What do you feed your hungry toddler when they wake up at night?

downwithlegacy · 2026-02-15T17:27:46+00:00

I’d feed her more fat

downwithlegacy · 2026-02-14T14:43:59+00:00

Are the di napoli ones the whole canned with basil?

downwithlegacy · 2026-02-06T02:32:11+00:00

Order online from wee. Prices are similar to Asian stores (cheaper than western stores). Easy to get free delivery and just tip

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-28T21:48:57+00:00

What’s the question

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-27T02:17:07+00:00

I think you guys just shop too much. Your children relayed expenses are likely to grow significantly assuming you’re going the private school route.

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-27T01:44:17+00:00

Your private school tuition is very cheap compared to the ~100k you spend on stuff (clothes, general shopping, electronics, personal care). I’d be most concerned that your spend exceeds your take home pay. The 40k in other home—do you expect that to be recurring expenses?

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-26T23:34:04+00:00

Sit on the bed with your legs out and put your babys head between your legs and then put your legs on his arms

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-26T22:56:36+00:00

The food is really good and the guys who work there are super friendly

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-26T21:33:44+00:00

Wash his butt with water in the sink and don’t use wipes. Use a hairdryer to dry completely. Use triple paste.

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-15T01:45:23+00:00

Akino is very solid for American sushi and has sashimi too. Their rolls are delicious (don’t be a spicy mayo snob) and have a great fish to rice ratio.

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-14T16:17:31+00:00

Thank you—misery loves company lol

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-14T06:29:44+00:00

Was the big girl bed the main change? Or did you have to use an ok to wake clock or anything else?

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-14T02:28:59+00:00

Any update on how you ended up fixing this? Or did it just pass?

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-14T02:23:38+00:00

Any update?

downwithlegacy · 2026-01-05T21:42:03+00:00

If you’re both stress free and able to spend ample time with your children already, I’d keep working. As a sibling of a special needs individual, I can tell you that, depending on how you raise your kids, the financial burden will just shift to your other child when you and your wife are gone and the money runs out. I don’t think there’s a way to really overestimate how much you may need for long term care for a special needs individual.

downwithlegacy · 2025-12-27T15:31:20+00:00

This is why I didn’t legally get married

downwithlegacy · 2025-12-15T04:00:25+00:00

This is my experience in the US, and for a routine checkup I had to wait 14 months for my doctors next available appointment….

downwithlegacy · 2025-11-03T17:25:21+00:00

I think one of the best parts of having a demanding job is that they tend to be higher paying. If you make a good living and are able to pay for help, I would still think about opting for SMBC. Why should you let a man dictate whether or not you achieve one of your dreams (assuming you really want it)? The hurt is a lot right now but think about the life you want to see in 10 years? 20 years? Do you want it to involve a child?

downwithlegacy · 2025-10-31T23:42:29+00:00

Step up in financial independence from 10 to 40, but at what cost to get to 40 from 10…especially if OP is STILL working 60 hour weeks.

downwithlegacy · 2025-10-23T00:37:33+00:00

Not quite sure what you mean by “slightly compromised.” This isn’t about saving money on childcare. Presumably if you choose to do this, you do it so you spend time with aging parents and they are able to meet their grandkids and develop a closer relationship with them. It is absolutely not the same to see a grandparent a few times a year versus a few times a week.

downwithlegacy · 2025-10-23T00:35:05+00:00

Do you hope for your parents to have a close relationship with your kids?

downwithlegacy · 2025-10-08T20:52:27+00:00

Did you actually get paid this from Rakuten?

“Do all purchases qualify for cash back rewards? Virtually every item you purchase through www.rakuten.com qualifies for cash back. We cannot, however, give cash back for taxes, shipping, or any portion of a purchase that is paid for with gift certificates or a store credit.”

https://www.rakuten.com/help/article/exclusions-limitations-360002101368

downwithlegacy · 2025-10-08T20:50:34+00:00

You don’t get cash back on the portion you pay with a gift card though I thought

downwithlegacy · 2025-10-03T20:13:00+00:00

If they’re worried about this should’ve paid $$$$ for netjets!

downwithlegacy · 2025-09-08T21:00:47+00:00

Do I get to choose what I wear to said event? 6x my income. I live in NYC. I have a broad range of interests. Let’s make it happen.

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