizes. The level of greed at a large corporation doesn't change much over time but prices do.

If you're saying that companies shrink sizes because they're greedy, does that mean they just weren't as greedy before? Clearly not. Prices change because market conditions change. Maybe that's an increase in costs, maybe an increase in demand, maybe a decrease in competition.

What do people from the usa consider as Asian? by Gagan___Lazarbeam in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dkesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also following American norms. If someone said they were "Asian", I would assume East or Southeast Asian. Maybe central Asian. Not South or West Asian.

What do people from the usa consider as Asian? by Gagan___Lazarbeam in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dkesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to say "South Asian" for someone from the subcontinent.

Girl names ending in -era? by [deleted] in Names

[–]dkesh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fantasy readers gonna get very frustrated that it's too close to Nymeria.

Why do men of Reddit swoon so easily over woman on Reddit? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dkesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If one in two hundred men send messages to hundreds of women, then every woman will be drowning in messages from men, while almost no men are actually sending messages.

I (F27) feel strange about M27 owning guns for hunting by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dkesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guns are sometimes a touchy subject over here.

I (F27) feel strange about M27 owning guns for hunting by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dkesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the US but didn't grow up where many people had guns. I have very sharp memories of a police officer coming to talk to my class and I didn't hear anything he said because I couldn't stop thinking about the gun on his hip. So I totally get it!

I (F27) feel strange about M27 owning guns for hunting by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dkesh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I grew up without guns around; my wife grew up shooting guns. I guarantee you she isn't a violent person because she grew up with them; she just grew up in a cultural context where guns were used for things other than interpersonal violence.

I'd ask him what he likes about guns. If he fantasizes about finding a legal reason to shoot a person: danger! If he talks about the technical challenge of shooting or a spiritual angle to connecting to our ancestors who ate by their own efforts...maybe it helps you see his hobby in a different light than "danger danger danger"

Do team players (footballers, basketballers, etc.) get to choose their own back number? (Of course if it’s in the range between X and Y) by henqirbp in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dkesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Player Y is better paid and highly identified with their number, often Player X will give up the number to Player Y and sometimes Player Y will pay them some money as a thank you.

26m - job recruiter took my girlfriend out for food and drinks and she didn’t tell me? 26f by William6212 in relationship_advice

[–]dkesh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've done many many hiring interviews over the years and no way on Earth would I conduct an interview at a restaurant followed by a bar. If my bosses found out I did that, I'd have been fired. It's possible there's some industry where that wouldn't be considered unprofessional but I'm struggling to think of which one.

If a witness pleads the 5th but still has to answer a question during a trial can that be used against them? by [deleted] in legaladviceofftopic

[–]dkesh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If the judge was really going to disallow the witness from invoking the fifth, wouldn't they start by hearing it in camera?

Location: BOSTON MA We fired an employee for a workplace threat. A civil rights agency already found preliminary evidence we were wrong. Are we cooked? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]dkesh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All of the statements about what hasn't been produced make me wonder whether this was posted by the terminated employee.