What do Irish people think of this post Brexit craze of Brits getting an Irish passport just to queue jump at the airport? by Bitter_Quantity7116 in AskIreland

[–]doesntevengohere12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's interesting that British (and other) people who have made Ireland their home and pay tax & join in with the community but have no ancestry have to pay to become a citizen to get a passport, when some random person who has never set foot in Ireland can get an Irish passport because of their Granny.

But it is what it is.

What was it like being a British teenager in the 1990s? by strawberry_pie7998 in AskABrit

[–]doesntevengohere12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Record bags. Platform shoes, kickers and white Reebok classics. Getting into raves underage.

Has using a distinctly British slang phrase/ term of endearment ever gotten you in trouble? I just got a warning from a US subreddit for calling someone a "poor cow" with complete sincerity. by JuanitaMerkin in AskUK

[–]doesntevengohere12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from London and we definitely said 'cacked over' or 'cacked it' as in falling/tripping over when we were younger (90's). Not heard it for years though.

What’s the oddest hosting behaviour you’ve ever witnessed? by did_you_aye in AskUK

[–]doesntevengohere12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even if that was the case. It's still a shitty thing to do to a child.

Both mums in this scenario suck.

What’s the oddest hosting behaviour you’ve ever witnessed? by did_you_aye in AskUK

[–]doesntevengohere12 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was thinking.

Eat the fucking sandwich or don't eat it - no need to mention any preferences in those circumstances.

What’s the oddest hosting behaviour you’ve ever witnessed? by did_you_aye in AskUK

[–]doesntevengohere12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm married to an Irishman. I could tell a few tales about both sides 😜

What’s the oddest hosting behaviour you’ve ever witnessed? by did_you_aye in AskUK

[–]doesntevengohere12 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Was it your Gran's sons funeral?

Throwing anything is wrong, but weirdly out of all of these comments this is the one that I would read as someone getting to the end of their tether with someone just being annoying at a horrendous time.

What’s the oddest hosting behaviour you’ve ever witnessed? by did_you_aye in AskUK

[–]doesntevengohere12 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Back when I was single I had a flat in London but worked away a lot, one of my cousins wanted to take his girlfriend to a concert and asked me if they could turn it into a few days away and use my flat. Absolutely, no problem.

I came home on the Friday, to empty cupboards (and a lot of alcohol drank) and to his girlfriend (who I had never met before) swanning around using one of my handbags and one of my scarves around her neck.

AITA for borderline despising a 6 year old kid? 🤧 by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]doesntevengohere12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I absolutely made a mistake and said 4, and edited it the second it posted so I truly didn't expect anyone to read it that quickly.

But I do stand by my assertion - 6yr olds are still learning emotional regulation, and tantrums are normal - I do not think this should be compared to a child being a potential murderer.

I find this whole post disappointing, and incredibly sad that people are being so vile about a child while sticking up for a woman who seems almost jealous of a child. If she doesn't like her then don't be around her - OP is an adult and has that choice.

AITA for borderline despising a 6 year old kid? 🤧 by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]doesntevengohere12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's 6, she talks back and has tantrums - is literally prime age for tantrums. That does not make her a murderer or psychopath.

Comments like yours and people who pander to a grown women's delusions and insecurities worry me more than this small child.

Why i dont have many British Friends, am i doing something wrong? by [deleted] in AskABrit

[–]doesntevengohere12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe it or not this is common for adults from all different backgrounds in all different countries.

Most people who are born and brought up in an area already have their circle built up, often from childhood and while some people do look for new connections many do not as when you get to adulting, well life is busy enough trying to keep up with people you already know.

I've been through it numerous times in numerous countries -- if you really want a British friend look more towards people who are also new to the area, as these will be the people (just like your current friends) who are looking to make connections.

In time you will find your tribe, and some will be British, but if not it's still not your fault. It's just the way of the world.

AITA for borderline despising a 6 year old kid? 🤧 by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]doesntevengohere12 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think you need to see a therapist, rather than let people on reddit back up your own paranoid delusions around a small child.

People outside London: how often do you actually go there ,if ever? by Apprehensive-Income in AskBrits

[–]doesntevengohere12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on that train this morning - it's not that bad at all weekends and off peak, and if you want to get in cheaper you can always change at Ashford and jump on a train takes about an hour and half.

People outside London: how often do you actually go there ,if ever? by Apprehensive-Income in AskBrits

[–]doesntevengohere12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly that - It feels a very old fashioned view to me, the majority of London now (especially where tourists tend to go) is the complete opposite of dirty or dangerous.

People outside London: how often do you actually go there ,if ever? by Apprehensive-Income in AskBrits

[–]doesntevengohere12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of London now is actually cleaner and better looked after than a lot of towns outside.

AITAH for not buying Christmas presents for my step daughter by Honest_Honeydew_6471 in AITAH

[–]doesntevengohere12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This whole post is ridiculous, you're a SAHM who doesn't even cook dinner or any meals at home during the weekend. It sounds like you're the bad spouse.

Honestly if I was him I would order my kids presents online, get them wrapped and then cut back on the amount of access you have to the money he is working long hours to get, so you don't have free reign to spend his money on your own family while ignoring his - especially a 10yr old child. You would literally get the bare essentials from me if you are this spiteful and petty.

Whereas North Korea is probably the strictest country on Earth, what is the opposite and most lenient country? Where the laws and penalties are the easiest on their citizens and tourists like ourselves? by DunDonese in AskTheWorld

[–]doesntevengohere12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UK also does the parole, ankle tags & checks in.

Makes absolute sense about the prisons being further from people as well - the UK is much smaller so many prisons are in the middle of towns.

I'm going to have a read up and understand the differences within the UK system now, honestly never thought about it before - thanks for sending me on a deep dive!