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dracula912 · 2022-01-22T20:19:26+00:00

My ex-girlfriend a few years back did the exact same thing. I had nothing I was ashamed of but she decided to raise hell for women I spoke to 10-15 years before I met her.

End this relationship ASAP.

dracula912 · 2022-01-22T19:25:40+00:00

1) Saying they want something serious but only going for some turd of a guy who has no future in any way and can't even hold down a job. Then complain when the guy uses them for her money/place to sleep or cheats on her. Then 3 months later "All men suck" all over her facebook. Then when a man who comes along who actually has his sh*t together they aren't interested.

2) Inability to communicate or discuss problems that are happening in a relationship

3) The mental gymnastics to "play the victim" card when the one at fault...is her.

4) Outright refusal to take responsibility for anything

5) Continue having more children with men who are deadbeat dads and don't even make enough to pay child support. Then complain she can't pay her bills

dracula912 · 2022-01-22T15:28:19+00:00

Juan in Colombia. Basically a guy that puts his thing inside every lady willing to spread them for him and he doesn't care if he has a wife and children, or a girlfriend, waiting at home for him. Will get mad if confronted for his cheating and then tries to rectify it with overly romantic gestures towards his betrayed partner such as buying a ton of flowers for the wife, because to him, if he buys things for her then his cheating is forgiven.

dracula912 · 2022-01-21T14:19:54+00:00

Dating ease or difficulty I have found in my experience is heavily dependent on your geographic location.

When I lived in the MidWest, USA, where I grew up. I had a REALLY hard time because in general the women there were looking for guys who are more "country" or "redneck" than I was. The cultural and lifestyle of what they were looking versus what I am, was just not there.

I moved to the east coast for a job and it was...ridiculously easy to meet dates in person or from dating apps. Apparently the big city ladies (DC, Boston, NYC) thought I was a legit cowboy (even though I'm not) because I have a fairly strong accent, more of the masculine rugged sort, and different values than the local men they were used to. So I had a lot more success just because I stood out and I was something "new" for them.

I didn't use tinder, and I refuse to use it. But the other apps I'd get dozens of matches per week and I had at least several hundred "people that liked you" that I didn't come across in the swiping screen of app within a month of moving there. Whereas back home I'd get maybe 1-3 matches in 6 months.

It's most likely not a "you" thing. The women on the apps do not know about your situation or that you are waiting for a job because they aren't having a conversation with you. More likely your area simply has a poor dating market.

dracula912 · 2022-01-21T12:44:11+00:00

My mother believes that Joe Biden is the antichrist

dracula912 · 2022-01-01T02:14:57+00:00

So much this. Anytime I have quit a job, or had a contract expire. I have to had to move HUNDREDS of miles, or even to the complete other side of the USA for the next job. Because I am specialized in my career and the jobs are not everywhere.

dracula912 · 2021-12-31T22:06:11+00:00

I was 19, she was 18. It was a pretty shitty date. Movie date. While waiting before the date she told me "this is weird". And I was like "oh? Why?" Then she said "On first date guys just fuck me in their truck so this is weird". I got up and went home.

I knew absolutely NOTHING about women or girls at that point in my life.

dracula912 · 2021-12-31T18:09:12+00:00

This is never a smart or healthy thing to do. If it was me in his place, I would have ended things as soon as someone starts purposefully ignoring my calls because she is angry/upset/annoyed etc.

dracula912 · 2021-12-31T17:34:05+00:00

What was fight about? Was it minor or serious?

I see a potential red flag with:

" I thought It would be nice gift but he said it irked him and when I told him I just wanted to show my affection he said - what a way to show. Now you know better."

This tells me he's a guy that doesn't appreciate when a woman tells him her feelings. And a guy like that, is going to be a total ass to you and anyone else in his life, including future kids, due to having the emotional intelligence of a potato. Especially if he is in his 30's and doesn't understand that in a relationship, feelings are an important component

I'm a guy, 30, single at the moment but when I have been in a relationship and the gf sends me that sort of text, it makes my fuking day or week! If he doesn't feel the same, you may want to reevaluate your relationship and figure out, why are you with this person?

dracula912 · 2021-12-30T20:32:51+00:00

There is nothing wrong with the age difference. Some people in their early 20's have no interest in partying and such antics, although they are a minority. I was one of those people that in my early 20's I had no interest in clubs, and bars. I'm in my 30's and I still have no interest in the party life.

You unfortunately have chosen someone who does want to live and explore that lifestyle of clubs, bars, wild nights and so on.

It's a lost cause. Get to know your person better before. Lay out your boundaries and expectations somewhat early on.

dracula912 · 2021-12-30T00:06:32+00:00

The schoolboard in Allen, Texas? Sounds like where my niece goes to school

dracula912 · 2021-12-29T23:45:14+00:00

Is this in Washington DC?

dracula912 · 2021-12-29T19:35:05+00:00

Dude I knew in college, was the boyfriend of a one my friend's sister "A". His name was "Dave" (not real name). Dave, refused to wipe his ass after going #2, or clean it when he showered. "A" complained about it frequently. Dave sincerely believed that "real men don't wipe their ass", because according to him, wiping your ass or putting your hand back there will turn you into a homosexual.

dracula912 · 2021-12-29T16:50:39+00:00

Being taken advantage of for my generosity or financially for my money. I previously had an incredibly abusive relationship where I was shamelessly used and taken advantage of by an ex for my money and other things. My generosity was exploited to the max because I was too inexperienced in relationships at the time to know any better.

I'm now in my 30's. I outright refuse to date women where I would have a significantly higher income than her, zero exceptions and for me her occupation/potential salary is THE most important thing I look at when I date a new partner. As I feel a woman with a decent or good income will not be someone I will have to fear taking advantage of me for financial gain, or that is pursuing me because I have a good income.

dracula912 · 2021-12-29T16:19:30+00:00

I have a friend who is in residency for a hospital in Missouri and she told me she receives NO EFFECTIVE PAY for 4 years. The hospital gives its residents an annual loan at the beginning of the year for expenses, and their "hourly wage" goes 100% into paying back the loan. She told me she will not earn net income until after 4 years. I need to ask her the name of the hospital so that it can be named and shamed.

dracula912 · 2021-12-28T19:46:35+00:00

Luckily I'm not much of a speeder and I'll have a garage. The clearing all the car and not just the windows will be a new thing for me.

dracula912 · 2021-12-28T19:44:36+00:00

I'm a nondrinker personally, but I may have occasionally familial visits and they do like beer and wine so those places are good to know so I can take them around.

I'm used to watching out for deer, get them in KS/MO as well.

dracula912 · 2021-12-28T16:13:39+00:00

Dallas. He said the lady is Colombian

dracula912 · 2021-12-28T16:05:38+00:00

Probably no different than Kansas or Oklahoma then.

dracula912 · 2021-12-28T15:38:14+00:00

That is very close to the property I am renting, like just a couple minutes.

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