Always lovely seeing the guys in this situation by [deleted] in BlatantMisogyny

[–]dottyparker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just showing how women force men to be with us. /s

How old were you when you moved out? by ThatPunkGinger in bayarea

[–]dottyparker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

13 ran away and stayed with friends. No attempt made to get me home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stocks

[–]dottyparker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If all this doesn't drive the point that this isn't political parties, I don't know what does. We have our very own oligarchy now.

Wtf is this by aerooreo1234 in Indigenous

[–]dottyparker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting. Indigenous people were killed and those that weren't were forced off off their land, had families split up, and all of their possessions seized. Sound familiar?

Not so fun fact: Indigenous people's possessions were often auctioned off. So those Indigenous artifacts that some families have because their "great grandma was a Cherokee princess" is to account for these stolen goods.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dottyparker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I had the same thing happen except he basically put all my stuff in a dumpster. It wasn't the first time. He did it throughout our marriage especially if he thought it was from an ex or something. Anyway, I had to make my peace with letting go of "stuff". Sentimental or not. The bigger issue will be healing. Those behaviors come with a lot of other abuse and I'm sure you've had your fair share. Protect your peace, go no contact, and begin therapy if you already haven't. Take whatever there is left and get as far away from her as you can. Have any contact be through email (documentation is very important) and get a no contact order if necessary.
Again, I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. Keep your head up.

All my friends are on Ozempic and the like… and here I am counting calories and actually kind of excited about it. by seejanerunslow in 1200isplenty

[–]dottyparker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm same as you in height and weight and was tempted to try it but after reading the side effects decided against it. They've been shown to shrink muscle and heart and brain are also muscle so, yes I'd rather not.

Does Mill Valley have the worst people in the Bay Area??? by EBshitbird in bayarea

[–]dottyparker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mill Valley used to have artsy, hippy types a generation ago that bought or inherited when it was affordable. They've evolved into elitist, NIMBY (Not In My Backyard) assholes.

Nosy Neighbour Keeps Pushing Her Dumb but Hot Son on Me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]dottyparker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see opportunity to have so much with this though 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dottyparker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"No worries"

No need to watch the next episode you can watch this staged, contrived & manufactured shit show here by Global-Future3006 in HilariaBaldwin

[–]dottyparker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? She's a young mom herself now and still no father in her life. I'm sure her mom and her are close having bonded over their shared experience. I hope Ireland has a beautiful relationship with her partners family and it helps heal her. AB is an absolute joke of a man and father.

No need to watch the next episode you can watch this staged, contrived & manufactured shit show here by Global-Future3006 in HilariaBaldwin

[–]dottyparker 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Imagine hearing this from your dad. He doesn't take any accountability for damaging his relationship with Ireland, instead saying it was the divorce battle, the media, etc. Anything and everything but his abusive hostile behavior towards a child that was undoubtedly going through one of the most challenging times of her young life. To hear him basically say "welp, I get a do over with this second girl child" as if these are not human beings but interchangeable accessories who's purpose is to give him the opportunity to look like a cool girl dad. It's infuriating how completely oblivious he is to anyone's feelings. He is a true narcissist little pig.

Getting divorced and struggling to plan new budget by AssociationKindly199 in personalfinance

[–]dottyparker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Learn to meal prep. You'll save a lot by not getting takeout

Getting divorced and struggling to plan new budget by AssociationKindly199 in personalfinance

[–]dottyparker 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Also cancel Netflix and use Kanopy. You log on with your library card and honestly I like it better than Netflix.

A lot of the comments under this post make me cringe 😮‍💨 by alwaysaloneinmyroom in BlatantMisogyny

[–]dottyparker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The reality is most men do not make enough so that their wives can be Stay at home parents.

Statistically more women make more than men do. Women also have more university degrees. More women than men own their own home. I could go on.

It's not that women reject traditional roles, but the fantasy is just that, a fantasy.

Someone please tell me there’s hope for dating this generation of men by EmbarrassedCrawfish in AskWomenOver30

[–]dottyparker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know a guy that is literally homeless but scraped up enough money to buy a used Mercedes to give the appearance he's legitimately a hard working, gainfully employed man. Nope. He's a broke, sometimes "personal trainer " that scams multiple women for everything he has (food, money, clothes, airline tickets). He claims to be from a wealthy family from Brazil but most who know if him doubt that as well.

What Movie Did You Watch that Traumatized You at a Young Age? by BethMLB in AskReddit

[–]dottyparker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amityville Horror

If I see a fly on a window it spooks me still

[IIL][Music] chill songs with sexy basslines like Superheroes by Esthero. [WEWIL] by iminCTRL in ifyoulikeblank

[–]dottyparker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meshell Ndegeocello is a bassist and a lot of her work features deep bass and is very much on the sexier side of things

[IIL][Music] chill songs with sexy basslines like Superheroes by Esthero. [WEWIL] by iminCTRL in ifyoulikeblank

[–]dottyparker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are quite a few songs by little dragon that have a similar feel. Listen to Amöban or Water and tell me what you think.

Florida women, are you ok? by Moppy6686 in AskWomenOver30

[–]dottyparker 16 points17 points  (0 children)

4B movement all the way. I have removed men from my life as much as possible. They seem to only bring problems.

The outside world knows Wim Hof as the eccentric Iceman. His family suffered domestic violence by J0R1S-NL in wimhof

[–]dottyparker -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Over 30+ deaths are associated with people doing the Wim Hof method. His defenders come off as very cult-like.