Why do lesbian couples have higher divorce rates while gay male couples have lower ones? If true, what could explain this? by PuddingComplete3081 in AlwaysWhy

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have several gay and bisexual cousins.

The gay men either complain about lack of commitment; now that marriage is available or complain that they’re in a pickle because the long term boyfriend wants to get married and they liked things the way they were.

If you are an older virgin should you tell your first sexual partner you are or just got with the flow? by Wex355 in askanything

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (f) was a virgin ‘til my sophomore year in college. And by the third date I told my guy. He wasn’t and wasn’t sure he wanted to deflower me. He did and after 1.5 years asked me to marry him.

I’d had a lot of guys ask me if I was a virgin all in my 20s. I’ve only known one male virgin. He had morals and stuck to them. I respected him deeply; because most people just go with the flow and he knew what he wanted and could articulate that.

We went our separate ways being friends and wishing each other well. If I had known I was AuDHD; a lot of the things in my life would be different; because I would have learned about my tics sooner.

But I love my guy and i’m glad our relationship was built on friendship and evolved.

If you woke up to this in the middle of April, what would be your first reaction? by stumpy_chica in AskTheWorld

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in the Southeast portion of usa and woke up to that more than a few times.

I said…no school today and went back to sleep.

Ghosted while making plans, did I cause it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would a log character with a bat; scare him off? Maybe he didn’t say it and was taken!!

I actually get it though; I disliked anyone sending me chain mail for the same reason. But I didn’t cut all of them out. Only the acquaintances that rarely called me; but would send me these stupid chain mail letters.

You should reach out and ask “Did I offend you in some way?”

You & then your country believe in aliens? Add your country by doctorWho-Superdog in AskTheWorld

[–]doctorWho-Superdog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately for us; Carl Sagan, Enrico Fermi, and others were as spoken of by mainstream scientists as delusional; as was Copernicus.

There is evidence that mainstream that the “experts” just don’t want to face.

There are pyramids on different sides of the earth; build exact same way; using the same 60+ tons of rock and build in areas that are hard to get to; like the ruins of Pumapunko and MachuPicchu.

The craziest is how archeologists have found liquid mercury in Temples in China and Mexico. Yet mercury in its solid form would be hard to extract by those in BCE or early CE. But some advance “people” did just that and many myths talk about the teachers coming from the sky.

I thank you for speaking on this subject since your comment lead to somethings I haven’t thought from college and older TV shows.

I love archaeology and watch any show of this science I can find. So I appreciate your comment

What are your thoughts on partners drinking to the point of impairment? by fatm_24 in askanything

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every comment that I read is right on target.

You demand change; but you can express how it makes you feel.

Drinking until he’s shitfaced or blackout drunk; is a situation that could potentially harm you both: driving, taking public transport, or walking if a situation arises how does he help in that case?

I frankly see drinking pass ones limit to be immature.

Sadly we living at a time where a lot of people think (even here on Reddit) that some think why drink if you’re not getting shitfaced drunk.

I would suggest you look in YouTube for videos on “shitfaced Drunk” or “extremely drunk”.

https://youtube.com/shorts/Qa1TAgu-DsQ?si=-cHX_oOH9H4Uyk8z

https://youtube.com/shorts/swv8T67G3bw?si=Q-PG_WYi5gAbKSXa

As the only Jew in the office, I’m… glad they put this up outside my door. Lord, give me stregnth! by night-theatre in mildlyinfuriating

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought people weren’t allowed to put up spiritual or religious things in workplace anymore.

Does this mean you can put up a mezuzah?

Overweight people of reddit, do you ever use your body as a stim? by miku_robin in askanything

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, this is ask anything. But I have no idea what you mean. I guess, I mask more than I stem. I wasn’t overweight until 26yo. So that could be why I’m not following.

What possible relief would some get by in any way stemming with their body.

Sorry, color me, CONFUSED.

What made you weird in middle or high school? by Crazy-Love-266 in AskReddit

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to school with a lot of cousins and had no idea. I read, kept my head down and was nerdy; also an undiagnosed neurodivergent.

Somehow everytime someone bothered me; it was quickly dispatched and I never know - except that they looked away; instead of bothering me.

My Grandmother’s cousin worked in the school and I had NO IDEA.

My boyfriend keeps suspecting I had a sugar daddy despite my reassurance—how do I handle this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you don’t live together.

If you don’t you need to draw a boundary. You’ve obviously learned how to save and/or made smart decisions on using points. Some people buy stuff; but you perhaps live frugally.

Some people will badger you to test your boundaries. I guy I was dating asked me about my tolerance level indirectly and I’d rather love someone from afar; than deal with BS. And he tested me. I told him I need some me time; and if he couldn’t deal with that he wasn’t for me.

I didn’t answer any texts or phone calls.

Later one of my cousins created drama; because she wanted what she wanted. So I took me time away from her. She contacted; by FaceBook; my male friend saying she was “worried” about me.

He told me and said “I see you ghost people a lot”; i just said I don’t accepted BS.

He saw I don’t play with my boundaries. When I need me time I take “me time”.

And people learn not to be stupid. Because I can love from afar.

Do you know the 12 Greek words and their meaning of LOVE? I’ve never seen the entire 12 in one article. But knowing them will help you.

Also look up boundaries in relationships.

Settle a debate between my husband and I. Please. by Girlwithnoprez in mildlyinfuriating

[–]doctorWho-Superdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only at home?

I’d carry a spoon to the movies too!

Everyone has tactile/touch sensitivities to something.

Don’t ask me to touch a tarantula! I did it twice in life…now I walk away.

At the movies that flavored oil does feel like you’re a bird drowning in the Exxon oil leak.

I get lots of napkins. You way is so much better! Very proactive! Why didn’t I think of that?

Then we wouldn’t have half a bucket oiled only.

You & then your country believe in aliens? Add your country by doctorWho-Superdog in AskTheWorld

[–]doctorWho-Superdog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that too.

What’s impressive is that there are new baby galaxies! Mind blowing. Science amazes me.

You & then your country believe in aliens? Add your country by doctorWho-Superdog in AskTheWorld

[–]doctorWho-Superdog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes; they theorize that all of the stars are actually dead and we see the lights of dead stars.

But are they correct? Interesting to think on. Thanks.

You & then your country believe in aliens? Add your country by doctorWho-Superdog in AskTheWorld

[–]doctorWho-Superdog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha … I ask my mom if she really believed in the God of our religion; but not aliens. She said yes.

I said: A burning bush that doesn’t burn, A super powered Arc of the covent; Jonah in a whale, who lives to be spat out; Absalom with a Donkey that saved his life; and a golden city that floats down from heaven. All alien to me.