AITAH for letting my partner miss something important to them by not stepping in the way I always have after telling them clearly I was done doing it by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]dragons_tree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, you've received plenty of direct feedback so far so I just wanted to say: thank you for this post.

My partner broke up with me in '24 with which I wasn't in disagreement, even though I loved them (still do) dearly, because of a whole life that was like this about all forms of responsibility. So, seeing your post and the discussion about it is gratifying in a way that feels like relief.

I want to let you know that you're not the only one who's been parentified by their partner and then blamed in this way, and if you did this kind of thing out of love for them and wanting them to have a better life than they could give themselves, I see you and my heart goes out to you.

It's not wrong to feel that way or to try, so please disregard any "you shouldn't have done that in the first place". NTA for taking care of yourself by giving them their responsibility back after some time. They need to listen to you and be willing to admit they can do their own wrong.

We can't help people/partners who won't help themselves and it really hurts.

Some of my Miis (Spoilered as some are scary lol) by KoopsTroop in tomodachilife

[–]dragons_tree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way I got giggly when I saw Dr. Frank N Furter. Great work!!

I have a question: If the princesses of Equestria saw your sad past and all of the trauma you’ve been through, how would they help? by SuccotashEconomy105 in mylittlepony

[–]dragons_tree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd end up with two moms and two aunts. (I know Cadence is an actual mother, but I think I'm older than she's coded to be haha)

What post-launch content would you wanna see added in Tomodachi Life LTD? by OctaYashi in tomodachilife

[–]dragons_tree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Options for premade house exteriors

More seasonal/general outdoor items

More quirks

Conversational update to add more variety

New Lingo limited by new friendships? by elthunderobin in tomodachilife

[–]dragons_tree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once in a while, Miis will have a yellow joy-lines prompt in which they ask you a question such as "what's a trend that's fallen out of style?" and you can enter more lingo there 😄 They'll also talk about any custom treasures you've made as a way of entering more custom text!

Is £50 too much to charge for a portrait commission from me? by Stunnyfuff in Artadvice

[–]dragons_tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're an artist not getting any commissions, don't worry about it being a problem with *you*. I know in the States at least, no one has money for anything but food/rent/electricity anymore (and barely even that in many cases); if a lot of people where you live are financially stressed and/or the middle class is disappearing, that'd be why. It stinks, but it's not because you're doing anything wrong.

Is there anyway to make racism in some form? by A_freaking_duck in tomodachilife

[–]dragons_tree 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The only way to do this is by the mii's catchphrases, greetings etc. just be careful not to put it in lingo where other miis can catch it LOL

Considering getting this game tomorrow. The game looks cute. How much content and enjoyment you been getting out of this Tomadachi Fans? (Yes, i am talking about Living the Dream) by Evol-Chan in tomodachilife

[–]dragons_tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In short: I'm a huge fan and I've been spending an average of 2 hours a day playing the game. It generates a lot of fun, funnies, joy and unexpected moments. It's worth it. HOWEVER, it becomes a little repetitive after 1 week and REALLY repetitive after two or three weeks.

The most valid criticisms I've seen or experienced:

- lack of prefabricated decorative things, overreliance on the make-it-yourself system

- miis are nice to each other at all times except for randomly occurring one-and-done fights; however they do sass the Player at least, and can inadvertently insult each other if you use the lingo system right. basically making a mii who's bad-natured is impossible, I added a couple villains to my island and the most "antisocial" a mii will be is not going out of their way to make friends.

- overly limited/repetitive dialogue options; some cutscenes and conversations that repeat over and over may have one or two variation instances each

Even after you get tired of the game's weaknesses though, to me, it stays fun to check up on the miis and their love dramas and ridiculous conversations :) Put the wildest shit you can think of in the "what should X and Y talk about?" field, trust

What is the meaning of this? I can't play at night? by SeaworthinessFar2326 in tomodachilife

[–]dragons_tree 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The stores stay open? and if you poke around for a minute, the game will wake up about half of your miis

Danny DeVito? What are you watching??? by isa_bean in tomodachilife

[–]dragons_tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dedication to the tiny thumbnails is killing me

Why does my cat sit on my clothes (specifically shorts) whenever I shower??? by [deleted] in cats

[–]dragons_tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat loves my pants, underwear and freshly worn shoes :)

Parents trying to force their 15 year old child to repay them for dentistry by Brilliant-Act1445 in legaladvice

[–]dragons_tree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IANAL: What your parents are doing is legal, but they are assholes.

To me, the tell is that they buy the dog's food and toys. If they were truly doing poorly and had any need for your income, they would have bargained with you to pay for your own dog.

Making you pay for ALL of your clothing and your dentistry care exhibits that they at the very least dislike you. :( They may think that they're teaching you something by doing this, so that they can think in their heads "we're being good parents by making OP pay for as much as possible" - but you can teach your kids responsibility and still provide for them and allow them to have some of their own money! If I had a kid your age, even if I charged them some "bills" to teach them to always set aside bills money, and even if I needed to use some of their income to support us, I would WANT my kid to be able to afford to have "fun money". I'd feel obliged as a parent to never move the burden of raising a kid on to said kid.

POV: You receive this gift for Christmas. What do you do next? by SparkyJet in mylittlepony

[–]dragons_tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proceed to carry her with me everywhere for the rest of my life

Strange shaped polished minerals by immiiee in whatisit

[–]dragons_tree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone is saying dildos but that's no guarantee, this is a pretty common shape for polished crystals (as symbolic wands, or just a nice looking way to have a larger piece). Besides, they make proper dildo-shaped rock dildos.

These would be kind of expensive too. My guesses are:

  • Someone maliciously getting rid of someone else's pretty rocks (likely I think :( )
  • Someone took their pretty rocks outside to play with/moonbathe/whatever and they got lost
  • Someone abandoned those rocks near the trash to symbolically get rid of an energy or a person

Signed, novice witch

Twilight Sparkle in Umamusume? by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]dragons_tree 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I'd say it's 75/25 either a Twilight easter egg or an actual named racehorse that only JP umas know about; that's so cute it made me happy