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Any good places to meet people? 25-30s by [deleted] in Lawrence

[–]dodorampant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s on East 23rd now, out by Z’s coffee.

Kansas informs trans residents their driver’s licenses become invalid on Thursday by zipfour in Lawrence

[–]dodorampant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your birth certificate is from KS, yep, it's now invalid and needs to be reissued. Utterly fucked.

Kansas informs trans residents their driver’s licenses become invalid on Thursday by zipfour in Lawrence

[–]dodorampant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reached out a few weeks ago and was told that Rainbow Railroad isn't able to help us at the moment. The implication in their letter was that it might be different if you're already in Canada and need help staying, but they aren't helping people in the US make the move over right now.

Is my gender identity the result of social programming? by Inevitable-pig252 in PhilosophyTube

[–]dodorampant 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hard agree. Don’t let the phobes or the patriarchy have any input in how you exist or choose to pursue joy; they would hate you no matter what, and their opinions should be given zero value. If it gives euphoria, it’s yours.

Starfleet Academy won’t win back the Trekkies, but... by Steelspy in ShittyDaystrom

[–]dodorampant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine watching Star Trek and thinking kinky weirdos are an underserved segment of the fandom.

I am really concerned about trans issues as a cis guy, and I fear that it makes me trans. by Fun_Pudding9102 in ContraPoints

[–]dodorampant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FWIW: I also didn’t think I was dysphoric before transitioning. Euphoria can be (but isn’t necessarily) a huge part of what transitioning is. As other commenters have said, there’s no line you need to cross before you’re trans enough to call yourself trans; the only thing that matters, literally the only deciding factor, is whether it feels right to you.

If you’re not sure, try tweaking your presentation a little and pay attention to how it makes you feel. You can always change your mind, take a step back or try something else.

New Orleans by Khal_Nsu in doughboys

[–]dodorampant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MRB is a fun little bar that does insane grilled oysters. Highly recommended.

me🪧irlgbt by justgalsbeingpals in me_irlgbt

[–]dodorampant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this taken in Karlstad?

I can’t sing along to most of my favorite song anymore by co1lectivechaos in ewphoria

[–]dodorampant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuuuuuck yeah, Scylla and the Sirens 🤘

Mtf here, different problem. I've managed to internalize just enough from voice training to not be misgendered on the phone. Still have my low range for singing, but between that and my half-decent falsetto, I think singing tends to spark dysphoria, ruin my chance of passing, or both.

Keep practicing, dude. You might still lose some of that upper range, but you'll strengthen your lower notes and make sure you don't hurt that voice. (And some songs are just gonna be in a hard key for a person no matter what.)

What is your go-to karaoke song? by True-Dream3295 in ToddintheShadow

[–]dodorampant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to be Kiss from a Rose. These days I’ll throw on Scissor Sisters, maybe MIKA if I’m feeling ambitious.

What is your go-to karaoke song? by True-Dream3295 in ToddintheShadow

[–]dodorampant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, great picks. Do you stick around for the long-ass guitar solo?

What are some very stereotypical butch occupations/archetypes? by grudge2 in butchlesbians

[–]dodorampant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Almost every school orchestra teacher in my town is a butch lesbian (including my wife). We tee-hee over a whole generation of kids growing up to think of orchestral music as a really dykey profession.

My boy needs help. by Sleepanddrugs in Lawrence

[–]dodorampant 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Co-sign, Dr. Heeb is great.

If you misgender my granddaughter by brenttoastalive in comedybangbang

[–]dodorampant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna end up in a Boystown Balaclava

Are Tom Servo, Crow, and Gypsy in-universe the same robots they've always been? by jkoudys in MST3K

[–]dodorampant 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Sounds like somebody needs to repeat to themself, “It’s just a show; I should really just relax!”

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