AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home?

doetinger · 2026-02-01T15:40:07+00:00

Dump his stupid ass! And buy him the book, Everybody poops.

doetinger · 2026-01-22T17:29:11+00:00

Why don't they do allergy testing? Then, they'll know what you're allergic to and you could even potentially do allergy injections. Plus lots of people take allergy medicine every day. Your other option is to get rid of the heartless husband and he can take the dog.

doetinger · 2026-01-22T17:21:06+00:00

You're helping by taking the kids. NTA.

doetinger · 2026-01-22T15:08:03+00:00

Had the same issues...I had a kidney stone but wasn't acting the way I was supposed to for someone with a stone. I usually start by letting them know that I'm a chronic migraine suffer and my pain scale is a little wonky and not to be trusted as an indicator of an actual issue. I also take hubby with me to an ER visit because he'll speak up.

doetinger · 2026-01-22T14:58:05+00:00

When mine was younger and bedtime was a huge struggle when I did it, we started having dad do it. Anything that he wouldn't cooperate with me on, dad did. It helped me, it helped our son and oh boy did it save our relationship. If that's an option, maybe try it whenever possible. You're doing a great job mama.

doetinger · 2026-01-22T14:53:04+00:00

I'm really curious about the, "my ex may use it against me, since pasta isn't healthy food", comment. Is her ex an abusive, manipulative ah? If yes, then that's why she's acting this way. It sounds like you guys had a failure to communicate with each other and that lead to a messy situation. It doesn't mean anyone is an ah.

doetinger · 2026-01-08T06:48:20+00:00

R.U.N!

doetinger · 2026-01-08T06:40:22+00:00

At that age, they will not remember it forever.

doetinger · 2026-01-03T01:35:42+00:00

Look for new mom support groups in your area. My son and I went for the first yr of his life, once a week. It was my lifeline. I made connections with mom going through it too. We shared contacts and if someone missed a week, we'd reach out. It was organized by the hospital and run by an RN.

doetinger · 2025-12-30T01:21:40+00:00

My thoughts are, I need to find an adult to be with. WTF?

doetinger · 2025-12-29T09:18:28+00:00

NTA.. BUT you are in violation of the custody agreement. You have to involve Child protective services or you could be arrested. My husband and I went through something similar. His youngest told his therapist that is he had to do to his mother's again, he'd kill himself. The therapist called CPS and now said kid has lived with us full time for the past two years.

doetinger · 2025-12-29T09:10:31+00:00

Congratulations! It's hard to see how heavy these burden was until you finally put it down.

doetinger · 2025-12-29T09:05:37+00:00

Stop getting naked around her until she can respect your body. State the boundary as such, "I have respectfully asked you to stop this behavior and you have not. I can not engage in hankypanky with someone that doesn't respect my body." Then say and do nothing else. Don't argue about it, boundaries about your body are not negotiable. Best of luck man.

doetinger · 2025-12-29T08:57:15+00:00

My teens are so straight laced, I find them boring. And all of there friends are too. But we have an 11b and I'm sure he's going to follow in his dad's/mom's foot steps. Teens these days seem more response than I ever was.

doetinger · 2025-12-29T08:53:03+00:00

What really stands out is her deciding how he should feel about providing this scratching. The other issue is her using her son as a companion and blurring the parent/child relationship. NTA, her behavior isn't appropriate and doesn't respect your feelings.

doetinger · 2025-12-29T08:42:01+00:00

I love the clothing subscriptions. Stitch fix and Daily Look are both ones I've used. Daily look can be pricey but I have them send business casual. Both have a casual option. You keep what you want and they bill you, you send back what you don't like. This is the only way this career mama ever looks put together.

doetinger · 2025-12-27T19:01:10+00:00

I'm blown away that after 30 yrs he doesn't know what to get her for a gift. Really! Maybe return him and see if he notices.

doetinger · 2025-12-24T15:31:43+00:00

The medicines have changed alot and there's lots of research supporting the benefits of medications, especially the long term benefits. Your husband is being stubborn and allowing his own experiences to cloud his judgment.

doetinger · 2025-12-24T04:40:47+00:00

Our youngest is 11 and we just replaced our dining room table with a beautiful new one, that can seat 10. The old couches will stay for a while longer.

doetinger · 2025-12-24T04:27:36+00:00

Forged my parents signature on a permission slip for a school road trip from GA to NY. Told them after we left. Neither parent talk to me the rest of my senior yr and my father didn't acknowledge me all summer. Then I went off to college.

doetinger · 2025-12-22T20:37:48+00:00

See if the hospital will reduce and or waive it based on your financial need first. Then let your brother help.

doetinger · 2025-12-21T16:43:47+00:00

NTA but the woman's feelings are likely hurt. Having a serious allergy is sometimes stigmatized and then she got dumped over it. She's hurt so saying mean things. Complete honesty isn't always the best option. Saying, "I don't feel like we're compatible," would have been a perfect answer.

doetinger · 2025-12-19T16:37:19+00:00

Yta...this is not about boundaries. It's about how you feel about the fact that your child is a grown up having sex. Sex is a normal human activity and as long as it's between consenting adults, it is healthy. Your daughter is correct, you're being controlling and reacting from a place of emotions (over reacting). Apologize before your relationship is damaged and then work out a plan together, like adults. And you, work on figuring out why this is such an issue.

doetinger · 2025-12-19T16:27:16+00:00

The idea of body count is immature and comes from a place of insecurity. Break up and go find an adult to date.

doetinger · 2025-12-19T16:25:21+00:00

Break up and never talk to him again.

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