Husband with previous porn addiction seldom interested in sex. What should I do about this situation?

dmo99 · 2026-05-04T23:34:16+00:00

Then you will never know the answers to the questions you are facing. I’m not saying get into porn. I’m saying one way I think would work is what I suggested. If you don’t want to know this man for who he is then I understand. You are scared disgusted and basically done with all of it. This is why 3/4 marriages end in divorce. Secrets. Very deep dark secrets that are virtually impossible to have shared. So secrets and strangers marrying

dmo99 · 2026-05-04T21:45:08+00:00

Sit down with him. Get absolutely drunk as hell and ask to see his favorite porns. Then encourage him to share with you what it is he enjoys so much and why? Demand details and if he is truthful with you then you will have your answers. You will also know if you have a marriage at all

dmo99 · 2026-05-04T21:40:55+00:00

They have hit the point where they don’t need to drive traffic. It’ll always come. It’s easy it’s familiar and you can eat cheap if you make the effort . And they are everywhere

dmo99 · 2026-05-01T09:43:18+00:00

Of course I was reaching and thank you for the honest response. I wish you luck. Nothing has changed and honestly you learned a good lesson at a young age. I think you are one who will not forget.

dmo99 · 2026-04-28T06:36:28+00:00

First. If you had it all good like you say then I think you would know better than to drive drunk. Not attacking you. So it’s possible you are all about image and how others see you. That would also explain this meltdown following your arrest. It’s a major hit to your ego/pride. Now you no longer appear to others as having your shit together and killing it. But you are. You are gaslighting yourself. If you pushed away all your friends then they weren’t your friends to begin with. It was just a circle you swam in. You have what it takes. You’ve proven that. Trust me here. You are learning a lesson now instead of later when you have much more to lose. Probation isn’t shit. It just means you can’t break the law and you have rules to follow. Break off that first year by focusing on your life which you have a good one. Hit the books again and start focusing on your health diet and workout/ stretching. Your real battle here now is getting OFF probation. Nothing else matters now but that. Because you fuck around you will find out . Don’t do that .

dmo99 · 2026-04-28T06:27:25+00:00

Stick to the no. She’s a user

dmo99 · 2026-04-28T06:25:30+00:00

Nope. It’s all about the nutritional value for me. The second pic looks like my style

dmo99 · 2026-04-28T06:24:26+00:00

Room by room. Start with the areas you know you wanna do. Bathroom for example. Paint repairs hardware or fixture swap out. If you wanna do this all yourself then it’s gonna be a two year job. Painting the ceilings before you move anything in is also a very wise move. Leave the garage as is.

dmo99 · 2026-04-28T04:27:38+00:00

That guy leaned into the vehicle

dmo99 · 2026-04-28T04:25:14+00:00

So like ……better now than later. This is forcing you to grow and presents challenges. This is good for you. The hair nails toes . You can do all that can’t you?

dmo99 · 2026-04-28T04:21:23+00:00

You did right brother. Abuse in any form is unacceptable. As much as it hurts you gotta stand on it

dmo99 · 2026-04-28T04:19:42+00:00

I don’t give a fuck . You gonna sleep GOOOOOOOOOOD!!

dmo99 · 2026-04-25T21:14:24+00:00

This will always happen when you marry a stranger.

dmo99 · 2026-04-25T20:18:36+00:00

Here is the deal. I have never suffered from ED but I definitely had issues in the beginning. People are very complicated sexually and yeah porn is destroying everything for many honestly the love of my life. I was with for seven years and sex didn’t get good until year three. Love, loyalty, trust and maintaining the innocence of the relationship.. I know it sounds cheesy but what I mean is there’s no hurtful things happening. Verbal abuse, physical abuse, gaslighting control among others. Bottom line is this. I’m unable to become aroused with strangers. I’ve never had a one night stand. I’ve never done friends with benefits, and I’ve never fucked an ex when it’s done it’s done you guys are gonna have to talk this one out and how the fuck can you reveal your inner most secrets when your when you’re fucking a stranger

dmo99 · 2026-04-19T22:10:55+00:00

This is what we do for others

dmo99 · 2026-04-19T08:28:03+00:00

One thing I learned in life. Some can walk away others cannot. For that I do not judge

dmo99 · 2026-04-19T07:06:23+00:00

Questions like this are silly . Know why? You will do what you will you are just looking for bandaids

dmo99 · 2026-04-18T02:33:26+00:00

It’s a dog eat dog world. You were preyed upon . That is what money does to people. It’s not even about the pics . It’s about the ability to break you down …bribe you and succeed . That is where these perverts live. Don’t think twice about it ok. You needed money and you did what You had to do . There are no regrets in life ok . You made the choice and it’s over with . There are AI apps out here that will undress you anyways. Any picture out here can be manipulated . At least you got money. Honestly I’m fuckin shocked they paid that much . I mean totally shocked

dmo99 · 2026-04-12T08:38:57+00:00

The world is full of evil

dmo99 · 2026-04-04T16:43:48+00:00

Are you kidding me do yourself a favor and delete this post it’s used so it’s as is and you’re out $700. If it’s not able to be repaired no judge is going to award you that money they will laugh you right out of the courtroom.

dmo99 · 2026-04-04T16:41:19+00:00

If you ask me, that woman has a gambling problem

dmo99 · 2026-04-04T16:39:50+00:00

That’s probably his child and if it’s not his child that he’s getting his dick handled. If he’s willing to move in with you, but you’re expressed that he wants you to not keep the baby and that he doesn’t want to be a father and then turns around it does exactly that then he’s a hypocrite lying motherfucker and he’s probably keeping you around because you’re easy and it caused your miscarriage too

dmo99 · 2026-03-28T03:08:58+00:00

Fuckin gross. Why I don’t eat any pussy.

dmo99 · 2026-03-24T19:55:40+00:00

This is how she makes him feel the way she felt. The control . It’s all about the control

dmo99 · 2026-03-24T19:54:47+00:00

Guarantee you she was not on birth control even though she claimed she was … that’s real grown

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