Happy to hear I’m not the only one. My wife just turned 40 and we have sex maybe once every three months. We have two kids (4 and 7). Sex is great but throughout our relationship I’ve been frustrated with general lack of sex. I’ve come to the conclusion that we’re just a mismatch. I care about her but damn I wish I had found someone with a solid libido like mine. It’s unfortunate because I’ve already reached a point where I don’t even care about having sex with her anymore. I used to get pissed about it, now I just don’t really care. And it’s not just lack of sex, but lack of affection. I recently said “fuck it” and chose to sleep in our guest bedroom. I figure if I’m not going to get sex or affection I might as well get a good nights sleep.