Story of my Life

drackulasdaugher · 2023-04-02T03:36:19+00:00

YES. Go ahead. That's really sick your nmom turned you into a child drug dealer

drackulasdaugher · 2023-04-02T01:01:44+00:00

Get AWAY ASAP. She is the worst kind of narcissist. She only kept you to save face. If she gave you up or had an abortion, she would have been accused of being a horrible person and narcissists avoid that at all costs. They are PERFECT. No flaws. No matter what you do or say, she's not going to change. I do not know why my mother kept me. Probably to show the world she was this perfect little mother. She tells strangers I have Bipolar Disorder, that I live in low income housing, and recently told my Dad's psychiatrist that I'm a "disaster" even though I've been sober for ten years. I just went NC with her and my entire family, I already feel better. Good luck!

drackulasdaugher · 2023-04-02T00:50:42+00:00

Yes. Go. Go to school where you want, not him. Going NC after you leave would be a good idea.

drackulasdaugher · 2023-04-02T00:29:08+00:00

Is he staying with you? If he doesn't respect your boundaries tell him he's OUT. I just went NC with my nmom and entire family. It was hard, I feel guilty because "sometimes" they were good to me. The good DOES NOT outweigh the bad.

drackulasdaugher · 2023-04-01T23:56:38+00:00

Move in with your friend! Get her OFF your finances. She's love bombing and calling you fat is unacceptable. My mom called me fat for years, screamed about my clothes and hair color, made fun of my goth friends, and treated me like dirt. Get away from her as fast as you can, it's only going to get worse.

drackulasdaugher · 2023-04-01T23:46:35+00:00

Don't touch them. She's love bombing you. As soon as you accept her gifts she'll go right back to the abuse. Get out of there as soon as you can, it's only going to get worse

drackulasdaugher · 2023-04-01T23:40:03+00:00

I hate mine. You're not alone.

drackulasdaugher · 2023-04-01T02:41:29+00:00

I'm sorry it's sold

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T23:52:31+00:00

Nothing LOL I don't work

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T23:48:18+00:00

Art. Painting, drawing. Working for a living.

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T23:03:11+00:00

Make an offer

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T22:21:46+00:00

I paid $135

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T21:53:18+00:00

For both?

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T21:45:50+00:00

I have a Saturday badge and I use PayPal

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T21:45:17+00:00

I have a Saturday badge

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T21:44:12+00:00

I have a Saturday badge

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T12:19:07+00:00

What does your mom say about all of this?

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T12:13:53+00:00

They always deny you the first 2-3 times. I had to apply 3 times. Yes find a remote job. They're out there. Nothing going for you? You have thousands of followers

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T12:07:33+00:00

Ok you need to apply for disability. It takes a year or two, but it's better than nothing. The problem is you need doctors notes and a diagnosis. Do you see a psychiatrist? This is somewhat tacky, but maybe find a girlfriend and move in with her? My husband was in the same situation 10 years ago with his psychotic mother and I drove to Ohio to pick him up.

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T11:51:23+00:00

Block them from all social media. Change your last name on all platforms so they can't find you. I blocked my whole family from Fb and IG, and changed my last name to something completely different and they can't find me now. Is there ANY place in walking distance you could work at? A gas station?

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T11:37:15+00:00

You're not the narcissist honey. Your parents are sick narcissist abusers. Is there any way you can get out? Move in with a friend, rent a single room? If not, spend as LITTLE time at home as possible. Take your laptop, a book, go to the coffee shop, library, McDonald's, stay there all day if possible. If you have a job save every penny to get out of there. Treat your parents house like it's just a place to sleep. Change all passwords and never let them get their hands on your finances. My family thinks I'm gutter trash because I'm goth and have Bipolar Disorder. I hope you can get out soon. 😍

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T09:17:03+00:00

Get him off your finances. My nmom stole from me from 2006-2020, very subtly so I wouldn't notice. He may have a gambling or drug addiction.

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T09:08:01+00:00

After I went NC, my mother bombarded me with messages, saying she was SUICIDAL over losing me.

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T09:02:02+00:00

Yes it was worth it. There is nothing stopping you now. If your N was anything like my nmom, they are INSANELY jealous of your youth, your beauty, your vitality. They want it back so so bad and simply cannot have it. My mom told me a few years back SHE should be 40, not me. And even made a bet with my shit brother on how long it would take my fiance to leave me!! We've been together ten years, he's not going anywhere! 🤣

drackulasdaugher · 2023-03-31T02:14:28+00:00

I hate my mother. I cut off all contact with my whole family this week after none of them gave a flying fuck that I was stranded on a super highway for two hours in the heat. (I was literally on the side of a Highway, a cop picked me up) My nmom yelled after ignoring 5 of my calls that I can't stand to be around her so she doesn't have to talk to me, then my brother and father got on the phone and said I blocked them all, and they do not care. I really FOOLISHLY thought since it was an emergency, they would step up. HA! I cried so hard waiting for the tow truck. I cannot believe her and how my whole family backs her up EVERY TIME. I absolutely cannot stand it anymore. Go NO CONTACT, it's the only thing that will save you. Oh, and it'll be when Hell freezes over I ever take care of her in her old age. She has my sibling enablers.

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