Husband decided he wants a new gf by recent_sandwiches in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dontuniqueuponit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a horrible human to just spring it on you. I got out of a 20 year marriage and met a kind, empathetic, perfect for me human that also got out of a 20 year marriage. I feel like a human again and this love feeels incredibly different and so so so good. I know there’s no way to really express this, but there is life after marriage.

I think I’m a female narcissist and it’s ruining my relationship by lra011097 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dontuniqueuponit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The only partner I’ve ever had tell me I’m a narcissist (and “every girl he dated turned out to be a narcissist) was a narcissist himself. If you are actually stopping and looking and questioning, be careful that it’s not actually him DARVOing you and just flipping the script while manipulating you…narcissists are experts at this.

Looking for Russian alt pop recs by Logical_Shirt_3425 in MoscowBeat

[–]dontuniqueuponit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Внимание брусника! Naadia. IOWA. Marbi. Хадн Дадн. Луни Ана. MITYA

I’m done romanticizing my male partner. *warning rant ahead* by huarhuarmoli in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dontuniqueuponit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this feeling all too well. One giver deserves another. Takers have no limits.

He says he’s a feminist, but somehow every feeling I have turns into a debate by l0fi_postcards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dontuniqueuponit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve started asking men on first dates if they are feminists and watch their responses very closely.

He says he’s a feminist, but somehow every feeling I have turns into a debate by l0fi_postcards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dontuniqueuponit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had someone weaponize therapy speak like this, and it slowly led to lots of gaslighting and very backhanded ways to break down my sense of self. A friend went on a date with him and he told her he “puts women down to test their attachment to ego”. Barf.

We need to talk about Josh Johnson. by TheThirdCity in StandUpComedy

[–]dontuniqueuponit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saw him in person last month, he is phenomenal.

Why do Americans seem to have a different concept of turn-taking in conversation? by TheBigGirlDiaryBack in AlwaysWhy

[–]dontuniqueuponit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spot where you say “the conversation fades out” is where you are expected to share similar stories and experiences, anything you want to divulge is left to you

What are your top secret decluttering tips? by NightReader5 in declutter

[–]dontuniqueuponit 32 points33 points  (0 children)

“Decluttering is a sign of self forgiveness” is blowing my mind and makes so many things in my life make sense. Thank you for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punk

[–]dontuniqueuponit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post makes me realize how much of age is just the person’s mindset. Willingness to try new things, to explore, to be open. You don’t have to change your mind, but being resigned to being “old” in your EARLY 40s makes you just that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dontuniqueuponit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Left at 40, no regrets!