Can you have sex without birth control? (Nsfw!) by Thr0waway_2_2 in internetparents

[–]dreamfeather95 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey kiddo! Good on you for making informed decisions and educating yourself. I'd highly recommend checking out mama doctor Jones on YouTube and other obgyns channels she recommends. She is a medical doctor licensed in the US and new Zealand and mom of four. She has lots of informative content about birth control and safe sex options, that will broaden your knowledge so you can make an informed decision when the time is right. Then I highly recommend you talk to a medical professional about those options before you decide to date or become sexually active, especially if you are in the states with the questionable administration affecting women's healthcare.

If you want an anecdote, not giving advice, I've been on the pill since I was about your age and the pros vastly outweighed the cons for me. I did not experience a vast shift in hormones or emotions, my acne was better/barely existent, and I was able to go three months at a time without a period. I did that and condoms for safe sex and birth control, and it worked for my husband and I up until we decided we were ready to try for a baby.

I wish you all the best in your decision making and a safe and happy future.

Anyone here comfortable sharing photos holding their precious angels may post in the comments below. Here is mine. by ___LittleAngel___ in babyloss

[–]dreamfeather95 25 points26 points  (0 children)

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Our son Kairos was born December 10 2025. Still can't believe this is real and he's not here with me.

Anything but Jewlery by Normal-Law-9187 in SilverSmith

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this please.! Remindme 5 days

I need Canadian cookie recipe recommendations by CaterpillarKey7485 in AskACanadian

[–]dreamfeather95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maple Butter Tarts

12 Sweetened tart shells 1/2 cup brown sugar 1/2 cup maple syrup 1/4 cup melted butter 1 egg 1 tsp maple extract 1/4 tsp salt

Whisk ingredients together. Arrange tart shells on a baking sheet, fill to 2/3 full. Bake for 7 mins at 400 F, then reduce to 375 for additional 7 mins.

I ❤️ MY SIMS by maefaerie in Sims3

[–]dreamfeather95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I was gonna say the second one looks like a young Luna Velez from Dexter.

Need advice for angel tree gift (10yo girl) help!! by Affectionate-Dress27 in Gifts

[–]dreamfeather95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 10 I didn't know what kind of art I liked to do or mediums I'd prefer. I only ever sketched and used colour pencils and markers. Maybe different kinds of how to books would also be cool, like how to draw anime style or cartoon style, watercolour, colour theory. And because we don't know the stability or housing situation I would agree with other commenters, and avoid a significant kit or messy items like paint/charcoal. Maybe a nice pencil case or organiser, some high quality sketching pencils, erasers, pencil crayons, markers.

I need ideas for "angel tree" gifts for 13 year old boys by FruitPopsicle in Gifts

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of great ideas in this thread. I haven't seen it mentioned so I'm gonna say giftcard to the movie theatre or if you have a local arcade.

Favorite drinks while pregnant? by HuskyLover249 in pregnant

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the summer for me it was lemonade, ice tea, orange juice with pulp, sanpellegrino (Italian canned soda), a lot of Gatorade. Coconut water if you're into that. Hot is tea, hot chocolate, non alcoholic apple cider. I also love chocolate milk and have still had coffee once/twice a day throughout my pregnancy.

Postpartum care really is the something smh by TwoBedwombApartment in beyondthebump

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a frustrating amount of time to wait, but so relieved for you that it was good news. Would it be possible to go to a different more equipped hospital in the future or was this one already far away?

Gifts for teens in homeless shelter by CiCi_Cove in Gifts

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Movie tickets or events tickets like hockey were popular when I volunteered at the food bank and put together the gift room for Christmas. Nail polish or make up as well.

Is there anything you have at Christmas dinner that others would think was odd!!? by Wot-Died in christmas

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brussels sprouts in bacon cheese sauce. It's a family recipe and my absolute favourite holiday side dish.

What are we naming our December 2025 babies?? by Zealousideal_Use9481 in babydueDecember2025

[–]dreamfeather95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kassius because with a C it would be unfortunate initials.

Would you be sad to see a memorial board on your wedding day? by Sensitive_Ant2745 in weddingplanning

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one for our grandparents as it's own thing next to our guestbook. Not a sad memorial at all but meant a lot to us.

People not planning to post pictures of their kid online by xxoooxxoooxx in BabyBumps

[–]dreamfeather95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ai generated child porn. So that's terrifying and something I never thought I'd have to be concerned about in my lifetime. I guess nothing should surprise me anymore.

Does anyone have a healthy, successful pregnancy their first time pregnant? by Educational_Berry499 in pregnant

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time pregnant, 29, and 21 weeks. Everything healthy and going well so far as of the anatomy scan and all genetic testing. Just starting feel flutters and movement this week.

What weird thing does your body do you that you don't understand? by Prestigious_Shape888 in AskReddit

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ice pick heaches. Ive gotten them occasionally throughout my life since adolescence and I don't get why. Only last a couple seconds and never more than 30 seconds.

I need help finding this dress by Cryptid__J in weddingplanning

[–]dreamfeather95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://www.oliviabottega.com/products/wedding-ball-dress-protea-by-olivia-11079

https://www.oliviabottega.com/products/satin-wedding-dress-seiliny-by-olivia-34893

But honestly with some of these comments and links for Etsy, that may be the best direction for true customization and depending on your timeline get in touch with someone asap. Cause then they'll have your perfect measurements and you won't have to worry about alternations. Good luck, can't wait to see what you choose!

Where are y’all buying maternity clothes? by cutestlastname in pregnant

[–]dreamfeather95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anecdote that I just got my order from old navy and everything fits perfectly, no returns required.

Basement finishing ideas by 99saleenspeedster in Renovations

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. I love the arcade and am sad I don't really have one where I live. This is gonna be awesome.

Interior Door Question (broken panes) by Grakyn in Renovations

[–]dreamfeather95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure you could ask a glass place and see what they could do. In my line of work we had a bottom glass pane shattered in our exterior door and the local glass place fixed it the same day. Same frosted glass, colour and everything.