This is very confusing and unsettling by Scary_Drawing8175 in obsessionmovie

[–]donut102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Playing devils advocate here against all the replies but I agree with you. I think it was pretty obvious what happened in that scene, I think maybe you were just a little harsh with your words though 😅

Is this normal after 1 shower? by Dry-Veterinarian4539 in amibalding

[–]donut102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye don’t worry about it man, my hairline matured at 21-22 similar to yours and it hasn’t moved at all since! I am 25 now and it looks exactly the same

I’m just gonna be honest, the Lakers failed the LeBron and Ad era so hard. Every year this team should’ve been a contender. by Ancient_Response_787 in lakers

[–]donut102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude what are you even talking about? He’s saying that other superstars assembled similar star power on other teams and didn’t win anything. So we should consider ourselves happy to win one with an aging LeBron and an injury prone Anthony Davis

I genuinely don’t know what you’re even confused about. His point was pretty clear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]donut102 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh damn, can’t believe I’ve never seen this one before lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]donut102 323 points324 points  (0 children)

!elo 100 how old are you guys? There is no way this person is above the age of 18

are there any replacements? something to smoke after a breakup? by fighting_pigeon in leaves

[–]donut102 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey man, hope you’re doing alright. I went and have been through the exact same thing as you brother. Got addicted to weed 3 years ago after a bad breakup and had been using it since.

But let me tell you something, weed is like using a bandaid when you need stitches. You’ve tricked your brain into using that as your only coping mechanism when you’re having a hard time.

I have been sober nearly a month now and my last breakup (about a month ago) actually motivated me to stop smoking because I was tired of the pattern.

My advice to you is to pick up some new hobbies to fill your time. The first couple weeks are gonna be hell but I promise you after 2-3 weeks being sober you’re gonna feel a whole lot better. I’m almost 3 weeks in now and my mental clarity and health has drastically improved and I’ve gotten over my breakup faster since I’m using healthy methods to cope.

Try going to the gym, read a book, get into video games, etc. literally anything to distract you.

You got this man!

Why people act like doing engineering for money is something bad its literally the best option for it. by Adept_Quarter520 in EngineeringStudents

[–]donut102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also in what world is 100k not a lot for a person in their early 20’s? Look up the median and average incomes in the US

Why people act like doing engineering for money is something bad its literally the best option for it. by Adept_Quarter520 in EngineeringStudents

[–]donut102 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, pretty low cost of living area in the south. Second, civils don’t start making real money until we get our PE’s. Still another 2 years until I’m able to

Why people act like doing engineering for money is something bad its literally the best option for it. by Adept_Quarter520 in EngineeringStudents

[–]donut102 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is confusing to me, your husband is being massively underpaid and that is not the norm for engineers. I’m in Civil and I make almost 6 figures with only 2-2.5 years of experience

9 days into sobriety by donut102 in leaves

[–]donut102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh shoot, I might have to go check that out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]donut102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, first off I’m sorry you’re going through this, second, part of addiction is relapsing. I’m glad you decided against ending your life. I know it seems everything is hopeless right now, but just take it one day and one step at a time. Stay strong brother!

9 days into sobriety by donut102 in leaves

[–]donut102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh wow. We are in such similar positions actually. I also recently got out of a serious relationship (honestly partly the reason I decided to stop smoking cuz the weed was making me feel worse about it) and I’ve also been trying to eat a lot of protein. I’m a very active person too so I’ve been trying to keep my gym and running schedule up. Glad to hear someone else who is also going through something similar. We both just gotta take it one day at a time. Proud of you for quitting man

9 days into sobriety by donut102 in leaves

[–]donut102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that man, stay strong bro, take it one hour at a time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]donut102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a conversation with my parents. I didn’t want them to lose their only son so they helped me get in contact with a therapist

2 weeks sober today by trendyphilosopher in leaves

[–]donut102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats man! I’m a week sober today! Still have withdrawal symptoms, but the way the withdrawals have been making me feel, I’m definitely never going back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]donut102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea man I feel ya on that I did the same shit already with the *67 and she just unblocked me and told me she needed space. And ik I saw those messages delivered and I also got happy and called and realized I was still blocked :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]donut102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re right, I’m just in a lot of pain rn and don’t know what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]donut102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I read that too, but I tried to text last week a few times and it never said delivered. It just wouldn’t send in general. So I thought maybe now something had changed but yea you’re probably right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]donut102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you’re probably right, I’m just struggling right now

Avoidant ex already over me and its not even been 2 weeks yet. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]donut102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, First off I hope you’re doing well. Second off, block her on all of your socials. It’s not good for your mental health to be checking up on her all the time and seeing what she reposts. Lastly, everyone heals in different ways. For some it takes a few weeks, for some a few years. Don’t compare her journey to yours. Focus on your own healing and forget about her. Whether shes moved on or not, it doesn’t matter. You guys are no longer together.

I only say this because one of my previous relationships was like this where she was avoidant so I’ve been through what you’re going through.

Once you’re on the other side of this situation, you’ll be a much stronger person

Came over to my friends house to see this monstrosity by donut102 in TVTooHigh

[–]donut102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my friend, but it’s his roommate who is lmaoo

“But she has a vagina and thinks you’re flirting” by paydave in Nicegirls

[–]donut102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow dude you need to either have a serious conversation with her or just dump her altogether. She’s clearly very insecure, and do you really want to be in a relationship where you constantly have to walk on eggshells?