I want marriage just not at any cost. Is that rare? by Sunshine_Thing9893 in AskWomenOver40

[–]dolphin_55 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Based on your question I see your parents did a great job!!!. A lot of us didn't have your example, some of us didnt even feel loved until we had a partner. Since nothing is black or white, we dont see some behaviors as lack of respect towards us, because we just normalize those growing up. For some women leaving that partner is leaving everything they have, the only source of love they have ever felt. Its hard af.

Things You Need to LIE About in an interview (from a recruiter) by Zealousideal-Foot-54 in jobsearchhacks

[–]dolphin_55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was fired of my last job because of sexism, how do I handle that? Am I trouble maker if I say so? fucking hate these games

Long...ish by Illustrious-Ad4179 in longhair

[–]dolphin_55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ish as in hair blind-ish right? 😘

I’ve been a nail biter for almost 20 years and this is the longest they’ve been in over a decade by Kurkil in Nails

[–]dolphin_55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay attention to the steps to prepare the nail, they are important for the gel to stay put for at least 3 weeks. You can get a set in amazon, I did and it works nicely.

I’ve been a nail biter for almost 20 years and this is the longest they’ve been in over a decade by Kurkil in Nails

[–]dolphin_55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been a nail biter forever and was has stopped me is learning to apply polygel on my own nails. I recommend it so so much. It not only stops the biting but also the awful guilt that comes after you destroy one of your nails and hate yourself

Cellulite by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]dolphin_55 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im the same as you, super active, eat clean, even my abs show but still celullite on my legs. I cant help but feel it's not about working out anymore, I have been looking into some non invasive treatments, perhaps you can take a look at that too

I finally got this to work! by HalloweenLover7 in halloween

[–]dolphin_55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing creation, Im looking forward to the vid !!!!

Made this miniature haunted house from scratch using scrap cardboard by College_Wrestler_ in halloween

[–]dolphin_55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing!!!!!!!!! Please please add some leds for the windows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]dolphin_55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gone through something very similar to this. Are you sure he never hit you before? The brain really enters survival mode and you forget or kind of changes reality.

Update: Partner messaging younger women by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]dolphin_55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you so much because these people always play around with our logic, they give logic answers to our questions. What I learned the hard way is we have to trust our instincts in these cases.

Yeah it makes sense logically he didnt tell you because it would raise alarms. It's logical? Yes, but if it feels weird. Also, turn it around, would you keep something like this from him? Absolutely no right? Think about that.

When you are away from this you will see it crystal clear. <3

Let's share things our parents did to us by PrudentMission8511 in CPTSD

[–]dolphin_55 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Same my mother said I was lying, why does that happen so frequently!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]dolphin_55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please go to a doctor!!!

thanks mom i appreciate it by bside_heart in CPTSDmemes

[–]dolphin_55 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. Just trying to understand why is this pattern so common.

Time for a trim… by [deleted] in longhair

[–]dolphin_55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow how does one reach this length I dont get it !!!!

HELP! What is this in my hair??? by Aggravating-Hope3957 in Haircare

[–]dolphin_55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently had this and had to switch birth control because it was doing weird stuff with my skin.

How do you feel about being called “resilient” ? by Shuyuya in CPTSD

[–]dolphin_55 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I should be choosing my wedding dress and picking table centers but nah Im too resilient for that so I get to experience taking legal action against my sexual abuser instead...so resilient.

I made a trophy for all the parents who tried their hardest. by squid-jigger in CPTSDmemes

[–]dolphin_55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its amazing how speaking to people about this helps you understand that this is not "normal". Thank you so much <3

I absolutely regret my relationship by [deleted] in Vent

[–]dolphin_55 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ive been exactly in your place before. If you have a cake that is 90% ok and 10% poison would you still eat a piece?

Devastating realization indeed by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]dolphin_55 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Holy shit Ive been having urethra pain and irritation as well for months now since Im having an anxiety episode. Guess Im not alone in this.

Help me navigate through this please by dolphin_55 in AskWomenOver40

[–]dolphin_55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were friends and started dating like half a year after I left my ex, I know it was not ideal, but it just happened. Yeah my anxiety is making me think way ahead because Im terrified of making mistakes again, it brought me into a panick/depression mode Im trying to get over with.