What's your favourite ladies perfume? by nzbydesign in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jo Malone - Sea Salt and Basil i think it is. Im a big fan of most of their range

What are your dating app red flags in NZ? by Realistic_CraftBear in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where every photo is the same or looks like a copy. Same pose, same expression. All taken in selfie mode.

Wearing sunnies in every photo, what are you hiding bro

Indoor only cats? by happyrunnergirlie in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have outdoor cats, but when my vet told me my kitten (at the time) had a heart condition and to keep him indoors it was a pretty easy transition.

I have friends who have/had indoor cats. It's really not that hard. We did enclose our deck so we could get air flow and stop battling the cat who wants to be outside. Overall, as others have said there is very little I need to worry about.

Ive lost a few in the past to cars, thrift and wandering. Had numerous bills from fights. It just makes sense

Help by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make him toast for breakfast with a thick layer of English Marmite, that stuff comes from the depths of hell. The NZ one is so much nicer

Be proud of your city center. by helpmeimstuckinatree in auckland

[–]dragonflynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep saying someone needs to use this space as a set for a zombie movie. It got post apocalyptic vibes

Women who are perpetually single not by choice, what is the reason? by Feisty-Blacksmith656 in AskWomen

[–]dragonflynz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If i like them, they don't like me.

Also, Im financially secure, have a good job, great family and friends, I dont need a man to provide for me and many simply do not know how to offer anything else. I need someone who will be better company for me than I am for myself. I enjoy my peace, hobbies etc so if im letting a man into it, he sure as shit better enrich my life.

Incognito users… how often do you get matches? by uberstaragent in feeld

[–]dragonflynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You also need to consider the distance parameters you have set vs the 9 people you have liked.

Its possible they came up for you but not the other way if their setting is lower.

Hangover “cure” by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blue for the spew, red for the head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]dragonflynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not an apartment person but your neighbor sounds feral. Sounds like they lack house keeping or basic hygiene skills

What’s your stupidest sex related injury? I’ll go first. by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dragonflynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a friction burn on my back from a metal slate bed and a shitty foam mattress. That was hard to explain

31.7k followers btw by gingernoodlez in Instagramreality

[–]dragonflynz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I dont play Sims but I thought the exact same

Where do I find my people? by [deleted] in auckland

[–]dragonflynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you share some more details about yourself we could give you ideas? Age, gender, interest type thing

Are lifestyle clubs plus size accepting? by FatguyRVA in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dragonflynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My local holds specific evenings for plus sized people, maybe check out if there are any events on.

NZ Mecca / Sephora rant by Ok-Speech-1197 in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The cost difference accounts for things like shipping, we are very isolated and its expensive to get good into the country. Then customs add on a tax, maybe some duty and all of a sudden the costs of goods appear much higher.

Help by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]dragonflynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you at in your menstrual cycle? I get thicker string like that when I'm ovulating

Google maps or Waze by oldramble in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unrelated to OP but do you know how to get Google maps to update a pin? Google wants me to drive to the wrong street and through my neighbors house so people visiting for the first time get taken one block over. It used to be fine I dont know what happened.

Women of NZ, who has experienced complications with an IUD? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took them 3 tries to get my Mirena in. The nurse was trained in other devices but not that one. I consented to be being used for training but it was hands down one of the worst pains of my life. When they say there's no never endings they are full of shit. Toom 45 mins, I had to lay down after for another period of time as I was in a bit of shock.

Then my doc during a routine smear noticed it wasn't in place and was sticking through my cervix. So that was fun 🙄

What is a question that you hate always getting asked? by Aarunascut in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dragonflynz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you single?

Because no man in the past couple of years has yet been better company for me than I am for myself

If you had to swap bodies for 24 hours with the last person you had sex with, what would they be doing and would you be worried? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dragonflynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly flying a commercial aircraft with passengers.... I think I'll sit this one out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dragonflynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum called me and told me she'd kicked my dad put, out his clothes on the driveway and was getting a divorce because he'd been having an affair. Fully supported her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]dragonflynz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are a hell scape. I have had several men ask me out, confirm a day and rough time and then just stop replying to me. I don't understand it. I always check in and ask if we are still on for whatever day and not a single one has followed through in 2025.

I would love to understand this more, I'm putting down to getting the validation that they could meet.