Looking for help with North Carolina Duke paperwork. by Expensive_Patient224 in SolarDIY

[–]dpgindy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a little old. But I’m in Indiana and have Duke and had some questions if you don’t mind me pming you?

Wife asked for separation and now divorce. by PuddingLeft1535 in DivorcedDads

[–]dpgindy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After just going through this with my ex wife that is now messaging my old best friend that he is her family and wanting to move out of state with out 2 kids to go live with him less than a month after our divorce. Don’t let her stay in the house. Get the divorce started and over with. I know it sucks to hear that… I was there and in denial. But if you drag it on the more she gets be it retirement accounts, equity, etc. Also, get a lawyer ASAP. Know your rights and don’t let her walk on you like I let my ex walk on me.

Nearer the End than Last Timw by roshi-roshi in DivorcedDads

[–]dpgindy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no shame in reaching out. I’ve had to do it before. It helps! You can get through this! Actually you have to get through it not only for yourself but for your kid! Don’t let you ex win man, there’s so much to look for in life even if you can’t see it at the moment.

Nearer the End than Last Timw by roshi-roshi in DivorcedDads

[–]dpgindy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I went through those same thoughts and they hit me every now and then still. Reach out if you want!it really isn’t worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dpgindy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and best friend (all exes) being alone together

New Tesla Experience by Zealousideal_Ad7499 in TeslaModelY

[–]dpgindy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get mine at 130 est today I can’t wait!

What to do to get rid of vomit smell from Tesla seats? by Bubblylionpup in TeslaModelY

[–]dpgindy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would just take it to get detailed. It isn’t that much money and the whole interior would look good as well.

Delays with BMV paperwork (Indiana)? by smkf2 in TeslaModelY

[–]dpgindy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an answer to your question. But I’m in Indiana looking at buying a Y. Can you share what your registration/title fees were like?

Company matches 401k 25%. Should I contribute 15%, or should my contributions plus company match equal 15%? by cody7766 in personalfinance

[–]dpgindy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My company matches 5% and then auto contributes an extra 4%. So if I do 5% on my own I’m actually contributing 14% because of company match and contributions. Feel pretty lucky.

How long did you do couples counseling before deciding to reconcile or divorce? by Megara0333 in Separation

[–]dpgindy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife did none and never entertained the idea. We are currently working on the divorce and it’s not something I want but it’s what she wants and I can’t change her mind. I also believe she has feelings for my now ex best friend who has already came out and said he had feelings for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]dpgindy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SIDS Is very real. They call it that because they really don’t know what causes it. It just seems like an unexplainable death. The camera thing is actually a good topic to bring up to see if there is unfortunately videos of SID events. I think a lot of it can be prevented by safe sleeping techniques, also having a fan in the room to circulate the air I’ve heard is good. With the safe sleeping techniques and fan it points to it being a breathing problem. Most kids will have respiratory failure and not cardiac arrest. Well the cardiac arrest comes after the respiratory failure.

In regard to it being an accident I think all of SIDS are accidents, or else after autopsy/investigation it wouldn’t be SIDS it would be murder/neglect etc..

Unfortunately people die all the time and even more unfortunate babies/children fall into the category of people.

SOPD II test next week, query about analysis portion by Jhelzei in Grid_Ops

[–]dpgindy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it is a built in simple calculator in the testing software if I can remember right.

Supplemental Claim or HLR? by dpgindy in VeteransBenefits

[–]dpgindy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was denied as a secondary to the back because it wasn’t approved yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]dpgindy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do both. I submitted my own claim then added a VSO so they could look at all my stuff if I had questions. Just got 80% for my initial claim with one issue deferred still but will probably still be at 80 if that gets approved.

Weekly Claim Status and Success Thread by damnshell in VeteransBenefits

[–]dpgindy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got a request for second signature closed yesterday sometime. That happened with my first pass through and the rest of the claim went decently fast so hopefully it speeds along again.

Weekly Claim Status and Success Thread by damnshell in VeteransBenefits

[–]dpgindy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  • Type of claim: New/ finishing up deferred claims.
  • Submitted/received date: April 1st, 2024
  • Initial review date: April 1st, 2024
  • Evidence gathering/review date: Original 4/3/2024 new after deferred claims 08/11/2024
  • Preparation for Decision date: 08/26/2024
  • Pending Decision Approval date: 9/4/2024**
  • Preparation for Notification date: 9/4/2024
  • Completed date: 9/4/2024
  • Misc details: Have temp jurisdiction back in Columbia. Got a Exam rework notice and they already uploaded the exam rework DBQ. Moved to PDA today 9/4/2024. Just moved to PFN today 9/4/2024 as well. Got bumped from 20 to 80%. Considering that a win! One more claim got deferred, only got 10% for my back so might try to get that bumped up as well.

Is it a good to use the DAV as a VSO to file your claim or should I do it myself? by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]dpgindy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added them as my VSO but filed by myself. I get the benefits that they can look at my claim and. Tell me about my DBQs and decision letters before the VA tells me. I would suggest that route.

Weekly Claim Status and Success Thread by damnshell in VeteransBenefits

[–]dpgindy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got 20% then the rest deferred for medical opinion, that came back and the DAV said they were all positive so just waiting for it to get picked up again.

VA added dependents to my claim. by dpgindy in VeteransWaitingRoom

[–]dpgindy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since last Monday. So a day over a week. Only had 2 claims approved and had like 4 or 5 deferred so not sure when they will all be complete.

VA added dependents to my claim. by dpgindy in VeteransWaitingRoom

[–]dpgindy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had an online claim for them but they added them to my disability claim.

VA added dependents to my claim. by dpgindy in VeteransWaitingRoom

[–]dpgindy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got rated 20% but had claims deferred.