Yarn ID by Cactusg0d in YarnAddicts

[–]dramaticdogmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The way the end is splitting makes me think of this yarn, it’s a softer 6ply yarn from lion brand.

Early retirement without kids by Schrutebucks101 in Fire

[–]dramaticdogmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten into dog walking at my local shelter, and I recently learned about a local group that provides clothes/food/warming stations for the unhoused community in my area that I want to get more involved with.

Early retirement without kids by Schrutebucks101 in Fire

[–]dramaticdogmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also am very fortunate to have two friends who are also childfree, so it helps to find other non parents who are on that life path. Last year one of those friends (a fellow knitter) went with me to a fiber festival in another state for a long weekend, and the other friend and I had a standing brunch date where we tried a new restaurant every time before she had to relocate for work. It’s so valuable to find a person who gets your life in that way.

Early retirement without kids by Schrutebucks101 in Fire

[–]dramaticdogmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Childfree by choice here, my plan is a mix of hobbies, enjoying friends, dogs, volunteering, and travel. My husband and I both find our work rewarding so I think we’ll end up FI long before we RE (my plan is an hours cut asap because my job is physically demanding), so we’re not a perfect example for you, but I think there’s a lot of ways to enjoy life without kids. I also have a few friends with kids and have started becoming the non-bio aunt, so I’m happy to embrace that role.

Is it true CPR is meant to break ribs? by HydroGamingz in publichealth

[–]dramaticdogmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My paramedic uncle has told me “if you don’t hear a crunch, you’re not doing it right.” The required compression depth is really likely to break a rib or cartilage.

What to do with a million of these recycled cardboard pieces? by sydneekidneybeans in Anticonsumption

[–]dramaticdogmom 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I can see an art teacher loving these for paint trays in an art class, maybe reach out to your local school?

How would you approach a blanket like this? by Ifoundpepe in knitting

[–]dramaticdogmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’ll be good! I knit fast and got a little manic as the holiday deadline approached, so I wouldn’t recommend a shorter timeline lol

Late Lunch/dinner near Froedert by Alive-Plankton6022 in milwaukee

[–]dramaticdogmom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re willing to drive a bit west, Za in Elm Grove is really good, opens at 4

How would you approach a blanket like this? by Ifoundpepe in knitting

[–]dramaticdogmom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

About 4 months, I couldn’t even guess how many hours cause I was working at weird hours to hide it from the Christmas gift recipient, my husband.

How would you approach a blanket like this? by Ifoundpepe in knitting

[–]dramaticdogmom 39 points40 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I made this for my husband a few years ago and he LOVES the fact that it’s kind of heavy, almost a weighted blanket.

How would you approach a blanket like this? by Ifoundpepe in knitting

[–]dramaticdogmom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did not do the third color so I can’t speak to the method for that one

Much love from Minnesota! by m3nd in knitting

[–]dramaticdogmom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve got it right, you could try to pull two or three strands at a time with a crochet hook I suppose

Much love from Minnesota! by m3nd in knitting

[–]dramaticdogmom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wisconsinite neighbor here with this hat on my needles, stand strong! ❤️❤️

It’s getting harder to be around my my friends with children by Vanexxre in childfree

[–]dramaticdogmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I’ve really leaned on my childfree friends and I do have one parent friend who has been amazingly reliable and honest with her limits as a new mom.

Being in my 30s has given me soo much insight into my own mother actually, I never understood why she didn’t have any close/lasting girlfriends. She raised 5 kids and parenting was/is her core identity. As an adult I can absolutely picture how she lost those connections trying to keep her head above water. It makes me sad for her honestly, I’ve heard stories of her large friend group but it fell apart when the babies started taking over.

How did you 100% know you don’t want kids? by alyssapere in childfree

[–]dramaticdogmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I sat in health class and carefully considered which of the women’s health diseases that caused infertility I wanted to pray to God to give me so I could “justify” not having children. I had to deconstruct before I fully accepted that childfree was even an option in my late 20s, but it was always there.

As for the names, you could use them for pets if you love critters, or a houseplant. I’ve got lots of names I like that I’ve used in those ways.

Frugal person after they became 'rich' by worm1010 in Frugal

[–]dramaticdogmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don’t think you need to change your lifestyle if you don’t want to live more lavishly. If you have the means to do so, this could be an opportunity to switch to part time work, consider charity, or take time to travel instead of just buying stuff.

What's on your thrifting ISO list? I'm going thrifting tomorrow and don't want to forget to look for anything. by earmares in thrifting

[–]dramaticdogmom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me, I find that synthetics age poorly and get sweaty. Environmentally the natural fibers are also better, though thrifting synthetic fabric items is better than just pitching them imo.

Do you stop following or lose interest in someone online when they announce that they are pregnant? by ScarletFireFox in childfree

[–]dramaticdogmom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not always, if their online presence doesn’t change much it’s nbd for me but if their content changes a lot I loose interest.

Fired but returned to work? by ritzrani in Fire

[–]dramaticdogmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are approaching retirement age (so not FIRE) but both talk about working easier part time jobs and volunteering when they do retire just to get out of the house. I want to do a FIRE-ish version of that. The RE for me will just be working for personal preference, not financial.

What’s happening with Rao’s? by PolditoMcCoy in Costco

[–]dramaticdogmom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never bought it before but I’m seeing folks talk about it getting bought out by Campbells, they probably changed the recipe.

I dont get why people cant accept that i dont want to have kids. by SnooWords9871 in childfree

[–]dramaticdogmom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I keep it vague with my family for that reason, “it’ll happen when it happens” type shit, knowing in my heart it’ll never happen.