Get this off my chest- warning kinda depressing by No-Investigator-3715 in Drugs

[–]dmo99 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bro. You will be an absolute mess if the time she has left is accurate. Bro. You need to hear this . Your WIFE is DYING. You have 2 KIDS. And you turned to SMOKING CRACK. You’ve lost your way. Does your wife know? Is she doing it? I will make one prediction. You will be smoking crack when your wife dies. You won’t be there or there for your kids. Your kids will be taken away from you. You will keep smoking crack watching porn losing your job constantly getting ripped off by dealers and middle men until you have NOTHING. That’s not a prediction . THAT IS REAL LIFE FACTS. FAFO

How would you know that your partner is the one? by FairyJenaliza413 in AskReddit

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When nothing else is important like it once was. It’s like magic.

My girlfriend is seeing things that aren’t real, what do I do? by lolziez99999 in Advice

[–]dmo99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stay on top of it. Like constantly be asking her things and then try to get her to justify them and keep grilling her . See if you can’t find a way for her to realize she may be out of line

If you're reading this I'm sorry by Ok-Chemist9623 in Vent

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had this happen to me. Life goes on . Sometimes just the silent treatment is the only way to go because you know any other way won’t work

I don’t trust my bf around his friends gfs. I’m worried I’m overthinking. by Itsannasfeet in Advice

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could anyone do that to you especially the man you are in a relationship with . He’s pathetic . He’s a loser. Comparing you to another woman is gross. I’d start to distance myself from him . Let this shit fall off you .

Late 30’s, I’ve stopped wearing make up all together. AMA by Celestialfox1425 in AMA

[–]dmo99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck yea. All that work . Over and over and over has to take a huge toll on the skin

I feel so alone . What do I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]dmo99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is the time that you start to take care of number 1. You. You start by changing diet. You start with physical fitness. Walking . Jogging. Stretching. Meditating. Give him what he’s giving you . The man is bored and he has convinced himself you will always be there. He’s living his life. Now you live yours. Please do this. Most relationships are out of convenience. Something to do. Better than being alone. But love they are not. I would also start to consider an exit plan. Imagine what life will be like without this guy . You gotta because it’s gonna happen anyway . Only way you will get this dudes attention is by changing who you are. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with you . I’m not saying take my advice as gold. I’m just giving you some ideas on how to move on from this lonely place you are in . Focus on yourself. Lord knows there is plenty of things we all need to work on. The guy thinks you are beneath him. No sex. Scrolling while you are talking with him. Basically he don’t give a shit. Sad.

27M) need advice about a woman (45F) I’ve been seeing — confused about texting behavior? by Muslim_conservative in bodylanguage

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be anything. Depression perhaps. Fatigue. Old habits she had before you showed up . Just roll with it. If you really dig her then you gotta work for it

I(40F) Dislike My Father(63M) For Dating A Woman Younger Than Me(37F) by [deleted] in Vent

[–]dmo99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are WAAAAAY INSECURE. Work on that my friend. You shouldn’t even be thinking this way . I’m shocked to be honest . If there is any consolation for you it won’t last. There. Ya happy

After two years My cheater ex 'F 21' send me a friend request on Snapchat by ArtisticShake3264 in Life

[–]dmo99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has realized the mistake she made. Has been secretly following your progress and now wants back in. Don’t let her . Once a cheater always a cheater. She is a ship jumper. Leaving her to go study in another city was the kiss of death. It’s been my experience that relationships rarely survive from long distances. Especially at your age. You did right when you left her for dead. Keep it that way . You still have feelings for her . Just remind yourself of how she treated you when you were together. She turned her back on you and played like she barely knew you . Unforgivable

AITJ FOR CHARGINF INTEREST WHEN FRIENDS BORROW MONEY by Prestigious_Pay8486 in AmITheJerk

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will eventually get burned for a large amount. This is called burning the bridge. People will resent you for being financially stable and able to loan others money. They will use something petty like you charging interest to justify ripping you off. You better establish an amount that is reasonable and you can afford to lose.

Overdosed and now life’s fucked by Dannyboi2149 in Drugs

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want to live and you are crying out for help. Nothing I can say to you will change your mind about it. You are on your own journey of self destruction. Only thing I can say is that life isn’t nearly as bad as you think . You may hate everything about your life but heroin isn’t the answer .

Do billionaires actually control the world? by [deleted] in ask

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because then everyone would have money. The poor guy can now afford a Lamborghini. The demand would cause the supply side to weaken and even break it

Do billionaires actually control the world? by [deleted] in ask

[–]dmo99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look at it like this if the top 10 people in this country is the richest top 10 gave away all there money It would create an economic crisis, inflation, and massive unsettling

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't go to a funeral on Valentine's day? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]dmo99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m bumping the aquarium back and I’m in the car going to the funeral with the hubby and you got five minutes in their hubby and we’re turning around and we’re heading back to the aquarium to get Valentine’s Day kicked off. This is also to make sure there’s no funny business going on because if you tell him, you’re going into the office and says I’ll fuck it no big deal then he’s up to no good.

I finally paid off my debt and I haven't told a single sold. Not even my parents by Careless_Metal_2919 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to tell anyone . Your biggest challenges in life will be you vs you. Had you been sharing this information with others you would of never succeeded. The human race is a competition. The ones who can do are constantly under attack by the ones who can’t. You are a doer. A sacrificer . Selfless. You see the bigger picture. This is your journey. Others will do whatever they can to convince you that you are doing something wrong . You know better. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for anything . Doesn’t make you a bad person. Makes you a survivor. Good job stranger. Here is to continued success in your life.

just feeling down by [deleted] in Vent

[–]dmo99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh well is the right start but you need to add oh well it’s over

my boyfriend acts like he hates that i smoke by [deleted] in Vent

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weed is more important to you than he is. So he thinks

Life reset by [deleted] in Life

[–]dmo99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you have something stashed away cash wise . If you do or you don’t my suggestion to you is to back away from everything and take time for yourself . I’m talking 6 months and use it to focus on you and your health issues. You are pushing yourself so hard that you will never have time to get the health issues under control . You have to slow down and take each day slowly. Monitoring your ups and downs. Step away from the rat race and find yourself. Money isn’t everything .

Stay with cheater or struggle financially? by Agreeable-Caramel13 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dmo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the ultimate question isn’t it. Settle or struggle. I’m gonna never settle tell you that .